What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Thursday, July 20, 2023

Thursday Thankfulness and Friday Foto Friends

I can't keep up with these weeks flying by so quickly! They say that is what happens when we get older...the days and weeks and years just fly!  Do you remember when you were a child in school, and it seemed like that 3:00 bell would NEVER ring? (or whatever time you were let out of school for the day). I remember watching the clock for the last half hour or so, and thinking 3:00 would never get there!! But now, here it is 3:00 today, and I have no idea how this day flew by so quickly! LOL.  

Well, really, I do know...let's see, we took a ride this morning just to get out of the house for a while. Once in a while we like to drive the 30 mile drive back down to the community where we used to live in the Ocala National Forest.  There's a lake and a boat ramp/park where we like to go and see the water...today when we arrived there was a couple letting their dog run free and frolic in the water since no one else was around, and so we decided to drive on through the woods/town and come back by there later on our way back.  Dogs running loose are not one of my favorite things when I don't know them or their owners.   

However, we did stop back by there on our way back out, (and the people with their dogs were gone) and this was what I took a picture of...Isn't she a beauty?


Actually there were two butterflies flitting around, but I couldn't get them both to be still long enough to get a really good picture, so this one will have to do:

I also managed to get a picture of this little Bluegill down in the water! They were swimming around so fast I was fortunate to get this picture!


But I digress...

We decided to drive by our old house and see if anyone has purchased it yet.  It has been on the market for at least this whole year.  The people who bought it from us 4 years ago sold it to some investor, who has totally renovated it inside, but they are letting the outside be taken over by nature! According to "Zillow", it still has not been sold, and the price is still set much too high, in my humble opinion.

 Click HERE for a previous post showing some pictures from this house earlier this year, when our son stopped by to see what was going on there.  

And this is a picture from our last visit there, which was in February.  I wrote about that visit HERE.

The big sycamore trees were still bare, as was a lot of the other foliage...

Here I am, back in February,  sitting in the little pergola that we built in memory of our son:

That looked pretty good compared to what we saw there today.
These are the pictures from today:

It was so overgrown with wild grapevines and other wild growth that I couldn't even step inside to sit on the benches.


These are some of the trees we planted in the back yard about 6 years ago:


These are two Drake Elm trees that we planted in memory of our fathers, one for each of them on their 100th birthdays.

They have grown so much they may need to be trimmed back!

There are several Crape Myrtle trees in there, struggling to survive as they are being trapped under the many wild grape vines, which are, by the way, loaded with wild grapes right now! I did make grape jelly one year with the wild grapes that grew next to our yard, but this area we always kept trimmed back and neat and pretty...

It's like a jungle there...and if they don't start taking better care of it the  house will soon be returned back to nature.


This is what the front of the house looks like with the trees all full of leaves:
I know it's not my problem anymore, but it does make me kind of sad to see it so overgrown and neglected. We had so many happy memories at this house during the 7 years that we lived there. I do hope someone will purchase this house soon and rescue it before it is too late. They'd better have strong arms and backs so they can maintain all that yard work! That's one of the reasons we left there...we just couldn't keep up with all of the yard work by ourselves.  

So those are the photos for the Friday Foto Friends post.  Now, what am I thankful for? 
Well, I am thankful for our current home and the blessings of where we are, near our kids and church and friends...and not quite as much yard work as before.  Hubby and I did go out and do some weed-whacking with the new weed eater he got for Father's Day. I used it for quite a while and appreciated the fact that it is light weight and easy to use, but my arms are still hurting today because I am terribly out of shape (among other issues!) LOL.  I am thankful we got it done, however.

I am thankful for the fact that this home overlooks Still Waters Pond, and we are able to enjoy so much beauty here, watching the birds and any other wildlife God brings our way. We currently have been seeing a lot of Cardinals...there are some young ones as well as the parents, and they enjoy dining at the bird feeders:

Do you see both of the birds in this picture above?


And here's either Mom and Dad, or it could be Dad and one of the youngsters...
I am happy they enjoy these fancy bird feeders!

