That is our house down at the bottom of the picture, and the lots in question are to the right. There's Still Waters Pond, and you can see the little islands that I look at all the time:
Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Saturday, October 23, 2021
Saturday Odds and Ends
Thank you all for your kind words on my last post on Thankful Thursday. I had lots of things to be thankful for then, and I have a few more to add today. Just some "odds and ends" of different little things that are kind of interesting or special in some way. So please come along on this addendum to my thankfulness post.
First off, please excuse the poor quality of these photos. When we went for our evening walk last night, this is what we saw as we approached our walking place. It was dusk, so the light was not very good, and I didn't have my good camera with me...just the the cell phone, and it was at a distance, but you "get the picture" I hope. First this deer was crossing the road in front of us, and paused to watch us coming near.
Then she bounded into the woods, white flag tail flying behind her...
And standing there in the woods was this young buck...now, this enlarged photo looks more like some kind of impressionistic painting doesn't it?
Here's our doe again, camouflaged in the trees:
And here's the young buck, waiting for the signal to move on...
I can't get over how much these look like paintings! Maybe I should frame them!
A very pleasant way to end a busy day...
Now, let me tell you that my pre-op appointments went very well...even better than expected. I was scheduled for two different appointments, both in the same building, but one at 9:45 a.m. and the other at 1:30 p.m. So we went expecting to spend a long day since this is about an hour from our home so no way to go home in between appointments. However, the 9:45 appointment was over in about 15 minutes, and the nurse attending us suggested that we go over to the lab where the later appointment was scheduled and see if they could work me in earlier. And so we did, and thank the Lord, yes, they were able to take me right in for my lab work and to meet with the anesthesiologist. Oh, one rather little "unpleasant surprise" was that they had to do a "Covid Test". I was not expecting that...and thankfully this was my very first one, and I hope my last! That long Q-tip swab felt like it was poking and probing all the way to my brain! Thankfully the results were negative! Anyway, I passed all my other lab tests and answered all the questions to their satisfaction apparently, including the memory test..."I am going to tell you three words, and I want you to repeat them back to me. And then I am going to ask you to draw the face of a clock on this piece of paper and set the time for 11:10, and then when you finish that I will ask you to repeat the three words again." Right now I am struggling to remember those three words...the first was Cabin, (that was easy, because everyone knows I would love to live in a cabin in the woods) the second was table, (I think), and I had to ask my hubby right now if he can remember the words since he was there with me, and he thinks one of the words was truck, but I can not honestly be sure...but I did get them right for the test yesterday, whatever they were! LOL. And so I am scheduled for surgery on Monday at 10:30 a.m.
We were done and out of there by 10:45! Amazing! So we stopped at our "favorite" little cafe' on the way home for some lunch. Sadly, that was NOT so amazing. Must have been a bad day or something. All the tables were still waiting to be cleared, and so we waited for someone to clear a table that we selected, and instead the girl went around and cleared some other tables instead of the one we were waiting beside...that should have been the first clue. After about what seemed like a ten minute wait to actually sit down at a clean table, it was another 10 minutes before the waitress took our order...now mind you, there were probably only about 3 other tables filled...but what we noticed was a lot of people must have called in take out orders because they were coming in left and right and getting their food, while we, the customers sitting in the restaurant waited. Anyway, we finally gave our order. I ordered a quesadilla and a salad, mainly because my son Scott, who is the consummate quesadilla creator at our house, made for himself this amazing creation the night before, and my mouth was still watering for it:
His creations are always filled with the most interesting combinations. This particular one had sausage, ham, fried potatoes, scrambled eggs, spinach and of course, lots of cheese, with sour cream on the side.
So, I asked the waitress for a chicken quesadilla with spinach and cheese, envisioning something almost as nice as what Scott could make. Well, let's just say that it wasn't even picture worthy. The chicken was dry and hard, there was hardly any cheese, and the worst part was, we had to wait almost an hour before we ever got our food...meanwhile, take out orders are going out the door, and we sat there. Hubby wanted to leave before our food came, but I was too hungry and there wasn't any other place close...so we decided that was it. We will have to find another place to stop on our way home from the hospital from now on. That was the only downside to our day.
