Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Remember: "When God closes a door, He always opens a window!" You never know what might be out there waiting for you!
Monday, September 11, 2023
Tuesday 4 ~ Your Garden
Oh! I wish this was my garden!!! So lovely!
Your Garden
Its Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4 once again and I thought it might be nice to talk about our gardens or house plants. After all, houseplants are indoor gardens and fish aquariums can be water gardens.
1. Do you have a garden indoors or outdoors? Houseplants count I think. If not, why don't you have them?
Funny you should ask. Today I actually went outside and took some pictures in my "garden". Sadly, my garden is rather laughable to even be classified as a garden. After our long hot summer the weeds have taken over and the plants are rather tired and worn out. However, here are a few pictures I took today in my "garden". Judge for yourself!
I believe this is called a "Cape Honeysuckle", and it is really the only thing blooming much right now in my little butterfly garden.
I took this picture today as I sat outside on the swing, enjoying a rather pleasant breezy morning for a change, although it was still a bit humid and warmed up rather quickly...I enjoyed it while it lasted.
I finally got all the garden decorations put back outside after having put everything away for the hurricane a couple of weeks ago.
The only "casualty" of the storm was this lovely little teacup bird feeder/bath. I had put it under the porch to keep it safe from harm, and then proceeded to put the other garden items like the shepherd hooks, etc. next to it. Apparently a metal rod bumped into the delicate teacup as I pushed it under the porch, and it broke into several pieces. I tried my best to glue it back together to no avail, and then our son Scott came home and saw it sitting on the kitchen counter in pieces and took it upon himself to figure out how to glue it back together again. When I came home and saw it I was totally surprised. Although where it is glued together the water still leaks out a little around the cracks, so it really can't be used as a little tiny bird bath anymore, but it still looks pretty from a distance, so back into the garden it went this morning!!
Here is a little visitor to the wildflowers along the shore of Still Waters Pond...
And this is the kind of flower I seem to grow best in my garden...a wildflower! Not sure what this is called, but I will call it a butterfly plant because the flowers definitely look like little butterflies, don't you think? I just found out from a reader that is is a St. Andrew's Cross wildflower plant. (Hypericum hypericoides) Thank you, Mary B., for giving me this information!
This was my view from the swing...
And here's the swing and the garden bench (which needs some work so isn't really safe to sit on right now).
I do not have much of a green thumb, so I just enjoy what God provides in His lovely garden along the shores of Still Waters Pond.
2. Have you visited Longwood Gardens or any of the large gardens and horticultural sites around the world or your state? Tell us about it.
Not really. There are plenty to visit if I wanted to, but I just haven't taken the time to do it. I know there is a lovely place near us called Ravine Gardens, and it is especially beautiful in the spring when the azaleas are blooming. I've been wanting to go there...so maybe next spring I will try a little harder to do so.
3. Most people really enjoy a little garden but I think we sometimes make too many excuses not to do things we really would enjoy. Too busy, not enough space, etc. But if we put our minds to it, anything is possible Do you believe that?
Certainly anything is possible with God's help. My biggest excuse has been not only the extreme heat here in the summertime, but also the past few years I have had a lot of back/shoulder/neck/arm issues, which make it really difficult to do any kind of gardening. When Scott lived here at home with us he would help me with planting things, etc., but now that he has moved away he really doesn't have much time when he comes home to help with too many projects. My hubby really isn't in to gardening either, and we both have our physical limitations, so we just really don't feel up to doing much in the way of gardening. It's all we can manage to keep up with the lawn maintenance. That's why I am thankful for the natural beauty around us that God has provided for us to enjoy.
4. Ideally, what flowers, shrubs and trees do you want in your little garden real or imagined?
I would love to have some good rose bushes, preferably the climbing kind like in the picture above. My one little rose bush that bloomed in the Memorial Garden for special occasions seems to have lost its momentum this year. Plus I really never got around to fertilizing it like I should have. I have enjoyed the little butterfly garden when it was blooming better in the spring and early summer, but the heat really wiped it out. It may come back for a little while now that the weather is getting a tad cooler...we shall see what develops. I tend to enjoy a more natural looking setting as opposed to a highly cultivated garden that requires so much maintenance. Wildflowers always make me smile!
