Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
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Monday, July 24, 2023
Monday Monday...Sweet Memories and More...
Oh my goodness! What a weekend it was! There was a lot going on in so many different "realms", but I will begin with these wonderful photos that were sent from one of my paternal cousins in Pennsylvania. I had never seen these photos before. She found them in a box of old photos belonging to my Aunt Audrey and Uncle Paul. (R.I.P.)
These photos were taken of our family, probably back in 1957, I'm guessing. In the above picture is:
L to R": My mother, brother Russell, sister Doris, Daddy, me, brother Clifford.
In the above pic L to R:
me, Mom, Doris, Russell, Daddy, Clifford.
In below pic, I think that is Doris in the front seat, my Dad, me in the back seat, and my brother Russell.
I'm not positive which is which between my sister and me...not that we look that much alike, but it is difficult to tell in this photo which is which.
Anyway, the occasion was when we had gone back up to PA. from Florida to load up more of our furniture, etc., from my Uncle Paul's barn, where it was being stored since our move to Florida the year before. You will note in the above photos that we had a little cargo trailer attached to our 1955 4 door Chevy Belair sedan. We also had a cargo box attached to the top of the car, with a canvas tarp over it, to help hold all our luggage, camping gear, etc., because, yes, we camped in tents all the way up and back on this trip (and many others each summer). How all six of us ever fit in that car for such a long trip, without AC, I might add, I'll never know. But we did it, and we survived. We made lots of fun memories playing different road games along the way, like the Alphabet game, The Horse Game ("Cemetery! Bury your horses!) among others to keep us entertained along the way. There were no interstate highways back then, and we took the long, winding, mountain roads through the Smoky Mountains, where we could find good campgrounds at State Parks, and roadside parks to fix our lunches on the way. (and sadly, for me, places to pull over quick because I would get carsick frequently!)
These were special times for our family, times I will never forget. My parents were amazing to organize and plan all of this so well, so that we always had food enough to eat and places to camp (without the aid of GPS to guide us...all my Dad had was the road atlas and a keen sense of direction, well, most of the time. If he ever got lost he never admitted it and just made it more a part of the adventure!) Oh, and no credit cards back then either! If you ran out of cash, you were out of luck...which we almost did on the way home on one of those trips, because it rained so much we ended up having to eat in a restaurant (no McDonalds' back then) and that pretty much took the last dollar...but we still managed to arrive home safely even if on fumes! LOL.
Now, this photo (below) was taken a few years before, while we were still living on our farm in Pennsylvania. This was in 1952.
L to R: Russell, Clifford, Daddy, me in my mother's arms, and Doris in front. That is our old farmhouse in the background:
That corresponds with this photo I already shared a couple of months ago. At first I thought it was taken at the same time, but after looking my sister's dress and mine, I decided this must have been a different Sunday afternoon, even though my mother is still wearing the same pretty sundress.
Also, in the photo above you see our dog Laddie. Here is another photo of Laddie below:
Now back to the present...
Yesterday, July 23, 2023, was my sweet Mother-in-law's "heavenly" 100th birthday. HERE is a link to a tribute I wrote about her several years ago.
She was a one of a kind Mother in law, and I miss her a LOT!
Well, yesterday, on what would have been her 100th birthday, one of her dear "cousins" (by marriage), joined her in heaven to celebrate:
Yes, our "cousin Jane" entered heaven's gates yesterday morning, and I am sure there was a real celebration going on once she arrived.
These pictures are of Jane and "Nanny" (Vivian) together in happier times.
Jane had just turned 93 a few weeks ago, and passed away rather unexpectedly yesterday...but it wasn't unexpected to Jesus...I'm sure He was there to welcome her "home", where she joined her husband, one of her sons, and many others that she was looking forward to seeing again in heaven.
We will miss Jane. She was one of those unforgettable characters that you love to know.
Here's a picture (below) of the last time we saw Jane, (with my hubby) when she came with other family members to visit us at "Dixie Cottage" earlier this year. At that point, she was still able to live in her own home alone, even though she was legally blind and practically deaf, but one determined lady! Not long after this picture was taken she became ill and it was decided that she could no longer live alone, so she went to an Assisted Living home. She was doing well there until this past weekend, when God said it was time to call her home to heaven.
Rest in Peace, Jane. You will be missed by all who knew and loved you here.
Jeremiah 32:27
27 “Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh.
Is there anything too hard for Me?"
