Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Thursday, June 16, 2022
Thankful Thursday~ Blessings and God's Mercy
It's Thursday, and I am thankful today for many things. I've been trying to sort out a lot of thoughts and feelings today to figure out a way to share a story with you. I haven't quite got it all together yet, so let's see how it unfolds as we go through these pictures...
After all, according to my Lipton tea bag, "Inspiration is just a sip away"
And even my dishes are inspiring me to "Believe", and write to you today...
The tea mug says:
"The whole world is a series of miracles, but we're so used to them we call them ordinary things."
Hans Christian Anderson
I know you are probably wondering how I can drink a cup of hot tea when the temperature is rising every moment as we speak... this was the temperature this morning at 10:47 a.m., in the shade:
But I just checked again now at 1:36 p.m., and it is 93 degrees and still rising. So I am inside the cool house, very thankful that our repaired air conditioner is still working just fine. In case you missed THAT STORY, you can go back and read about it HERE. And believe it or not, this cup of hot tea is very soothing to me right now. I'll explain more about that as we move along.
How many of you have noticed the beautiful full moon the past couple of nights?
I have heard someone say this is called the "Strawberry Moon". According to what I read on Google,
"A strawberry moon refers the full moon for the month of June. In 2022, June's strawberry moon qualified as a super moon because it occurred while the moon's orbit was especially close to the Earth – giving an appearance of an even larger and brighter full moon."
I'm glad I didn't miss it. That picture was taken early yesterday morning before it descended over Still Waters Pond. I saw it again late late last night, actually around 12:30 this morning, but I didn't take a picture of it then. I wish I had. But I had other things on my mind.
However, in honor of the "strawberry moon", I thought I would add some fresh strawberries to my salad for lunch today, along with some fresh blueberries, apple slices, spinach, swiss cheese, a few Fritos and some of my super duper "chia seeds" sprinkled over the Marie's Cole Slaw dressing that I always use.
Yes, I love the Marie's Cole Slaw dressing for my regular salad dressing because it has celery seeds in it and it is a kind of sweet and sour creamy dressing that is especially tasty with spinach. The chia seeds added a nice crunch, but I definitely needed to brush my teeth after eating to make sure I got all the seeds out of my teeth. I wouldn't want them to sprout chia seed green hair! LOL. It was a very tasty salad.
For breakfast I had some of the blueberry bran muffins that I baked a couple of mornings ago. (along with a scrambled egg)
And for a snack with my tea I should be having one of these peanut butter cookies that I baked a couple of days ago also. I don't do a lot of baking usually in the summer time because of the heat and our gas range really throws out a lot of heat in the kitchen, but the family loves some kind of cookie snack and the store bought kind aren't always as good. So once in a while I get busy and do some baking to keep everyone happy. I think they are almost gone anyway. I'd better save some for the guys.
Back to nature for a few minutes while I collect my thoughts...saw this "yellow bellied slider" turtle roaming through the yard again the other morning. I don't know if she is looking for a place to lay some eggs or what is going on. She wandered off into the brushy woodsy area maybe to have some privacy.
This is a little fuzzy, but one of our blueberry bushes is finally getting some ripe berries! Thankfully the birds haven't found them yet. I'd better keep an eye on them.
I wandered around our yard this morning before it got too hot, (well, that's when it was 89 degrees), and I was most appreciative for our big live oak trees in the front yard that help keep that part of the yard and house cooler. They are messy trees, with TONS of acorns for the squirrels and millions of little leaves that fall in early spring that create a real big mess to rake up, but they stay pretty much covered in leaves year round so they are a constant source of shade. For that part we are very thankful.
I also wandered around to the butterfly garden area, which needs weeding really badly, but it has been much too hot even in the early morning to be doing any weeding right now. It's all I can do to keep it watered because we haven't had much rain at all. But the flowers are still blooming and growing and I enjoy looking at it even if it does need weeding.
This beautiful Gloxinia is blooming again! This is a plant that I brought with us when we moved here almost 3 years ago. It was in a little pot, and it kept blooming and blooming. I finally planted it in the Secret Memorial Garden, and this is the first time it has bloomed since it was planted in the ground. I love it's beautiful purple velvety blossom, don't you?
These little some kind of sun flowers say they are very sun tolerant, but I've had to water them constantly to keep them growing. Thankfully they are finally starting to bloom again.