And the hollyberries are starting to ripen and turn red on the holly trees! I do hope the squirrels will leave enough for the Robins and Cedar Waxwings to enjoy this year when they pass through!
So that about sums up my gardening expertise for this post! I hope some others will post their lovely gardens for us to enjoy. You can check them out over HERE.
Meanwhile, today we started our Women's Bible Study back up after a summer hiatus. We picked up where we left off in the Book of Acts:
It was great to get back with our church ladies and share what's been going on in our lives this summer, etc. I've missed it! Our Choir Practice will start back again Tuesday night as well. It will be nice to be singing again! So thus starts a busy season of activities...but it's all good. Oh, the Men's Bible Study started back again today as well. My hubby is the leader for that group, and they are studying the book of Hebrews right now.
Now here's a flashback to the past, the wonderful voice of Jim Reeves singing "In the Garden"...an appropriate favorite old hymn for today's post:
You live right beside a pond and a natural garden so don't feel you must garden unless you really want to. I know about physical limitations in gardening so I'm always grateful when I am able to do something more garden wise. God bless.
And I love seeing your patio garden and also when you are able to do the community garden plot...will you be doing that this year? Thank you for visiting. I look forward to seeing more from you when you are able!!
Thanks for joining in! I put up mine tonight also with photos of my own gardens. As we get older we lose our mojo it seems.. except some. I see very elderly people out gardening all the time and I wish I was like them but physical things stop us. I pray we all can be healed and in the pink once again! God has supplied you with a water garden though!! Isn't it wonderful.
Oh, I must go over and read your post now. Yes, I seem to have "lost my mojo" for sure when it comes to gardening. It would be wonderful to be "healed and in the pink once again!" But while we wait, we will enjoy the beauties surrounding us that God has provided....you live near the ocean and also near the woods...such beauties to behold!!! And all you have to do is open your eyes and rejoice! I hope your little goldfish pond is still doing well? That is a lovely spot as well. Thank you for these questions this week. It will be interesting to see if others will show us their gardens. Have a lovely day.
I think your garden is nice. It's tranquil. All our gardens are fading because it's the time of year. Please forgive any glumness on my part. It's almost the anniversary of losing my MIL (Sept. 15th). Having a hard time with sadness this week. It'll pass. It always does. Love & Blessings. xx
Oh Sparky, I totally understand your feelings. I always feel a little blue when I think about the passing of our loved ones...and then I think about heaven and where they are now and how happy and healthy they are, and even though I wish I could be there with them, I am happy for them and rejoice that they don't have to deal with this present world situation any longer. Either way, my heart goes out to you because I know how it hurts. I still miss my MIL also. She passed on August 13, 2018. In many ways I was somewhat closer to her than my own mother, because I spent so much time with her in her latter years, caring for her and having her live with us. She was a very special lady and I miss her spirit. I know you are feeling the same things. Sending you my love and (((hugs))).
Endearing! Yep, your kind of 'garden' is far more pleasing to my eyes that those (you call) 'highly cultivated.' That was so nice of Scott to piece together the broken teacup; little acts of kindness mean a lot, don't they? I hope it's not a reflection of my character, but I've never really been 'into' gardens - either the blooming sort or edible. Not only do I have a brown thumb, in these parts we've numerous nocturnal visitors who'd love nothing more than a ripe tomato. Wishing you a most blessed day!
No, definitely not a reflection of character to not have a "green thumb". It's not for everyone. My sister got the green thumb in our family. By the time I was born there were no more green thumbs left to give I guess. My older brothers were both better at gardening than me as well. I am a garden 'appreciator". LOL. and yes, those "nocturnal visitors" can definitely wreak havoc on the most beautifully cultivated garden and destroy all that hard work overnight. I know I would not be a very happy camper if that happened to me! LOL I wish you a blessed day too!!! Oh, and yes, those "little acts of kindness" do mean a lot...yes indeed!!!!!
