What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Tuesday, June 28, 2022

Tuesday 4 and More..."Looking Back"

 Good Morning Friends...I was a bit "awol" yesterday...been dealing with some health issues and finally went to the doctor. Praise God! I do NOT have the big ugly C-virus, but have had a bad sore throat and sinusitis this past weekend. Now I am on antibiotics and hopefully this too shall pass. My hubby has also been sick all last week with bronchitis, and he is finally on the mend as well.  So we just want to give thanks to God for His comfort and healing.   

So now it is Tuesday and time for Tuesday 4..., so buckle up and here we go:

Looking back...

Hello friends and once again welcome to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4. I am so happy to have people joining in and making this so much fun.

"I am listening to a nostalgic music channel right now with songs of the 40's and it made me think that perhaps we could discuss some
nostalgia here. I hope you will enjoy thinking about these questions this week." (per Annie, our hostess)


1. What music were your parents listening to when you were a kid? Does that music bring back memories for you?
My parents loved the music of the 40's, since they met and were married in the early 40's.  They loved the Big Band Era, and always loved to listen to Guy Lombardo on New Year's Eve. Of course, every Saturday night we all had to watch the "Lawrence Welk" show on TV. They loved all of that music, and I enjoyed it too, actually. My father had quite a big record collection, and as he got older you could often find him in his special room, which was also his "Train Room" for his toy train collection, playing records while he worked on his trains. 

My Dad in his train room, showing off his train collection to my grandson Noah and my son Matthew.


My parents both loved music of all kinds. My mother had played a violin in her school orchestra, and then she took violin lessons again after she retired.  She was never what you would consider really really good at it, but she enjoyed playing and that is what mattered most. She also became their church choir director when she retired. And my Dad always sang in the choir as well as in Barber Shop Quartets/chorus. So yes, I heard all kinds of music in our home growing up. And yes, if I hear something that I know they loved, it definitely brings back happy memories.


2. What was your favorite meal and beverage as a teenager? Is it still or have things changed for you?
My mother in her kitchen, cooking up something good I am certain!

Gosh, I don't remember any particular favorite meal. Anything with mashed potatoes and gravy. I had two big older brothers who played football, and I used to try and eat as much as they did! I was always trying to impress them somehow I guess. Typical little baby sister.  LOL. My mother was a good cook and anything she cooked was good to me.  Beverage: My least favorite beverage was milk, unless it had chocolate in it.  We didn't drink iced-tea very often back then, so if it wasn't milk, it was probably water. However, I know I loved Root Beer and Root Beer Floats, or even a Coke Float. I didn't drink a lot of sodas, but when I did it was usually one of the above, or orange soda. As for today, I still love mashed potatoes and gravy with most any kind of roast or chicken. And I still don't like milk. I usually drink water with my meals, or unsweet iced tea. I rarely drink any kind of soda anymore, but occasionally a ginger ale or root beer. 

Looking forward to a wonderful turkey dinner...my sister Doris, my mother and my brother Clifford, and me:




3. As a teen did you live in a city, country, small town? What was it like for you there. Tell us about your hometown please?

This is a picture of my old hometown, the way I remember it most as a young girl.  It has changed quite a bit since this picture was taken in the 1950's, but to me this is the way it will forever be etched in my mind.



It seems like I've written quite a bit about my hometown before. Click HERE for the most recent post about my hometown.  There are other links within that post to previous posts about my home.  To sum it up, I grew up in a small town, which I loved dearly.  Our home was in the country, about three miles out from town. I loved living in the country, surrounded by woods and lakes. I guess that's why I am still a country girl, and still love the woods and lakes.  I don't think I could survive in the city for very long.

