What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Tuesday, August 6, 2024

Tuesday 4~ Friendly Chat and Other Updates


"So Dora.. how's life lately?"

 Okay, let's start out with updates about Hurricane Debby, since my post last night I wasn't able to add pictures and had to cut it short due to Wifi/Internet issues due to the storm. Thankfully that did finally get settled and everything has been fine today.  Hurricane Debby blew through here pretty quickly, and by this morning all we are having is a few intermittent light showers and a nice breezy day.  The sun is even trying to shine as I write this at 2:30 p.m. Tuesday.   Sorry I didn't get back sooner, but we had some things to take care of this morning and this is the first time I've felt like sitting down at my computer and writing.

I promised you some pictures of Still Waters Pond during and after the storm.  Many of you already saw them on Facebook.  I can't seem to post the videos here, so here's the latest photos:

This was during the storm:



And here is how Still Waters Pond looks today:
I took this picture from over at the "new house" next door lot:
Speaking of which, nothing has been done since I last wrote about the house next door. The storm came along and that took care of anymore work being done until things settle down and dry out. So I promise there will be more to come when there's some new action.

I did see this beautiful butterfly while I was over there. He was flitting all around, but this was the only time he settled long enough for me to get a picture. This is a Spicebush Swallowtail Butterfly. Isn't he beautiful?  I do wish I could have gotten some more pictures, but he's busy doing what butterflies do before their time is up. So I let him enjoy his freedom and happy life.
He was a beautiful gift after the storm. And yes, we are very very thankful for all the ways God watched over us during the storm. We know that many people have not been so fortunate and are dealing with flooding and no power and downed trees.  Our hearts go out to them, and we pray for their safety first of all, and then for their homes to be restored. For many it may be a long time. When it comes to storms, we take nothing for granted, and try to be prepared, but everything else is left up to God.
Therefore, we are always extremely thankful when we come out on the other side with little damage and no major issues to deal with. 

One of the things I was doing this morning was re-caulking our kitchen sink.  Yesterday I discovered some water underneath the sink. After we checked everything to do with the plumbing, we could not find any leaks. I finally decided that the water must have come from around the caulking at the back of the sink, as it was in very poor repair and needed to be replaced.  I didn't feel like tackling that job yesterday (and yes, I do these kinds of jobs. I tend to be more of the "handyman" type than my hubby, so it just works out better if I do it.)  So anyway, I got busy this morning and stripped off all the old caulking from all around the sink, and then put in the new. It looked so nice I felt like I had a new sink!  After that I went and did my bathroom sink, but I haven't taken any pictures of that. Just suffice it to say, it also needed to be done and it looks much better now as well!


So now, let's move on to today's Tuesday 4, shall we?

Friendly Chat



Welcome to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4. With just four questions each week we hope to change the world!

Well, okay, we can't change the world but we do hope to help you have something to blog about, think about and talk about. I hope everyone in Florida is okay with the storm Debby! Be safe friends.

So, let's take our tea or coffee and sit down together and have a friendly chat about life........

1. If you were or are married, did or do you enjoy being married? If you are not married are you content and happy in that life?
In about 10 days from now we will have been married for 55 years. Yes, I can say that I have enjoyed being married, and am extremely thankful for the man God chose for me. We actually often talk about how we know that God brought us together and that He had specific plans for our lives and went to great lengths to bring it all to pass.   Our life has not been perfectly rosy and always wonderful by any means. We have had many many trials and difficulties and sorrows during these 55 years, but through it all God has been with us, oftentimes carrying us through the hard places and giving us strength to keep going.  Without the Lord leading us in our lives, we may not have made it through these 55 years.  But our faith in God was often stronger than our faith in ourselves, and our commitment to Him was greater than even our vows to each other, and so we persevered through the hardships and we are so very thankful that God kept us moving forward  even when we wanted to quit. We give all glory to God for His mercy and grace and love.

2. What are the best parts of your life today? What were the best things about your life in the past?
The best parts of my life today?  Well, I am mostly healthy, my issues are minor compared to what so many have to endure. My hubby is mostly healthy too, and we are both very grateful to God for our health and well being. We have a strong faith, a good family and home, and we love each other very much.  I'd say that also goes for the best things in my life in the past.  I am VERY thankful for the family God chose for me from the time I was conceived until this very moment.

3. What more could you add to your life to make it better, or conversely, what could you remove to make it better for you?
I really don't know how to answer this...I am very thankful and content with my life right now. Obviously, if we could live without any pain or other hardships, that would be nice, but I believe many of these things come into our lives to make us stronger and help us to grow in our faith.  I honestly can't say that I'd change a thing.