Hi Pamela, thanks for visiting me and keeping me in prayer. You have a beautiful garden at your pond! I love that song. I can still hear my grandma singing it at our Methodist church. It was played at her funeral service too. Someday we will meet in the gardens of heaven!
Oh yes! Can you imagine how lovely the "gardens of heaven" must be? That will be a glorious day for all of us when we can literally walk in the garden with Jesus and also with our dearly beloved ones who have been there already tending to those gardens! Thank you for visiting, Susan. I do hope you are healing well. Will keep praying.
Thank you, Lisa. Yes, 'tis the season to get back into the swing of fall activities and beyond. It was nice to have a little break over the summer, but it's also nice to get back into action again. I missed the fellowship of our Bible Study friends and the music of singing in the choir. Special kinds of blessings!
Pam: I marvel at your handiwork in your yard. You asked about out gardens. We have a spot in front of our house, to the west of our porch that we have tried growing different things. The only thing that seems to last there are rocks (LOL)- that's right, we have a rock garden. I am glad that Scott was able to fix your teacup bird bath/feeder. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
Honestly, my gardens are not really growing very well. I'd probably do better with rocks too! I have more yard ornaments than I do flowers. It's just been too hot here this summer and I can't do much with my shoulder/arm issue, so the "gardens" have had to fend for themselves. Thank you for your kind words, but if you could see it up close in person you'd laugh (or maybe cry! LOL) Have a blessed and wonderful week.
You do have some beautiful flowers. Loved your photos. About our yard. When we moved here nearly 40 years ago, the yard was a quagmire. The previous folks let everything grow up so badly there was a 12 foot perimeter around the house of jungles of vines, weeds, paradise trees, . It took months and actually a couple of years to clear it all out and see what we had to work with. Along the left side of the backyard, once the tangle was gone that next spring we had over 200 daffodils grow up in rows in the grass . We dug them up and replanted them around the yard. We uncovered ancient stubby azaleas that had been completely overcome by a jungle of honeysuckle that Lynn worked on for months to uncover, (and the honeysuckle is tacked every year) . prune and bring back to life. Over the first 10; years here, many of our trees were in bad shape and Hugo, took them out -we lost about 7 trees, and we replaced every tree lost with a wonderful maple tree. We cut down 10 scraggly loblolly pines along the back perimeter and planted red buds there. That was long enough ago that now they need replacing.. dying from a blight. We will prob replace them with dogwoods or crepe myrtles. So it isn’t exactly that we took over an establish yard. It was a diamond in the rough and it took quite a bit of convincing hubs that this could really look good. But it is a lot of man hours.
Who needs a cultivated garden when you have so much natural beauty around you? I love your wildflowers, Pamela, and I'm well aware that this awfully hot summer has done a number on so many otherwise thriving plants. Let's hope for a milder summer next year! Oh, and tell Scott he did a great job repairing that tea pot! Blessings!
THank you, Martha. I agree with your statement. And yes, I do hope for a milder summer next year, but we have to get through winter first. LOL. That shouldn't be too difficult for us here, but time will tell about the rest of the country. And yes, I did tell Scott how much I appreciated him fixing the teacup. I still don't know how he did it. He is much more patient than I am!! Have a lovely week.
My favorite: Your memory garden. I had one at my home. Meant much. I hope the ones living there now enjoy it. In Florida, with the palm trees in my yard almost always breezy...the colors of the flowers around...the ocean breeze...it is so almost like my memories of that little memory garden...my loved ones are everywhere around me. Ironically, Mother loved St. Pete area...however, she had property near Interlachen, Ocala, etc. about thirty miles from the Atlantic. We stayed there a couple of times. When my family moved here to the Gulf...first time we were at St. Pete, thought of Mother, and the many times I said, "Oh Mother, I can't live in Florida...too hot and buggy." Well, here I am because of these grands. If one were to ask me what I cherish the most of all in my life...my children and my grands. That is why I am here. I have worked most of my life...I taught...I did a million jobs and lived so many places...however, the most rewarding has been having my two miracles...and my five grands. I can see by your writing that you understand. Prayers to you and your dear, sweet family...keep writing...(Brenda)
Love all of your wonderful pictures and reading your answers. That looks like a very good study for you ladies. I hope that your week is wonderful to you. Hugs and blessings, Cindy
Thank you, Cindy. It is a good study. We started it last January, but we couldn't get it finished by the end of May when we stopped for the summer, so we picked it back up again. We spend a lot of time "discussing" our lessons! You know how women are...LOL. Have a blessed week!