That is our house down at the bottom of the picture, and the lots in question are to the right. There's Still Waters Pond, and you can see the little islands that I look at all the time:
This is the view I usually see from our back porch:
Anyway, with all of these lots near us being sold, it makes me think we will eventually be getting some new neighbors. Never too soon to start praying for them to be really good neighbors. And also praying that we can be good neighbors to them as well.
Let's see, what else is going on? Well I received a phone call a little while ago from someone I had contacted this past year through Ancestry.com...one of the distant "cousins" through my adopted grandmother's birth family. She is going to be in the area, well, about an hour or so away, tonight and tomorrow, and has some pictures of her grandmother, who would be my grandmother's half sister, and if there is any way possible we can meet it would be lovely. Of course, here I am preparing for surgery on Monday, and I have church tomorrow morning, and I don't know if we will be able to pull it off or not on such short notice, but I am so happy she at least called and let me know that she hasn't forgotten about me and if there's any way possible for us to meet, it would be so nice. So we shall see what develops in the next 24 hours. She was still on the road to her relative's home when she called and didn't know what would transpire once she got there...so at least her heart is in the right place even if we can't actually make it happen this time.
Which brings me to a question I've been pondering. If you read the story of my grandmother's birth that I posted last year, Elva's Story, you will remember that she was given up for adoption at the age of 5 months, and this was way back in 1896. Through my research on Ancestry.com, after having my DNA tested, I was able to figure out who my grandmother's birth parents were. Consequently, I attempted to make contact with several descendants of those birth parents. Of course, no one had any idea that little Elva had ever existed, and this news came as a real surprise to them. Even though this happened over 125 years ago, there was still some hesitancy to accept this information as fact and a little bit of suspicion perhaps about me and my sanity might have been considered. LOL. But now, my question is, if you know that someone you know and care about may actually have a close relative that they never knew existed, and you know that person to be a wonderful person who would love to know more about their ancestor's birth family, etc., what would you do? Do you make an effort to bring them together? Or do you just keep quiet and let "nature take its course"?
Just asking for a "friend"...
Okay folks, that's enough for one day, I'd say! Tomorrow may be a busy day, so I don't know if I'll get around much, and then you know what Monday is...so thank you for your prayers and kind thoughts, and I hope to catch up with you all again as soon as possible!
Meanwhile, I don't know if you can see the "hands reaching out" across these clouds below or not, but this was in the sky last night:
Made me think about this famous painting by Michelangelo in the Sistine chapel. The hand of God reaching out to the hand of Adam.
God is always reaching out to us...in so many ways. Are we paying attention?
Just some food for thought.
Good Night my friends.
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Pam: I have had two COVID tests. The first one was last November. It was a saliva test. (I had to put saliva in a plastic tube.) The second one was this past April. It was a swab test. These two hospitals are in the same healthcare network and I would have preferred to have the saliva test. I asked at the April appointment, why I couldn't have the saliva test. Their response was, "The swab test is more accurate."
ReplyDeleteI wish I could have had the saliva test. The swab wasn't much fun, and since I didn't have any symptoms anyway I think it was unnecessary...but it is what it is. I'm just thankful it was negative.
DeleteChicken quesadilla used to be one of my favorite Mexican foods. Haven't had one in ages (too many carbs).
ReplyDeleteThat's a cool look at your place. I had no idea y'all are so close to that busy road. I thought y'all were further out in the country. Yes, pray about the neighbors. I do. And I always thank the Lord for giving us ones that are quiet and law-abiding.
Prayed about your surgery. I know it will all go well and you'll be feeling super good soon.
Love & Prayers xx
Yes, we are near a very busy road, right on the other side of the pond. Highway 20. It is noisy and sometimes we can't hear ourselves talk while outside on the porch, but still, the setting is beautiful and we have learned to take the good with the bad. We used to be further out in the country at our last house. This one is still kind of "country", just close to the road so we can get to town quicker when we need to! LOL. It's a trade off when you're old. Thank you for your prayers. I know God is with me.