4. If you work... are you really pleased in your job or would you like something better? If you are retired is it all you hoped it would be and how could it be better for you?
We are retired. We are thankful to be retired, and thankful that God has provided for us so we can survive financially. We never had the kind of jobs that provided for a good retirement income. We mostly served in small churches with no pension plan. We both managed to work enough years for the state to get a very small state retirement amount to supplement our Social Security. If we could have changed anything, it would have been to have managed a better financial plan for retirement, but again, GOD has taken care of us and has seen to it that we have everything we need. We have a good house over our heads and our bills are paid every month. We have our health and we have each other and we enjoy every day that God gives us.  We would have loved to be able to do more traveling, but that just hasn't been possible for us financially.  We are looking forward to a trip in October to the mountains for a few days with our kids, and then on to a wedding of my great-nephew in North Carolina, where we will get to see most of our extended family.  So that will be a lovely time and we are very thankful to be able to do that.  

Scripture verse for today from a daily devotional I read is appropriate to close this out:

Romans 8:28
New King James Version

28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
Amen.

22 comments:

  1. Beautiful Spicebush. There aren't as many butterflies here this year. Don't know what happened.
    I didn't know y'all married in August too, or, I forgot. Our 45th is this weekend. Happy pre-Anniversary!
    Isn't this rain somethin' else?! It is still raining a lot right now. I'm already tired of it. lol

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    1. Happy "pre-anniversary" to you too! Congratulations on 45 years! You are just 10 years behind us! We just now had another rain shower with the sun shining! Yes, it's time for it to stop, but we are thankful it wasn't worse! Tomorrow is a new day, and hopefully the storm will be long gone. have a blessed night tonight and tomorrow!

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  2. Pam: You have given me a lot to think about with this post. Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

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    1. Thank you, Cecelia. This post made me have to do some thinking too! I really do have so much to be thankful for, thanks to Jesus!! Peace to you and yours as well.

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  3. Your trip to the mountains will be wonderful. How nice for you to celebrate with your family. Your pond looks so pretty and refreshed.

    It looks like you solved your leaky sink. Good job. I like to do fix-it stuff as well. I was at first thinking it was your vent pipes on the roof since you just came out of a hurricane. I had that one time during a wind storm. The wind loosened the sink vent pipe on the roof, so my bathroom sink was leaking. It was an easy fix once I figured it out.
    I agree with you on your answers. At this stage of life, it's important to be content. When it is all said and done, serving God and loving our families are the most important things.

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  4. I enjoyed your answers. And I'm glad things are okay your way. Debby has caused a mess. My family in Venice, Sarasota and Tampa are all okay. Hope you got the leak in your sink fixed. Have a great week.

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  5. What a wonderful Godly example you and John have set for your sons! I could say I'm envious but choose instead to be Happy for you.
    Wow on that sink repair! That sort of stuff is way above my pay grade, provided I even knew what to do. Or how. Ever since I read about a lady whose whole sink nearly collapsed (with her baby inside!) that's something I worry about. Tom made a living for years as a 'handman', but most of that's beyond him now.

    Is that a noodle board I see on your ledge? I don't need one necessarily, but I've still got it sitting in my (Amazon) wish-list.

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    1. Thank you, Myra. I appreciate your kind words. Re: the "noodle board". I'm afraid I don't know what a "noodle board" is. Do you mean that wooden tray on the ledge? Benton made that. It can be a tray, or a laptop tray to hold your laptop in your lap, or whatever you want it to be. But I never heard of it being a "Noodle Board". That's a new one. Benton can make these any way you want them.

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    2. Okay, I looked up noodle board, and see what you mean. This one isn't large enough to cover the burners on the stove, but he can make one that does fit them. I will mention it to him that they should add that to their Etsy shop.

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  6. Glad you are doing ok! The pond is filled right up.
    Good for you on the sink repair, I'm impressed!
    I'm glad you are doing well in retirement. Bob will fully retire in Sept, and the question is when will I? I'm 63, but neither of us have had jobs with pensions either. We're actually meeting our financial guy next week to talk about the plan for me. I know God's got it!

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    1. I will pray for you as you consider your retirement. It's a daunting thing to reckon with, but I can say that God definitely took care of us, because we were too dumb and poor to figure it out for ourselves. We were never able to have a savings account because we never made enough money except to cover the basics of life, with three sons, etc. A lot of the time we lived in church parsonages, so we didn't even have a house for an investment. Thankfully we both worked in jobs that paid into the state retirement system for long enough to become vested, and that helped a lot, even though it isn't very much, it is a good supplement to our SS. If the government ever takes away or cuts our SS we will be up the creek w/o a paddle! But then again, I know God is in control of that too. So we just thank Him and live very modestly.
      I'm sure you will be fine.