Thank you so much, Mary B? Now I'm trying to figure out who you are, and I will probably be embarrassed when you tell me, but I know so many Marys! I do appreciate the information. I will look that one up. Thank you for letting me know.
I loved your photos and commentary on today's Tuesday 4! You take interesting photos and have such a lovely "backyard" Pam. Nice that Scott got your teacup glued back together. It would hold birdseed, perhaps... Hugs!
thank you, Terri. Yes, Scott has much more patience than I do. I still don't know how he managed it. He explained it to me, but I know I still wouldn't have figured it out! LOL. Yes, it will hold birdseed, but the problem with that is that it will get wet every time it rains. So I will just leave it as is. It may hold a little water and sometimes the smaller birds sit on the edge and get a drink. But if not, it still just looks pretty out there in my pretend garden. LOL.
Nice rocking bench you have. We have one but it's older and wooden. Megan bought a new bench last month from hardware store that was on sale. She likes sitting outdoors at times and neighbor cat comes over and he'll be with her. The Bible study I'm going to at a local church is Romans and written by Melissa Spoelstra. Same lady who wrote the Bible study book you have and my daughter has one for Isaiah that starts on Monday. I like it alot. I'm glad your son got your tea cup birdbath fixed. Have a blessed weekend.
You have the best posts. I always love reading them. So encouraging. Our tomatoes and potatoes did not do well this year too much rain. So off to the Farmer's Market we go on Saturday morning.
Thank you for visiting here today. I would love for you to sign my guestbook and let me know you stopped by. I always enjoy reading your comments and words of encouragement! May you be blessed as you go on your way. Please come back and visit again soon.
You live right beside a pond and a natural garden so don't feel you must garden unless you really want to. I know about physical limitations in gardening so I'm always grateful when I am able to do something more garden wise. God bless.
ReplyDeleteAnd I love seeing your patio garden and also when you are able to do the community garden plot...will you be doing that this year? Thank you for visiting. I look forward to seeing more from you when you are able!!
DeleteThanks for joining in! I put up mine tonight also with photos of my own gardens. As we get older we lose our mojo it seems.. except some. I see very elderly people out gardening all the time and I wish I was like them but physical things stop us. I pray we all can be healed and in the pink once again! God has supplied you with a water garden though!! Isn't it wonderful.
ReplyDeleteOh, I must go over and read your post now. Yes, I seem to have "lost my mojo" for sure when it comes to gardening. It would be wonderful to be "healed and in the pink once again!" But while we wait, we will enjoy the beauties surrounding us that God has provided....you live near the ocean and also near the woods...such beauties to behold!!! And all you have to do is open your eyes and rejoice! I hope your little goldfish pond is still doing well? That is a lovely spot as well. Thank you for these questions this week. It will be interesting to see if others will show us their gardens. Have a lovely day.
DeleteI think your garden is nice. It's tranquil. All our gardens are fading because it's the time of year.
ReplyDeletePlease forgive any glumness on my part. It's almost the anniversary of losing my MIL (Sept. 15th). Having a hard time with sadness this week. It'll pass. It always does.