DeleteI will never have a covid test. That swab, should you have had covid, can ram covid too close to the brain. No one should go along with one. We go along with way too many things these days. We don't wish to rock the boat or whatever. I am very glad that your surgery will be a go.
ReplyDeleteYour eating out experience sounds all too familiar. There's just not enough help. Too many people sitting home on their frannies.
You asked about 125 year old relationships. I think I have enough relatives without finding more so I would let it go, but that's just me. What does your husband say? ☺️
Re: relatives, etc., hubby doesn't mind as long as I don't get myself into a "pickle" somehow. I pray for discernment when contacting others, especially when it could cause some friction or anxiety for people. But then, sometimes there is that "story" out there that just needs to be told...all in God's good time. And yes, the restaurant experience is probably just that...not enough help, but we've eaten there many times and it's usually the same number of people...just must have been a bad day...but then again...there was no effort on their part to even apologize for the delay or explain...it was not very pleasant. I think they can do better than that.
DeleteHi Pam, Monday is my hubby's birthday. I will keep you in prayer. I can see the hands in the picture. I like the the pictures you shared showing your home and the pond. I hope you get quiet neighbors too!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to your hubby on Monday. Thank you for your prayers. I am glad you enjoyed the pictures and the "hands". So nice to remember that we are always in God's hands. Amen.
DeleteWhat an awful disappointment, that cafe! I wonder what Scott thinks about opening his own spot? I'd order one of his quesadillas in a heartbeat!
ReplyDeleteI couldn't believe my eyes when I read about your cognitive function test -- that's exactly what the visiting nurse gave Tom, right down to drawing 11:10 on the clock face! Sure enjoyed this bird's eye view of your home; and yes, I'm crossing my fingers y'all inherit some nice neighbors. Not so sure I see a right hand, but the left? Yes, indeed. Comforting, isn't it?
Thank you, Myra! I guess that is the standard test these days! Do you remember what his three words were? Maybe you can help me remember! LOL. Yes, the left hand is more noticeable, but in the other picture where it is harder to see, there are more hands reaching across underneath that big one. Maybe I need to enlarge that picture more. But yes, it is comforting. God is always there for us. Funny, Scott used to talk about opening a restaurant, "Tasty Quesi's for Quesadillas. But he's worked in enough food places over the years to know it's not the best thing for him. He's much happier doing lawn maintenance at the Golf Course. Much less stress, and sometimes that is the best job...
DeleteThe only one we can remember is 'sunset.'. Tricky!
DeleteOh dear, I do hope sunset wasn't one of my words. I should have remembered it if it was, as often as I enjoy the sunset!! LOL.
DeleteI do see the hands, Pamela, and what a magnificent photo that is! So glad your pre-op went so well, but sorry about your subsequent dining experience. Danny is such a marvelous cook, this happens to us more than I would care to admit.
ReplyDeleteKnow I'm praying for you, dear friend, and hope you do find the time to meet with that long lost relative who just might become a lifelong friend!
Blessings!
Thank you so much, Martha. Isn't it wonderful how God even shows us "His Hands" right when we need it most? He is never far away...always there for us no matter what. And thank you for the prayers and the well wishes regarding my "long lost relative". I hope we can meet, but we are both on a tight schedule today, so I don't know if it will happen but I am just happy she tried to reach out to me. Maybe we can do a Facetime phone call if we can't meet in person. I am going to suggest it when she calls. Have a blessed and wonderful Sunday, and enjoy your Danny's good cooking! Ha ha.
DeleteYes, indeed! Those first photos you shared looked like paintings! They are beautiful!
ReplyDeleteI'll be at a funeral while you're having surgery. Monday will be a heavy day for both of us. But I'll be praying for you!
I am so sorry that you will be faced with such new sorrow and grief. Praying for you that God will comfort and strengthen you and those with whom you will be grieving. Yes, God will be with you and with me as well. We are safe and protected and loved in His omnipotent hands.