I am thankful for my new cell phone...(this picture was from the other day, when it was 87 and raining. Today it is 96 and bright and sunny...very HOT!

I ordered this phone to replace my old one because it was dying. It wouldn't keep a charge for very long at all.  This new phone is actually reconditioned, but it is a newer version than the iPhone I had before. You can get some very good deals online for reconditioned phones if you aren't locked into a phone contract.  It works great and I am very happy with it. However, getting it set up and ready to use, transferring data, etc., was very challenging.  I called the customer service people to help me, and, well, let's just say it was an extremely exasperating experience trying to understand people who do not speak English very well, and just when I thought we had something figured out the call would drop, and I'd have to call back again and start all over again with a new person. This took over an hour to accomplish, (and SEVERAL phone calls!) and by the time I was done, I was really done!! I hope I don't have to go through that again! But everything is fine now, and I am VERY thankful for that!

I am also thankful that my brother called the other night just to chat. He lives in N.C., and we don't get to talk very often, so it was a real treat and joy to hear from him. Our family is planning reunion up at their place in September, and I hope and pray we will be able to attend.  

There are some other things I am thankful about...some medical appointments that we were able to schedule sooner than first thought, and answers to prayer about several things.

Oh, this one is a big thing...last evening we were pulling out of our driveway, planning to go to our walking place on the other side of town and take a walk, even though it was still about 90 degrees, but we needed some exercise. Anyway, just as we were pulling out, there was a man walking down the middle of our street, no shirt, and his jeans kept falling down around his behind, and he was carrying a plastic gallon jug that looked empty, and he was acting VERY strange. We took one look at him and thought he had to be very high on drugs or drunk or something.  We decided not to leave our neighborhood, but stayed in our car and I called 9-1-1 and reported this man and his strange behavior. We drove around the block and kept an eye on him to make sure he didn't go up to our house or any of our neighbors, and we kept talking to the dispatcher for a few minutes. She assured us someone was on the way. Well, we drove around the block several times, not wanting him to notice us as we didn't want him coming up to our car. He wandered down the street, still in the middle of the street as other cars passed him. He was definitely out of his head high.  Finally we saw the deputy car come into the neighborhood and we watched to see what would happen. The man started to run into the woods, and then we decided to go back home and stay out the way.  Shortly after we saw an ambulance come. Apparently they did take him away, and we don't know anything more.  It left us feeling rather unnerved throughout the evening. Our neighborhood isn't perfect by any means, but this was not the norm. I am thankful that there was no harm to anyone in the neighborhood, and we prayed for this man that he would get the help that he needed. God knows who he is and exactly what was wrong. 

So on that note, I will say that I am thankful to God for His watchcare over our home and family...and am thankful that we know we can depend on Him to keep us safe.

Psalm 91:9-12
9 Because you have made the Lord, who is my refuge,
Even the Most High, your dwelling place,
10 No evil shall befall you,
Nor shall any plague come near your dwelling;
11 For He shall give His angels charge over you,
To keep you in all your ways.
12 In their hands they shall bear you up,
Lest you dash your foot against a stone.

Thank you, Lord!
Amen.























20 comments:

  1. What a shame about your old house and such a waste with so many people needing places to live.
    I'm not proud to say, the issue you had with the guy on drugs happens everyday here - fortunately not in my neighborhood or street (YET) but when I go into town, the parking lots is full of syringes and trash. They take over the bus stop shelters to sleep and they sit and shoot up their drugs in public. The cops no longer respond. A month or so, I was on my way to the store and saw this guy laying on the sidewalk with a needle in his arm - he looked dead. I called it in. There were others like him in the bus shelter, also high so I left for my own safety. When I came back out, they were all gone. I looked to see if anything was written about it - was he dead or is he okay - nothing. It never was this way when we first moved here. All I can say is that it is better than where we came from. We have a Christian shelter in town, The Good News Rescue Mission and they are filled to capacity. Many refuse to go there because they do require, them to be sober and no drugs or alcohol on the premises. The opposition to the Rescue mission, say it is cruel to force religion on these people, yet they have failed to provide a alternative that suits there agenda. Oh I could go on and on. It's something I see daily, when I leave my subdivision. It's gotten so much worse since the pandemic. Its very sad.