I needed to sit outside in the shade of the Secret Memorial Garden this morning and spend some time praising God for His kindness and mercy once again.
This little Cuban Anole, or "Brown Anole", was keeping a close watch on me while I sat in the garden.
He kept showing off his bright orange "dewlap" while he sat there, but it was hard to get a picture of it while fully open.
He wanted me to know that he was the king of this "jungle", and I'd better mind my manners. They tend to be very territorial. They are fun to watch, but they are an invasive species that has pretty much driven out the cute little green gecko chameleons in Florida, and so I really wish he would just move on, but I'm afraid they are here to stay.
Mr. Bluebird was also keeping a watchful eye over me and over the birdhouse where his babies are still hiding out. I don't know why they haven't fledged yet. It seems like it's past time...but they know when it is time to move out and I need to not interfere. I just keep praying that big old ugly crow will stay away.
Mama and Papa Bluebird are also extremely protective and territorial, driving away any other birds that happen to fly too close to the nest or the whole back yard for that matter. My pretty red cardinals and other birds have to try to steal a seed from the bird feeder on the sly and hope the Bluebirds don't catch them.
But soon enough the babies will fledge and the family will move on to the next place, wherever that may be. So I will enjoy watching them while I can. I wonder if they will have one more brood of babies this summer again like they did last year? Time will tell.
Okay, so I've come to the end of the pictures and I still haven't told you about what is on my mind. I mentioned that I saw the full moon last night around 12:30 a.m. If you know me at all, you know that I am usually in bed LONG before that, and last night was no exception to that rule. It took me a while to get to sleep, but I am sure I was pretty much out of it before 10:30 or thereabouts. So you can imagine my concern and dismay and shock to hear someone pounding on our front door around 12:30 a.m. My husband and I both jumped up out of bed to run to the door without giving much thought to what we were wearing. Thankfully my gown covers the subject. But anyway, my first thought was that our son had somehow either forgotten his key or had locked himself out accidentally. He was not home when we went to bed earlier, and we had not heard him arrive home. But he is usually home before that time as he has to get up early to drive a long distance to work each morning.
We were shocked and very concerned to see two law enforcement officers standing there.
A parent's worst nightmare.
My heart started racing as the officer said "I'm sorry to bother you at this late hour, and I don't know how to tell you this, but..." and my mind was imagining every possible scenario as I clung to my husband's arm. I didn't want to hear the next words that I feared were going to come out of the officer's mouth. He kept kind of stammering around the subject, asking my husband where he had been and if he had been out in the car that evening, which of course he had not. He said our car had been involved in an accident...and I'm thinking what is he talking about? Our car is right there in the driveway where it belongs and it hadn't left. I'm getting very confused, and the officer keeps questioning my husband and telling him to just tell the truth. What? I'm thinking this man is going to tell us that our son has been involved in an accident and is possibly either seriously injured or worse yet, dead. That is where my brain was at that moment, and I couldn't understand why the officer wouldn't come out with the whole story. Finally, after what seemed an eternity to me, we realized he wasn't talking about our car, but our son's truck. Our son and my husband have the same first name, and therefore the officer was also very confused. But our son's truck was right there in the place where he usually parks it.
And at that moment I realized:
Glory Hallelujah! My son must be at home in bed!
And so I ran to his room and praise God, there he was, sound asleep in his bed. I woke him up and told him what was going on, and he groggily got up, got dressed and came out to talk to the officers.
Long story short, there had been an "incident", not an accident. Apparently a kind of road rage incident, and from the story I heard, not totally our son's fault, but the other party had called in his tag number to the police. No one had been hurt, and whatever really happened will now be up to the court to determine...it's a "his word against her word" kind of situation. I wasn't there so I cannot say who was right or wrong. The judge will have to decide. And our adult son will have to abide by whatever the outcome of that decision may be.
All I can say as a mother is Praise God, my son is alive! My worst nightmare did not come true.
And when the officer was finally finished interrogating our son I told the officer what I thought he was going to tell us that night, and then I broke down and hugged my son so tightly and cried and cried. My son apologized for causing us such anxiety. Finally we were able to go back to bed and after a while I was able to go back to sleep, but not before praising God again for sparing our son.