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  7. We have something in common, Pam! I'm the handy-man in this house, too. I grew up in a DIY house and paid attention when Dad was fixing something. Glad you got your sinks done and are happy with your work!! I enjoyed your Tuesday 4 answers. I also enjoyed seeing your Still Waters Pond filled up to the brim (so to speak)!! The wildlife will love it!! Have a good week!! xo

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  8. I think the photos of Stillwaters Pond are so pretty. It looks full and "happy."
    Dennis and I will be 46 years on September 1. It's hard to believe but wonderful. I can't imagine life without him. I've been dating him since I was 15! If you can call it dating. We met in Sunday School when he was home on leave from the Air Force. He was 19. It was the same church we're attending again since our move back to Omaha. We were both baptized there, married there and all three of our kids were baptized there. It's nice to be home again.
    Retirement isn't quite like we planned. We sold our house in Spokane 4 years ago last month. We had planned to RV full time for 5 years and see as many National Parks as we could in that time. Then we would settle down back in Spokane. Never did we think we would be back in Omaha. But, we've settled in, love our condo and the freedom it gives us. We love to camp but need to find less expensive places to go. After all, we're retired and on a budget too. I have nothing at all to complain about. I do wish for less physical ailments so I could be more active. But, I'm as so blessed when I see wht others deal with on a daily basis. God is SO good to me.
    Praying that you'll have a lovely Wednesday my dear Pam.
    Blessings and love,
    Betsy

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  9. Hi Pamela, I enjoyed the pictures you posted. Looks like the pond got some much-needed water. God always provides as we trust in Him and do our parts. My son is at Disneyworld this week and so far, the weather has been good enough for them to enjoy their time at DW. Have a great week!

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  10. love your view from the kitchen sink and the pond is really full, bet the birds and critters are happy, we have cuban tree frogs diivng in the pool. our last shower was Tuesday at 4:45 and bob and beau were caught out in it walking because i could not walk Beau due to vertigo. they were drenched. the sun came out and it was FLORIDA all day long, hot humid and bright.
    I read Myras comment, she is a dear friend and she has visited here a few years ago and we had breakfast together. about the noodle board.
    DANGER Will Robinson! do not put a board on your stove, fire hazard esepcaiily for seniors. I burned up and tossed 4 burner covers which were metal in one year. by simply turning on the wrong burner... Linda Chapman had a kitchen fire recently because they stored something on the stove top..
    Okay, I looked up noodle board, and see what you mean. This one isn't large enough to cover the burners on the stove, but he can make one that does fit them. I will mention it to him that they should add that to their Etsy sh

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  11. I love you answers! The same here (question 1)

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  12. God does work for the good of those who love Him, just like John and you have done during your lifetimes, Pamela. Happy Anniversary to the both of you and may God continue to shower you with His blessings!

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  13. God does definitely provide for our needs. We are living proof. The difficulties sure make us lean into Him more and more.
    Love you being the "Fix-it" person. I can do it if I need to but thankfully Dave handles things most of the time.
    About our Granddaughter's hair...yes it is that brilliant red/copper color even without the lamp high lights. Great grandmas on both sides of the family had red hair. i am sort of a strawberry Blond with splashes of white. Getting paler the older I get..pushing 81 in November.
    Happy Anniversary we beat you by 5 years and celebrated our 60th last January.
    Only the Lord... Mostly good to great times but several hard times along the way. Its our testimony to being together for 60 years.
    Sue

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  14. I am so glad you weathered the storm okay. I am also very glad you did Tuesday 4! I enjoyed your answers.

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  15. I enjoyed your answers. Glad you weathered the storm.. My heart breaks for those who have lost so much. We are about 10 years from retirement hopefully, but also in the predicament that for so many years I was a stay at home mom and my hubby worked at our church and we didn't really have anyone advise us about saving for retirement, etc..now we are scrambling to catch up...I'm working and he has had a new job for 10 years. It's been hard. I'm thankful he's been responsible financially but boy, we have a lot of saving to do.

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  16. Hi Pamela! Wow - good for you in re-caulking your sink! I really enjoyed your answers. You are a great example of gratitude and having a positive attitude. Figuring out finances in retirement is challenging for sure. I am there now - just trying to get everything lined up so I can retire in 1-2 years. So glad that you got some needed rain and not much damage from Hurricane Debby. I hope the coming week is a good one for you!

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