Love & Blessings. xx
Oh Sparky, I totally understand your feelings. I always feel a little blue when I think about the passing of our loved ones...and then I think about heaven and where they are now and how happy and healthy they are, and even though I wish I could be there with them, I am happy for them and rejoice that they don't have to deal with this present world situation any longer. Either way, my heart goes out to you because I know how it hurts. I still miss my MIL also. She passed on August 13, 2018. In many ways I was somewhat closer to her than my own mother, because I spent so much time with her in her latter years, caring for her and having her live with us. She was a very special lady and I miss her spirit. I know you are feeling the same things. Sending you my love and (((hugs))).
DeleteEndearing! Yep, your kind of 'garden' is far more pleasing to my eyes that those (you call) 'highly cultivated.' That was so nice of Scott to piece together the broken teacup; little acts of kindness mean a lot, don't they?
ReplyDeleteI hope it's not a reflection of my character, but I've never really been 'into' gardens - either the blooming sort or edible. Not only do I have a brown thumb, in these parts we've numerous nocturnal visitors who'd love nothing more than a ripe tomato.
Wishing you a most blessed day!
No, definitely not a reflection of character to not have a "green thumb". It's not for everyone. My sister got the green thumb in our family. By the time I was born there were no more green thumbs left to give I guess. My older brothers were both better at gardening than me as well. I am a garden 'appreciator". LOL. and yes, those "nocturnal visitors" can definitely wreak havoc on the most beautifully cultivated garden and destroy all that hard work overnight. I know I would not be a very happy camper if that happened to me! LOL I wish you a blessed day too!!! Oh, and yes, those "little acts of kindness" do mean a lot...yes indeed!!!!!
DeleteHi Pamela, thanks for visiting me and keeping me in prayer. You have a beautiful garden at your pond! I love that song. I can still hear my grandma singing it at our Methodist church. It was played at her funeral service too. Someday we will meet in the gardens of heaven!
ReplyDeleteOh yes! Can you imagine how lovely the "gardens of heaven" must be? That will be a glorious day for all of us when we can literally walk in the garden with Jesus and also with our dearly beloved ones who have been there already tending to those gardens! Thank you for visiting, Susan. I do hope you are healing well. Will keep praying.
DeleteI enjoyed your garden post and pictures. Seems like everyone is getting back to being busy since summer is over.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lisa. Yes, 'tis the season to get back into the swing of fall activities and beyond. It was nice to have a little break over the summer, but it's also nice to get back into action again. I missed the fellowship of our Bible Study friends and the music of singing in the choir. Special kinds of blessings!
DeleteI would love to come sit with you by Still Waters Pond and watch all the birds, etc.
ReplyDeleteCome on down!!! Would love to have you come and sit with me beside the Still Waters Pond while we watch the birds and visit!! That would be lovely!
DeletePam: I marvel at your handiwork in your yard. You asked about out gardens. We have a spot in front of our house, to the west of our porch that we have tried growing different things. The only thing that seems to last there are rocks (LOL)- that's right, we have a rock garden. I am glad that Scott was able to fix your teacup bird bath/feeder. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, my gardens are not really growing very well. I'd probably do better with rocks too! I have more yard ornaments than I do flowers. It's just been too hot here this summer and I can't do much with my shoulder/arm issue, so the "gardens" have had to fend for themselves. Thank you for your kind words, but if you could see it up close in person you'd laugh (or maybe cry! LOL) Have a blessed and wonderful week.
DeleteYou do have some beautiful flowers. Loved your photos. About our yard. When we moved here nearly 40 years ago, the yard was a quagmire. The previous folks let everything grow up so badly there was a 12 foot perimeter around the house of jungles of vines, weeds, paradise trees, . It took months and actually a couple of years to clear it all out and see what we had to work with. Along the left side of the backyard, once the tangle was gone that next spring we had over 200 daffodils grow up in rows in the grass . We dug them up and replanted them around the yard. We uncovered ancient stubby azaleas that had been completely overcome by a jungle of honeysuckle that Lynn worked on for months to uncover, (and the honeysuckle is tacked every year) . prune and bring back to life. Over the first 10; years here, many of our trees were in bad shape and Hugo, took them out -we lost about 7 trees, and we replaced every tree lost with a wonderful maple tree. We cut down 10 scraggly loblolly pines along the back perimeter and planted red buds there. That was long enough ago that now they need replacing.. dying from a blight. We will prob replace them with dogwoods or crepe myrtles. So it isn’t exactly that we took over an establish yard. It was a diamond in the rough and it took quite a bit of convincing hubs that this could really look good. But it is a lot of man hours.