Yes, I hesitated to share this story with you because it would be an admission that our family is less than perfect. People who know us well already knew that. That's not new news. But I decided to share it with you because to me it was a more important story of God's mercy and grace. The ending of this story could have been so much worse. It could have been a horrific tragedy. Other people's lives could have been terribly changed in a moment as well. There could have been other lives lost, not just the possibility of our own son's life. We just never know when our loved ones go out the door if they will come back home to us again. Last evening we actually had had a wonderful time with our son before he left to go visit a friend. He had just been offered and had accepted a very good new job opportunity, with a nice raise in pay. The job is in another city where his friend lives, who had already offered him a room for rent so he wouldn't have to commute back and forth to work like he's been doing now for so long. It was a real blessing and an answer to prayer for our son, as almost half of his pay has been going into gas and car expenses, not to mention the question of safety on the roads. And so to have such a joyous event spoiled by an almost tragic ending would have been even more heart breaking.
And so today I truly want to give God praise and thanks for His kindness to our family.
"1 Out of the depths I have cried to You, O Lord;
2 Lord, hear my voice!
Let Your ears be attentive
To the voice of my supplications.
3 If You, Lord, should mark iniquities,
O Lord, who could stand?
4 But there is forgiveness with You,
That You may be feared.
5 I wait for the Lord, my soul waits,
And in His word I do hope.
6 My soul waits for the Lord
More than those who watch for the morning—
Yes, more than those who watch for the morning.
7 O Israel, hope in the Lord;
For with the Lord there is mercy,
And with Him is abundant redemption.
8 And He shall redeem Israel
From all his iniquities."
Praise God!
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This touched my heart. Thank God, thank God, thank God. Hope in the Lord. Yes, hope in the Lord. 💙
ReplyDelete(Your family sounds pretty perfect to me. 🙂 But it is true, no one is perfect.)
Thank you, Sandi. Yes, hope in the Lord. Amen. Thank you for the kind words. No one is perfect, and anyone who thinks they are just hasn't lived long enough yet. Sorry to say that, but it's true. But with God there is mercy and grace and I am SO thankful.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteThank the Lord!,,,
ReplyDeleteThank you, and Amen!
DeleteI just love the turtle. The things you shared with sayings or words are very nice. I had never heard of a strawberry moon but let me tell you that this month our strawberries are huge. Your salad looks delicious.
ReplyDeletethank you, Debby. Those strawberries came from California, BTW. I prefer our Florida berries, but they are over with for the season. They come really early in the spring and it is too hot for them now. But these were good and the salad really was good.
DeleteOh Pamela, I would have felt the same way. That officer did not have a very good "bedside" manner. I'm glad you shared. I don't believe anyone has a picture perfect family. I know I have had my share of worries about my adult sons as well.
ReplyDeleteYour photos were great and I enjoyed that little guy - whatever he is. Oh and the turtle just walking through your garden. How cool is that?
BTW, I posted a photo of me and my mom - that your photo reminded me of.
You take care and I am so happy your son was safe. The rest is in the hand of God and the court system.
Amen, and thank you. Your comment has helped me feel better about posting this. I almost came here to take it back down for privacy reasons, but then again I think we all need to know that we are here for each other even during difficult or troubling times. No one has a perfect family, and if they think they do, they are fooling themselves. I agree with you about the "bedside manner". I thought the exact same thing. I wanted to tell him he needs to go back to the training academy and get some pointers on public relations, etc. I mean, I always 'back the blue". My hubby used to be a State Trooper, so he knows what that feels like, but even he was upset at the way this fellow kind of mishandled this thing. There was more to it but suffice it to say I am very very thankful for the final outcome regardless. God is so kind and good to us.
DeleteOh my what a scare that must have been. I’m so glad he’s okay.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cathy. Yes, it truly was a scare, but we are so very thankful for God's mercy and grace. We know He will work all things together for good...even discipline is a good thing, right? Praise God. Thank you.
DeleteI can only imagine the emotions you experienced and yet the relief at seeing your son must have brought such joy that he was safe. The roads are such dangerous places today I am sure that god will be with your son in the next steps. Will keep your family in prayer.
ReplyDeleteThis must be from Betty again? Somehow it came through twice. But always good to hear from you as many times as possible. Thank you.