4. Would you like to live in your hometown today? Why or why not?
My hometown is still a very nice place to live, but most everyone I knew from there has moved on. I don't have any family living near there, and I think it would be very hard for me to go back "home" without them there. It just could never be the same again for me. However, I would certainly recommend it to anyone who was interested in living in that area. It's still a relatively small town in a prime central Florida region.  Where I currently live is about 70 miles from my "hometown", so I could still go back and visit pretty easily...but it would need to be for something special, like a class reunion or to meet up with old friends for lunch. Or sadly, for a funeral.  I've had to do that already for a classmate, and those are the kind of trips back home you hate to have to make...but the older we get, the more often I know that will happen.  We really need to get together more often while we are still able to enjoy our visit! So, if any of my "old friends" are reading this, we need to plan a get-together soon. We aren't getting any younger!

This is a picture from our 50 year-Class Reunion, which was about 4 years ago. There were only 50 members in our senior class, and sadly we've already said good-bye to way too many, and of those of us who remain, this was all who were able to attend.  We were a very close-knit group of kids. Most of us attended the same schools for all 12 years, so we literally grew up together.  Lots of precious memories of days of yore in this group of people...

This was our whole class in 2nd grade:

This is a close up of the section where I was...on the front row, to the right of the white kitty cat, and I had a flat hat on my head and a dark sweater;

So yes, I have a lot of precious memories from growing up in my hometown. But I've learned in life that you can never really go back and recapture the way it was.  It's better to cherish the precious memories in your heart and keep moving forward.  This is where our lives are today. 






Thank you, Annie, for coming up with these questions this week.  I hope you have a blessed and wonderful week!  

22 comments:

  1. Lots of neat memories here! Was the Ed Sullivan show on Saturday night? I thought it was on Sunday night. I guess I remembered wrong. I do remember watching the Smother's Brother's Comedy Hour on Sunday nights. I remember watching the Beatles on Ed's show - their American television premiere!

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    1. Ed Sullivan was Sunday night, Lawrence Welk was Saturday night. I remember the Smother's Brothers too. They were funny. And yes, I was watching the Beatles on that night as well! I think every girl from our era was watching on that night!

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  2. Praying that you and hubby are both on the mends. Hugs and blessings, Cindy

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  3. Wonderful answers! So happy to meet you! I am following from Tuesday 4! Have a great week! Annster

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  4. Wonderful pictures today, I really enjoyed the one of your dad in his train room. You are blessed to have these precious memories of a home town. My Daddy's job took us all over the southern states and few states up north, including Canada. I never really had a home town until we came to La Porte where I met Mr D and I never left.

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  5. I love your memories and the old photo of your hometown is so neat. Hope you feel better really soon.

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  6. Glad you're both feeling better. I was down with the same thing-tested negative for the flu and you-know-what, but had the same symptoms. There seems to be a lot of whatever it is going around. Antibiotics and lots of fluids and rest seem to do the trick!

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  7. It is nice to read your memories of growing up. My folks loved music also, so I grew up listening to many different types .

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  8. The way you wrote about #3 and #4 is how I feel about my mom's hometown. I always loved to visit there and I definitely have a picture of there in my mind, but it was the older days when the town was thriving. There is also no one there anymore for me to visit, so we do not go there anymore. It is Muskogee, OK. You might remember Josh and I going with my parents to visit when Josh was little. Everyone has passed away now. :( Loved your answers! Have a nice week.

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  9. I still live in my "hometown". Hubby is from the southern part of Indiana. We used to go down to his hometown to see friends. Roger now lives in the same county that his dad grew up in. Lately, we haven't bee able to go down there nearly like we used to.

    My parents were married during WW2, all the music my dad liked was from that era, Big Band, Tommy and Jimmy Dorsey, the McGuire sisters. You get the picture.

    My favorite beverages were Kool-Aid and Iced Tea. I remember the little packets of Kool-Aid before they added the sugar to them. THey were ony a nickel each. We drank coca-cola on special occasions. These were the 6 ounce glass bottles.