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  2. Wow!! Lots of stuff here for us, Pam! How sad about your old house being ignored and overgrown. Your home there was lovely (and so is your new home!). Scary stuff about the man in the middle of the street. It is so good that you called the authorities and hopefully he will get the help he needs. Congrats on the new phone!! Love & hugs!!

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  3. Oh, I know how sad you can feel when a house that you loved and was your home gets neglected. The home we had before this one we lived in for 30 years and we loved it and the people that bought it after us have just let it go to the place where I don't even like to drive past it. When you live somewhere for a long time and raise your family there it holds a little place in your heart. No one likes their heart broken. I completely understand.

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  4. Fun to see the birds enjoying the beautiful new feeders. Also was good to see your old house although sad that it's being ignored and I'm so sorry that everything is overgrown. I can't understand why the person trying to sell it doesn't get the work on the yard done. It would probably sell quickly in this market of not many places to live. (But they may need to lower the price.)
    I'm sorry about the man wandering the streets. Our old neighborhood here in Omaha was really scary, that's why we moved to the apartment as soon as we could get Mom to agree to leave her house. Here in the condo is even better as we're closer to Mom here than when we were in the apartment. It's also a secure building which makes me feel much better. I no longer hear gunshots every night and it's amazing how much better we both sleep because of that.
    Like Debby said, we have a wonderful Open Door Mission here but they do have the same requirements that they mentioned so many won't go there.
    I hope your Friday is a wonderful one my friend.
    Blessings and hugs,
    Betsy

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  5. Glad you called for help for that man. That is sad about your house. The investor should have done some yard work to help the house sell. I love your nature pictures and those cute bird feeders. Have a great weekend Pamela!

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  6. It's really nice to have the pond and get to see so many birds and wildlife. And it's good you called and got someone the help they needed. It's too hot to be outside for very long right now. Take care and enjoy your day!

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  7. It is sad with the old house sitting vacant. Hope it's not taken over by squatters. With house and land prices over inflated right now, I don't know how anyone can afford to buy and/or move anywhere. This Admin has got to go! Bidenomics is killin' the middle class.
    Druggies and crime seem to be everywhere. This part of Georgia is still relatively "safe" (so far) but it is all around us. I expect it to start spilling over eventually with so many worshiping the "god of the air" now.
    Y'all stay safe. Love xx

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  8. How disappointing to see your old home overgrown and neglected. I used to Google images of my own childhood home in Los Alamos until a few years ago. Let's just say, my dad -- who took such pride in keeping it nice -- would be spinning in his grave.
    That's sure unsettling about the (seeming) vagrant y'all saw walking nearby. I'm glad you erred on the side of caution and called law enforcement. Who knows, but he might have collapsed and even died from the heat (and gosh knows what else). Both Tom and I need new/different phones, but the customer service we got last time was abysmal. They just handed him a piece of paper and told him to follow the directions. He wound up losing almost all of his photos. I remember when Verizon used to do it all for us. Oh well. I hope you're enjoying a sweet day, we're that much closer to Fall. Hurray!

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  9. Seeing your old home in such a state made me sad, too, Pamela. Why don't people take care of things, especially something as valuable as a house? I know you are so thankful for where you are living now.
    Two weeks ago, a vagrant came into our church toward the end of the service. That was unnerving for all of us, especially when we discovered he had been behind the wheel of a car! I prayed for him immediately, and I do hope he is getting the help he needs as we could tell he was disturbed in some way.
    Blessings, and thanks for the beautiful photos!