DeleteI cannot imagine the emotions you experienced and the joy when you saw your son was safe. The roads are dangerous places today, I know god will be with your son in the next stage of the process. I will keep your family in prayer
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Betty. I appreciate your kind words of encouragement. Yes, my emotions have kind of been all over the place the last couple of days, but we are so very very thankful for the fact that our son is alive and well and has a positive future ahead of him. This other issue will be resolved and thankfully no one was hurt...just some ruffled feathers apparently... and some hard lessons learned. We do appreciate the prayers especially. Thank you so much. God bless you my friend.
DeleteThat sounds like an intense night. I am sorry for the anxiety it caused. You are doing well to thank God through it all. May justice be the final result. God is good.
ReplyDeleteAs for being perfect...no one is. Sounds normal to me.
May you get some cool mornings so you can tend to your outdoor tasks as you'd like and not all at once either, so you'll need a few of them.
Thank you, Vee. You are very wise and kind. I appreciate your words of encouragement. Yes, God IS good and we are blessed to know Him. And thank you for the hope for cool mornings. I don't see too many on the near horizon. Supposed to be 94 again today, and it is already hot and humid as I write this morning before 7:00 a.m. We may have cool mornings again in September. LOL. (maybe). LOL. But perhaps sooner. God is good and we are very thankful for what we do have. Thank you for visiting. You are a blessing.
DeleteYour photos are so beautiful and interesting. I like that little Cuban Anole. Nature is so full of wonders, and I like your dishes and the quotes too. "The whole world is a series of miracles, but we're so used to them we call them ordinary things." Love that one. Creation is a miracle.
ReplyDeleteI can really feel for you what you were going through not knowing what was going on with your son and concern he might have been in a wreck or something, Thank God he is fine. I'm glad you shared, my life is not perfect either and I don't know if anyone's lives are even close to that, yet God is so good, and his mercies are new every single morning. Sorry you had to go through that with the officer but happy that your son is fine
Thank you Cheryl. I appreciate your kind thoughts. We are very very thankful that what could have been a terrible tragedy ended up good, and our son still has a good future to look forward to as well. Yes, God's mercies are new every morning, and we are so blessed to know Him and receive His mercies and blessings. Thank you for visiting and encouraging me today.
DeleteOh my gosh, Pam, my heart was pounding too as you told this story. Good golly, we Christians all know that there is only one person who was/is perfect and that is our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. We are all human and we are all imperfect! Praise God Scott is okay and hopefully the Judge will make the right judgement. Now... your salad looks absolutely delicious!! Your muffins and cookies do too. I always love seeing the beauty and wildlife in your garden and on the pond. Love & hugs!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Terri. I am sure everything is going to be fine. We are just so thankful he is okay, and he has some positive things to look forward to with a new job and finally moving out of mom and dad's house! LOL. God is good. And yes, the salad was delicious. I think I'll make another one today!! thank you for visiting. Wish is was for real! :)
DeleteOh my goodness!!! I am glad Scott is ok, and hopefully all the sides with be taken into consideration...and I am happy for him for the job etc. You'll have to let me know where he is working etc...and praise the good Lord--he wasn't hurt and for having the heart etc. to try to handle it /the situation by himself...he must of been scared too.
ReplyDeleteKeeping in prayer.
Thank you, Linda. Praying all will come out okay. I'm just thankful he's okay. Everything will be fine, and he's excited to be finally moving out and not having to keep commuting so far. He'll actually be working in Jacksonville now. Thankfully he has a friend with a room to rent. It will be a big change for all of us, but at least it is a positive change and we are very thankful.
ReplyDeleteMy heart was up in my throat reading the last part of your post! I'm so glad that it wasn't what you feared. I enjoyed our walk around your garden today! I'm praying that everything works out for your son. Great news that he won't have to commute any more.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Melanie. Trust me, my heart was up in my throat as well. I don't think I've fully recovered it. It was that traumatic. But praise God for a much better outcome than I feared. And yes, everything else will work out. It's all very minor compared to what it could have been. God is good and we are most thankful.
DeleteOh wow, Pam! What a story!! I am so thankful it isn't as bad as originally feared. My mind would have thought the same things as you. As for not being perfect, you are good to point that out since some tend to get an erroneous impression that we bloggers live a perfect life. Of course we don't. The rain falls on the good and the evil. But as bloggers we try to make the best of even the worst of situations. Your candor is good for all of us.