DeleteWho needs a cultivated garden when you have so much natural beauty around you? I love your wildflowers, Pamela, and I'm well aware that this awfully hot summer has done a number on so many otherwise thriving plants. Let's hope for a milder summer next year!
ReplyDeleteOh, and tell Scott he did a great job repairing that tea pot!
Blessings!
THank you, Martha. I agree with your statement. And yes, I do hope for a milder summer next year, but we have to get through winter first. LOL. That shouldn't be too difficult for us here, but time will tell about the rest of the country. And yes, I did tell Scott how much I appreciated him fixing the teacup. I still don't know how he did it. He is much more patient than I am!! Have a lovely week.
DeleteMy favorite: Your memory garden. I had one at my home. Meant much. I hope the ones living there now enjoy it. In Florida, with the palm trees in my yard almost always breezy...the colors of the flowers around...the ocean breeze...it is so almost like my memories of that little memory garden...my loved ones are everywhere around me. Ironically, Mother loved St. Pete area...however, she had property near Interlachen, Ocala, etc. about thirty miles from the Atlantic. We stayed there a couple of times. When my family moved here to the Gulf...first time we were at St. Pete, thought of Mother, and the many times I said, "Oh Mother, I can't live in Florida...too hot and buggy." Well, here I am because of these grands. If one were to ask me what I cherish the most of all in my life...my children and my grands. That is why I am here. I have worked most of my life...I taught...I did a million jobs and lived so many places...however, the most rewarding has been having my two miracles...and my five grands. I can see by your writing that you understand. Prayers to you and your dear, sweet family...keep writing...(Brenda)
ReplyDeleteLove all of your wonderful pictures and reading your answers. That looks like a very good study for you ladies. I hope that your week is wonderful to you. Hugs and blessings, Cindy
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cindy. It is a good study. We started it last January, but we couldn't get it finished by the end of May when we stopped for the summer, so we picked it back up again. We spend a lot of time "discussing" our lessons! You know how women are...LOL. Have a blessed week!
DeleteYour little yellow "butterfly" flower is a St. Andrew's Cross, 'Ascyrum hypericoides'. Very nice. :)
ReplyDeleteMaryB
Thank you so much, Mary B? Now I'm trying to figure out who you are, and I will probably be embarrassed when you tell me, but I know so many Marys! I do appreciate the information. I will look that one up. Thank you for letting me know.
DeleteI loved your photos and commentary on today's Tuesday 4! You take interesting photos and have such a lovely "backyard" Pam. Nice that Scott got your teacup glued back together. It would hold birdseed, perhaps... Hugs!
ReplyDeletethank you, Terri. Yes, Scott has much more patience than I do. I still don't know how he managed it. He explained it to me, but I know I still wouldn't have figured it out! LOL. Yes, it will hold birdseed, but the problem with that is that it will get wet every time it rains. So I will just leave it as is. It may hold a little water and sometimes the smaller birds sit on the edge and get a drink. But if not, it still just looks pretty out there in my pretend garden. LOL.
DeleteNice rocking bench you have. We have one but it's older and wooden. Megan bought a new bench last month from hardware store that was on sale. She likes sitting outdoors at times and neighbor cat comes over and he'll be with her. The Bible study I'm going to at a local church is Romans and written by Melissa Spoelstra. Same lady who wrote the Bible study book you have and my daughter has one for Isaiah that starts on Monday. I like it alot. I'm glad your son got your tea cup birdbath fixed. Have a blessed weekend.
ReplyDeleteYou have the best posts. I always love reading them. So encouraging. Our tomatoes and potatoes did not do well this year too much rain. So off to the Farmer's Market we go on Saturday morning.
ReplyDelete