We have a lady in our church who is a single older woman on a very fixed income. Her car basically died and had to be sent to the junk yard. She had no means of purchasing a new car. One of the men in our church had an extra vehicle that he was not using since his wife passed away, and so he literally gave this vehicle to this lady free and clear...just because she needed it, and he didn't need it, so why should he keep it when she needed it? That was his attitude of true Christian love. What a testimony of God's amazing grace!
And then, we were surprised when two teens who were here visiting their grandparents for a few weeks both decided that they wanted to be baptized! And so there was a baptism of these precious young people as a testimony of their faith in Jesus Christ! Here they are below with our Pastor and his wife and also one of their relatives who stood up with them...
And here with their very proud and happy grandparents:
What a joyous way to end a day that had its share of trials and difficulties.
Okay, that about wraps it up. Oh, we had our house pressure washed over the weekend:
This was done by our DIL's sister and her son. They did a great job and our house is pretty and clean again!
And then our DIL and son brought over supper on Saturday night! What a blessing!! I forgot to take pictures of that, but we ended up the night playing Dominoes...and that was a lot of fun.
Okay, that's it for now. I hope you had a blessed weekend and that you will have a wonderful week ahead.
And remember,
Luke 1:37
37 For with God nothing will be impossible.”
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Precious memories and new one's being made. So sorry about the lady with Stage 4. I pray she's healed soon.
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Thank you for the prayers for my friend. Yes, she really needs them, and I know she would appreciate them. I am also praying for her healing. God is able. Amen.
DeleteI love the old family photos of you and your family. I look at them, and am reminded how blessed we were back then, to live in a country such as ours. That is so cool that you grew up partly on a farm in PA. My folks also used to travel like you mentioned - always prepared. It was just me and my sister and the car never felt big enough. We were always fighting and arguing, "Mom, Donna touched me." and my dad giving us the LOOK from the rear view mirror. Ahhh good times.
ReplyDeleteWe left the farm when I was almost 6, so my memories are few and far between, but what I have are good. Now, add two more bodies to your car...big ones at that...as you could see my oldest brother was over 6' tall by the time he was 14, so we were all really crammed in there tight! And with no AC...we had windows open and feet sticking out the windows sometimes! LOL But yes, good times indeed. I didn't really know then those were the best of times!!
DeleteHow wonderful to receive those photos. They are priceless! Sorry about the bad news you heard. That good news is great about the car and those two precious children being baptized. Hope you have a lovely week.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Debby. Yes, it was such a sweet surprise to receive those photos. Brought back so many sweet memories. And regarding the bad news, we can only commit these dear ones to the Lord and pray that He will work on their behalf to bring healing wherever possible. It is a joy to see good things happening in the midst of the sad. I hope your week is wonderful too.
DeleteHow ironic that we find the sad and the happy on church. Two years ago, my brother in law was speaking in church as he did each Sunday before the pastor. B I Law was a physician who preached sometimes…anyway he fell at his wife’s feet as he left the pulpit. Heart attack. To hospital…never spoke again but use blinks for yes and no. The day he was being transferred, my sweet boy died of a stroke. I was 15 when I started dating his brother…two weeks before I turned sixteen. He was thirteen and always a good brother in law. He died in June 2021. In church basically. Also my best ever friend from birth lost her husband in 2020. My good friend in Iowa lost her husband suddenly 2021…my son in law lost his dad 2020…four widows have joined a club they never wanted to join. Must add here that all four women were married almost or over fifty years and all enjoyed every single day as a wife.Brenda
ReplyDeleteIt does seem that the older we get, the more we are seeing the loss of so many precious people. But when they know Jesus we know we will see them again one day, and that is a great comfort. We will be married 54 years this August. We've been blessed, but there have been difficult days, as there are in most marriages. Thankfully we knew the Great Healer and Marriage Mender and He kept us moving forward in the right direction. Too many people give up too soon these days, and it breaks my heart. But we can only commit them to God and ask Him to do His work in their lives as only He can. Thank you for writing. I hope you have a blessed and wonderful week.
DeleteSo loved seeing your old family photos, Pamela, and the hearing about the memories they bring back for you. I have many memories, too, of long trips in cars with no air conditioning - whew! I'm glad that's not the case today.
ReplyDeleteIt seems that good news is often overshadowed by the bad, doesn't it? But we can always look to God for strength and guidance. Our youngest grandchild, Alexandra, shares your MIL's birthday. Now, that's a date I will always remember!
Blessings!