DeleteI will be praying for you. I know it is going to be just fine ...those hands of God are going to guide the doctors.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sandy. Amen. I believe I will most definitely be in God's omnipotent hands. No safer place to be.
DeleteYou have been busy. Praying that you have sweet peace as Monday approaches and that it will go very well.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Ruth. I appreciate your prayers and peaceful thoughts.
DeleteKeeping you in my prayers, Pam! Glad you could remember the three words!! Tell your "friend" that if it feels right, perhaps a meeting could be arranged... but only if it feels right. Nice your relative got in touch even if you can't make a visit work this time. Those drone photos from Zillow are pretty cool! And, those pictures of the deer do look like impressionist paintings that you could frame!! Love & hugs! xo
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Terri. I appreciate your words of wisdom and I agree with you. If something doesn't "feel right" it is better to hold off than to perhaps open up "Pandora's Box" and wish you hadn't. I'm glad you liked my "paintings" and drone photos. There are a lot more, but I guess everyone got "the picture". I am still waiting to hear if we can meet this afternoon with my new relative. I hope we can, but we are both on a bit of a time crunch this time. But she lives in NC and I don't know when we'll get another opportunity, so I am hoping and praying we can work it out. Have a blessed Sunday. We will be out the door around 8:15.
DeleteWe have been in contact with my mother in-laws half brother (she was adopted when she was 5-70+ yrs ago). He seems nice enough (according the phone calls and emails) and hubby went over last weekend and met him. Mental illness doesn't seem to run on his side (his dad is my mother in-laws dad). ANYWAYS, I don't know if anything will come of it...he had no idea she even existed-Thanks to the DNA testing...he does think she is really "insane" and something is wrong with her- which she is...its sad. anyways...
ReplyDeleteKeeping you in prayer.
How wonderful that you hubby reached out to his "uncle" and met him. I bet it was kind of neat to meet another family member that seemed to be more "normal". I just find it fascinating to realize that we have more family out there than we ever knew possible, and sometimes we may even have more in common with them than the ones we knew in person. LOL. Of course, DNA testing shows us we probably really are related to just about the whole world...LOL. It is amazing...
DeleteI am praying for you regarding your surgery tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteA few years ago I was having medical tests done and had to be inside a machine like a torpedo in a launch tube. I am not happy in enclosed tight spaces, to say the least. So I asked our homeschool co-op to pray. Well... as I was in the machine with eyes closed (as a friend suggested) I was inundated with happy memories and peaceful thoughts. I remembered my grandparents' garden, an old friend, snacks...this old friend always had emergency snacks to share, just one thought after another, all good. I don't know which person prayed that for me, but it was fantastic. I am totally praying it for you.
Oh Sandi, Thank you for the prayers. And I hear you about being in a "machine like a torpedo in a launch tube." LOL. Good description. I am a bit claustrophobic too, and yes, my way of getting through those things is to pray, sing little hymns/praise songs and think happy thoughts. I like these things you thought about...really sweet memories. I love that you are praying for me. I will think of you when I think about those "snacks", etc. LOL. Love this idea. I wish I could remember my grandparents' garden, but I really wasn't around them that much to know what was in their gardens. My paternal grandmother did grow roses and snapdragons and gladiolas I think. My maternal grandmother had gardens when she was younger, but when I knew her she was not in very good health and couldn't garden anymore, although my grandfather grew rhubarb. Ever try to eat that raw?????LOL. Now that's a memory! Thank you for making me smile in the best ways.
DeleteI LOVE rhubarb. Seriously! 😂 I can't believe you mentioned it. It grew in our yard when I was a kid. I think the previous homeowners planted it. I would eat it raw then, but I have tried it as an adult and yikes! I don't know how I did that.
DeleteThe drone snapshot of Still Waters Pond is fascinating!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Barbara. I think so too. There are more of them, but these were the best. I like having a "birds eye view" of things, don't you? Kind of fun to see what the eagles see as they soar above us. (well, they do occasionally soar above us here, just not very often). Thinking of you today and for tomorrow. (((hugs)))
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