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    1. Grew up on Kool aid… I moved to Florida last year after three years in Indy. Love. Brown County forever. My daughter grad I U in 1995 and settled in Greenwood. Love the area

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  10. Isolate when possible…continue to mask..and vaccinate vaccinate…to those who don’t care, others do…the seniors, yours truly, dangerous for us…one of my bloggers has a sister ill now…love your blog love it 900,000 gone in our nation and still counting all because…Christians care,,,

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  11. I did not like milk either. We were so poor that I drank water. Mother made the sweet tea..I did not like it’s treat was a Coke in a small bottle. Wow. Or going into a gas station and pulling out a bottle of orange from the icy cooler. Amazing. I have been a vegetarian for 30 years but In the poor days my favorite was hamburger with mustard and pickle. When my boyfriend, later husband, and and I went to Burger Boy in high school, 15
    Cents for burger and add fries and drink. I was so tiny and never hungry. He ate his and half of mine lol. I have to add my favorite food is pizza…cheese with pineapple and thin crust. I like the way you make yours blogs into a story and don’t just do canned responses. Thank you. I like the way you do not whine or critique others. Prayers for my blog friend with her sister in hospital with Covid and serious…her husband in hospital with pneumonia…

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  12. That was a sweet post about your home, and looking back. I do that a lot too.

    My hometown is San Francisco and Pacifica (22 miles south of SF) and I haven't been down there in 5-6 years. It's not the same as it was when I was young. I never was a country girl - part of my life I lived in a city which I loved - not knowing any other difference. Then dad moved us down the coast, a rural small town. I hated it there for the first year - missed all those city ways. I raised my sons in the Silicon Valley. Then after my folks died, we decided to cut our ties to the bay area and live a more simple life. While I don't live in the country, my town is still very rural in many areas. We do have the best of both worlds - a downtown and country. I love it up here.

    Anyway, I enjoyed your post; like always.

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  13. Great post with wonderful photos. It makes me so happy that people are enjoying Tuesday 4.

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  14. Such sweet memories. I liked your statement near the end of not being able to go back but cherishing those memories... and keep moving forward and I will add keep making new ones.

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  15. I hope that both you and John will be feeling better very soon, Pam. I also grew up listening to music from the Big Bands and watched Lawrence Welk on Sat night and Ed Sullivan on Sunday eves. We also watched several of the popular westerns including The Rebel, Maverick, Bonanza, Have Gun Will Travel.

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  16. So sorry to learn you and John haven't been feeling like crispy critters! (Doesn't that sound better than the en vogue term, 'challenges'?) I'm late arriving, but wanted to say how much I enjoy your recollections ... no doubt because in many ways they mirror my own! When my father was home, yes. Our little apartment was filled with the sounds of Big Band and Dixieland Jazz greats. I dont recall my mother being especially fond of any one genre, but I'd catch a little smile every now and then when I'd put on the Fab Four. Ed Sullivan was appointment TV, as was Lawrence Welk. Must confess, this only child probably had a 'girl crush' on the Lovely Lennon Sisters and followed their lives through the pages of Photoplay magazine, etc. The Smothers Brothers? Yep. Remember "Pat Paulson for President"? All this is fun, but I don't want to monopolize your blog any longer. As ever, thank you for so many reasons to smile!

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  17. Hi, Pamela! Yes, we're finally home from our adventures, and I will be back to blogging this coming Tuesday. I've so missed reading your posts, and so enjoyed this one, especially about how we truly can never go "home" again - that is so true for me. Sure hope both you and John continue to heal from your infections!
    Blessings!

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  18. I am so sorry to be late getting here, Pam! My friends stayed way too long last night for me to have time to visit blogs. I surely enjoyed your photos (especially) and reading about your childhood and your hometown!! You are right that we had very similar upbringings! Love & hugs!

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  19. I enjoyed watching Lawrence Welk. That train room is amazing. Our James would go crazy over it! I like a town with a main street. We went to our 45h reunion. They get harder and harder to go to. We actually have a few people in our class who still send out emails when someone passes away from our class of '69.

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  20. Oh my goodness. Your dads train room is so awesome! I kind of wanted to eat dinner at your house growing up. I love mashed potatoes and gravy

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