Oh how I love these olden photographs! Wasn't it sweet how our mothers dressed us in pretty little dresses -- not just for special occasions. Yep, I well remember being shuttled from New Mexico across the south to Florida or up to Minnesota -- without benefit of air conditioning. Maybe because I was young and ignorant, it didn't seem so horrible. Can't say the same thing today!
ReplyDeleteMy heart's aching for that poor lady journeying through cancer; but what a blessing she has her church FAMILY standing strong for her throughout. I'm blown away by that man's generosity about the car. Yes, I believe there are angels among us!
Pam: I love the old pictures you shared. It is always a joyous time when someone chooses to get baptized. Jim and I went out of town to see Roger and some friends of Jim's down where he grew up. Nice visit. Peace an blessings to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteHooray for the house washing!! Hooray for the baptisms and the generosity in your church. I am sorry you lost Jane but we know where she is and that is a blessing. I will pray for your friend with cancer and hope the couple facing divorce will find peace in a reconciliation or a resolution of divorce. God is in control. I so enjoyed the old photos, Pam. They are so great!! xo
ReplyDeleteYour family photos remind me of old pictures of my own family. Two boys, two girls, Mom and Dad. Such wonderful memories they bring to mind.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for your loss but it sounds as if she's celebrating in Heaven right now with those who have gone before.
Prayers will be said for the lady from your church with cancer and also for the couple contemplating divorce. May God bless all three of them and that they will seek His will in their lives.
But such praises too. The gift of a car and two yound people turning their lives over to Christ are definitely wonderful things. Praise God!
I hope your Tuesday is a wonderful one and that you enjoy every moment.
Blessings and hugs,
Betsy
Condolences on losing Jane. I think I missed commenting on your previous post, but I had been up in the middle of the night, couldn't sleep, and commented on the one prior to that, the one about old music. We mostly stayed at home this weekend. The heat is draining me so, how 'bout you? You know how I love love love old pictures so I did so enjoy this post! Great old pictures of your family. I'm wondering if that one might've been Easter?---clean pressed white shirts, nice slacks, pretty dresses. Y'all look all dressed in your Sunday best. So glad she sent you these great pictures! Bet your house looks so fresh and clean now! Looks like they did a great job. I just love your home, it's so pretty. Oh, your dog Laddie!! You KNOW HOW I LOVE dogs! He was so beautiful, and looks very wise and very protective. I loved road trips! Some of my most most favorite memories are long road trips when I was a child. Yes, I do remember....no "drive-thru's", LOL! Your could stop and go inside a real restaurant OR...we packed food. Coolers of sandwiches wrapped up in wax paper. Bags of 'tater" chips, lots of cold Cokes on ice. Pickles. Cheeses. Twinkies. LOL. I sure remember before the big highways were put in.....we sure went on some old old rickety mountain roads, ha ha LOL. And stopped at those little rest stops....just a pull over on the side of the road....with a concrete picnic table and maybe a grill. Hardly any of those left, guess they took them all out. Have a great week my friend and try to stay cool and hydrated.
ReplyDeleteP, s. Love the way you respond to your readers. Thank you. Brenda
ReplyDeleteThank you, Brenda. I wish I could say that I do respond every time, but I can't seem to always keep up. Between reading what others are writing/posting and trying to comment to them, and then replying here too, well, sometimes it becomes overwhelming and I have to just trust that others will understand when I can't write a personal note. But I love hearing from everyone and I do read every single comment and thank the Lord for each and every one of you.
DeleteI love old family/friends pictures, they come with so many precious memories. Cousin Jane is now with the Lord and all her loved ones and her friend, Vivian, not that's something to smile about. Great to see those young people accept the Lord into their lives, their name is now in the Lord's Book of Life, something else to smile about. We love to play dominos, we used to play 42 with our good friends, so many laughs as the dominos fell. My son and I just played a game a few weeks ago.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your old family photos. I remember black and white ones of our family. Your mother-in-law is lovely and so is lady with her. Vivian is my mother-in-law's name as well but she is in heaven as well as her husband. I like the cups, saucers and plates in the glass cabinet beside her. I have some tea cups and sauces my aunt Ethel saved for me after she passed away, 1977, when I was in USAF in England. My mom was able to get them and I have had them since I came back to the states 1978. Plus another good thing for me as well....money that I was able to use to buy my 1st car, while in England but it is was American car. My dad died the year our son was 2 which is sad but he's better in heaven due to what he was going through, also my mom years later. At least she was able to see 2 of our 3 grandchildren. I need to play dominos again. Not done that in awhile!! God bless and hope to hear back from you on my blog!!--Becky
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