ReplyDeleteI know we don't always tell "the whole story" for the protection of the innocent, etc., and also we don't need to air our "dirty laundry" for the world to see...but in some cases we need to share the grace and mercy of God to encourage each other and to let others know they are not alone in their own sorrows and difficulties of life. We all go through hard times sooner or later, and it's good to know we have friends out here who understand and care enough to pray and share words of hope with us. I know you understand that very well after all you've been through in the past couple of years. Your situation has been a testimony of God's love and grace and comfort to us all. Thank you for being open and sharing your life experiences with us. You just never know who might need to hear these things. Have a blessed and wonderful weekend.
DeleteYour experience with the policeman at your door was scary. Since Roger was in high school, every time he went out the door, I would tell him, "I love you." Now, it's how I end a phone conversation with him. I will be praying for Scott.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cecelia. Yes, we always tell our son "I love you" when he goes out the door or even when he goes to bed at night...still, even though he is in his mid 40's. We just never know when it will be the last time we have that opportunity. We do the same with our other son and did with Matthew as well. Thank you for your prayers. That means a lot.
DeletePraise God that Scott is alive and well!!! Physically, that is. I can only imagine how your blood ran cold at the sight of those officers... but gosh, that one needs to brush up on his people skills, don't you think? By the time he got the right words out, y'all could have suffered a heart attack. Praying right now for a good resolution!
ReplyDeleteBTW we're setting all sorts of heat records up here. Tom's daughter flew in from Phoenix last night and went with us to an outdoor concert. Unaccustomed to the humditity, she was soon soaking wet. I'm fixing to throw together some farmer's market peaches and a big old salad. Stay cool, and please give Scott another hug!
Thank you, Myra. Yes it was a very scary few minutes, and I haven't fully recovered from the trauma of it yet. But I am SO very thankful for God's mercy and grace shown to our family once again. And yes, I've thought about the officer's "people skills" as well. I never want to put an officer of the law in a bad light, but this fellow really needs some further training in several areas. But I won't go there. The other guy who was there with him as back-up was much more understanding of our situation and seemed to "get it" However, he was not the officer in charge. That's okay, it all ended up fine and God is in control and we are very very thankful. Oh, your poor daughter with the high humidity! I can certainly imagine how uncomfortable that was for her. Especially when you aren't used to it. Right now you can't walk outside for five minutes without breaking into a sweat. It's terribly hot. Praying for rain and a cold front to move through. Oh, peaches sound wonderful. I bought some at the store, but they need to ripen a bit before eating. I hope they will be good. We don't have any good farmer's markets around anymore to get good fresh vegetables and fruits, so I have to get what I can at the grocery store and take my chances. And yes, I will be giving Scott lots of hugs when I can before he moves out on Sunday...my nest will be empty...which isn't the first time, but we will surely miss his presence here every day. He's our best dish washer and grill cook too! Oh well...time to move on. We are very thankful.
DeleteFirst of all, praise the Lord your son is okay. I understand your feelings because we have had the police knock on our door in the middle over a situation with our son. I sincerely pray all turns out to be okay for everyone. Loved all your pictures, nature is so beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mary. Things happen in life. We can't control everything, but thankfully we know our God is in control and He will work all things together for the good of those who love Him. So I am praying all will work it for the best...and as far as I am concerned, the best is that our son is okay. It could have been so much worse. Thank you for your kind and understanding words. God bless you my friend.
DeleteHugs my friend. Regine
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Thank you, Regine. I appreciate your hugs so much. Have a blessed day my friend.
DeleteWhat an upsetting incident, Pam, and understandably you were relieved to find Scott safely at home and the truck as well. The attitude of that officer does seem like it could have been a factor in your distress and added to your anxiety, but of course anytime an official call is made at such a late hour anyone would be upset. As for your decision to share this incident, it most likely has helped you heal. Glad your son was safe and he has a lot of good things to look forward to. Please keep us posted on what happens in the future.
ReplyDeleteThe garden tour was lovely, but Yikes on those temps. Glad the AC is working well after the repairs.
I am late reading. Wow, what a night. I am so glad it all worked out and yes, I know there is a kink in the future, but it sounds good that Scott has a chance to get ahead. I pray it all works out just fine. I am sure it will. The photos are always so pretty.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fright you had. Thank God he turned it all to good. Praising God with you for a good outcome and also for answered prayer for your son's new job.
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