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  10. Pam: I understand your angst about the house you used to live in. People don't always seem to care about their possessions. We rarely go out at night because we really don't know any of our neighbors. And yet, The Lord has shown me that they do keep up their properties. We have three houses along our street that I know are empty at the moment. I pray that the people who move into them will love them. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

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  11. Always my pleasure to stop by to say hello. Your photos are always so lovely. Your stories too. The world can be so unkind and I try to find something good in each day. Today, my son-in-law Zach ran to the Good Times store to get us a burrito. He is always so thoughtful. Everyday I make sure he has a cup of two of coffee. Avery takes a thermos to work so I have to make extra and I enjoy it. I am partial to ice tea, limeade and lemonade this time of year. I hope you have a precious day today and stay cool. Blessings to you and yours.

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  12. Oh no....not another frustrating customer service story. This is the second one day...in addition to my own. It is so hard to even speak with a human. Ugh, and the calls drop. Oh, I could go on but you already know the frustration. It was rather sad to see your old house being so unloved. I used to drive by the house we lived in when I was in elementary school. But that would make me sad as well - so I stopped. Funny, right? But, it does. I hope you have a beautiful and blessed weekend ahead, my friend!

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  13. The pics of your old house are beautiful!! love the butterflies, funny I am seeing white ones, I first saw a white one the day after my dad passed, so I still believe it is a sign from him. I drove by my old childhood home about a month ago was so depressing, as mom n dad always kept the yard pedicured. It had grown awful. I am hoping the gentlemen wasn't having heat issues, either way glad you are both safe. God always has us in His loving arms. I have a new post up! Have a blessed weekend Gina

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  14. Wonderful photos. I just love your bird feeders. There's always work to do in the garden though. I have to do some tidying up today. And mow the lawn.

    God bless.

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  15. Great fotos, as usual. I'm so sorry about the condition of your former home...that saddens me for you. My grandmother's house now belongs to my cousin and he's let it go so much that it could never be restored, it would have to be torn down. It breaks my heart....so many happy memories there when I was growing up. Happy weekend to you, sweet Lady.

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  16. You did the right thing by calling emergency services, Linda, and hopefully the fellow you saw got needed help. I can understand your frustration with customer service reps when language is an issue. That has not happened when we have had to call an Apple support person and one of the reasons we own Apple products. We have never returned to VA to see our former home because we would be heartbroken if it was being neglected. While we have spoken with former neighbors, we never ask them about the house or yard. As you said, it is not your home anymore, but still you remember all the loving care you and John put into it and seeing it neglected is upsetting.

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  17. We sometimes drive by our first home, about 20 minutes north of us. I think there's always an attachment to a home you lived in, raised a family, made memories in and it's so hard to see it run down! Ours went up for sale last year and my daughters and I were on Zillow looking at the photos. We would disagree about which room was which, "No that was the spare room!" I'm glad to know we aren't the only ones! :) I hope your former home gets some lovin' soon!

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  18. I do go back and visit old homes when we are visiting those areas. It is so sad to see that no one is caring for that property outside your old home.
    You asked about CAMA missionaries in Papua. Yes, we knew many when we lived there and when we were in language school in Bandung, Java. Our area was in the Bird's Head and they were all on the east half or in the south, but our children all attended the CAMA boarding school, so we were acquainted.

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    1. Oh, that is so interesting to know. Now I am wondering what years you and your children were there. Was that what was known as the "Dalat" school? I remember hearing a lot about it back in the day...and I actually knew a couple who served there for many years, Toni and Perry Rollins. I think he was the headmaster for a while. They now are the directors of a Christian camp here in our area and we saw him recently. I don't know if they were still at the school when your kids were there. It's a small world after all!! I hope you are having a wonderful summer. Summers in Ohio were always special to me as we traveled there on vacations almost every year of my childhood! Breathe the fresh air for me! LOL. Blessings to you and yours.

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  19. Oh Pam, I am sure it's very disheartening too see your old home that you lived in and loved for years so forsaken. The bird feeder makes me smile. Love those watch the birds. So sad about that man. Lord have mercy. Maybe he got the help needed. Hugs and blessings to you. Cindy

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