Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Remember: "When God closes a door, He always opens a window!" You never know what might be out there waiting for you!
Monday, November 13, 2023
Monday Monday
Happy Monday Morning! Afternoon Evening!!...been a busy day! I hope this Monday finds you feeling refreshed and ready to start the new week! (I know, I'm probably much too chipper for some folks on a Monday morning! Sorry, but not sorry!...It's a great day to be alive and well and praising God for another day of life!)
It was a busy but happy weekend here in our neck of the woods. Saturday, November 11th, in addition to being Veteran's Day, was also our "kids", Benton and Rose's 6th wedding anniversary! HERE is a link to the post I wrote back then about their wedding day. Although we didn't celebrate with them on Saturday as we each had different things going on for the day, we did get together Sunday afternoon after church for a delicious steak dinner. Our son Scott came home and grilled the steaks to perfection, and we had a delightful time of celebrating together.
Here's the "kids" , ready to cut into their steak dinner. The hands dishing up the salad belong to our son Scott. (photo bomber!) LOL.
I know this table scene is probably becoming quite common to everyone who has followed me since we moved to this house...this is where we sit to celebrate all kinds of special occasions, as well as just getting together for plain and ordinary events as well! And really, anytime we can be together with family and/or friends is a special occasion, even if we are only eating peanut butter and jelly! LOL.
That steak was so large I barely touched it because I was enjoying the huge baked potato, broccoli and cauliflower, salad and Hawaiian Roll too much. I saved my steak for later, and I may have a steak sandwich for lunch...or add it to a salad...that would be healthier, right?
A little fun gift I gave them was a set of six of these cute "North Pole Christmas red truck" mugs. They love that little red truck design, and actually I found these, brand new, for sale at the flea market. I figured giving them to them now instead of at Christmas would enable them to be used throughout the Christmas season...or they can use them to decorate some of their furniture at Dixie Cottage...where, yes, they still do put furniture for sale in the store even though they no longer own the business. And actually, starting in December, Dixie Cottage is growing! They are annexing the store space right next door and Benton and Rose will be putting more of their furniture for sale in there...some that Benton actually builds himself...unfinished or finished, whichever anyone desires. It will be an added adventure for them, but without the constraints of owning and operating a store...which is very time consuming and confining. So we wish them well in their new adventure!
While still on the topic of yesterday, November 12th, I got to thinking that that date was familiar for some reason, and I remembered that it was the birthdate of my paternal Grandpa (Mursch). It seems as though I've written lots and lots about my paternal Grandma (Elva) Mursch in the past, but my Grandpa hasn't gotten as much attention! So in honor of his memory, here's a few pictures of my Grandpa Mursch, who was born on November 12, 1890, in Utica, NY. He died on December 17, 1975, in Mt. Dora, Florida. He worked as an engineer for the U.S. Steel company in Pittsburgh, PA, for all of his adult life and retired from there in the mid 1950's, and then they moved to Florida. He was a brilliant man, and actually had a few inventions at U.S. Steel, but because he was employed by them, the patents belonged to the company. He and my Daddy built the log cabin vacation home in PA. that I've written about many times, which they sold when they retired and moved to Florida. He was very talented in woodworking as well as other skills. My father inherited a lot of his woodworking abilities from him, and then those skills I believe were also passed down to my son Benton. Okay, so here's a few pictures of my Grandpa:
Here's who is in the picture. My Grandpa is on the far right end, standing.
Back Row: My Grandpa's brother Fred, sister Louise, brother Jack Mursch, Step-brother Jack Humphrey, Step Sister Margaret Humphrey , My Grandpa William, front row: my Great Grandpa Frederick Wilhelm Mursch, my grandpa's half sister Marie, and Step Mother Hannah Humphrey Mursch
Here he is as a middle aged- man.
I love this picture of him with my Grandma.
And in later years with all his children. Sadly, by this time he had Parkinson's Disease, and soon became totally debilitated by it. This was before they had all the good medicines they have now for Parkinsons. It was very sad to see him suffer with it.
Uncle Paul, Grandpa Mursch, Aunt Marion, Grandma (Elva) Mursch, my Dad Bill Mursch,
and Aunt Ruth.
Grandpa died at the age of 85, but the last few years he was wheel-chair bound and the Parkinson's had robbed him of his ability to talk as well as walk. I feel like I missed out on really getting to ask him a lot of things because those were the years that I was "mature" enough to want to know him better. My Grandpa was a good Christian man, very active in their Lutheran Church in which they were charter members because when they moved to Florida there was no Lutheran church anywhere close by.
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Grandpa!!! I look forward to seeing you again some day in heaven, where you will be able to move around freely and without pain or suffering!
My father also ended up with Parkinson's disease, but thankfully by the time he had it the treatment plan was much better and he never totally lost his ability to get around and communicate.
Let's see, what else has been going on? Well, on Saturday our church had what we call an "Agape" Potluck luncheon. We do this once a month and it's just a gathering of whoever wants to come and bring a dish to share and a time of fellowship. This time we also celebrated the 80th birthday of one of our members, who also happens to be our church Sound Technician and Building and Grounds person. In other words, if it needs fixing, call Denny! Every church needs someone like him!!
Denny was also a Navy Veteran, so it was appropriate that his birthday was on Veteran's Day!
There was a great crowd and lots of really good food!
Speaking of our church, I am so excited that our little United Methodist Church has voted to disaffiliate from the United Methodist denomination and will officially become a part of the Global Methodist Church in December of this year. This has been a long process, with a LOT of paper-work and financial considerations that had to be met in order for the UMC to release us with our property intact. I won't go into all of those details, but suffice it to say that we are VERY thankful to be able to withdraw from the UMC and be free to preach and teach the true Word of God without fear of being forced to accept the false indoctrination of the UMC. If you aren't familiar with the issue that is facing the UMC, or if you don't know what the difference is between the Global Methodist Church and the United Methodist Church, here is a good link with more information: Global Methodist Church: Our beliefs and governance. We are very thankful to have a very committed Bible teaching/believing/Spirit led Pastor, who preaches the true Word of God. Here is a link to this past Sunday's sermon, in case you are interested: From Matthew 25:31-46, "What if Jesus Showed Up at Church Today?"
I was also excited to find out that my home church where I grew up has also disaffiliated from the UMC and has become a part of the Global Methodist Church. I know that there are several of you who are blogging friends who are also a part of Methodist churches who are leaving the UMC, whether or not they have decided to join the Global Methodist Church or are now independent/non-denominational churches, they have decided to follow Jesus, "no turning back, no turning back".
Sing along with us:
1. I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.
2. Tho' none go with me, I still will follow,
Tho' none go with me I still will follow,
Tho' none go with me, I still will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.
3. My cross I'll carry, till I see Jesus;
My cross I'll carry till I see Jesus,
My cross I'll carry till I see Jesus;
No turning back, No turning back.
4. The world behind me, the cross before me,
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
No turning back, no turning back.
Amen!
In this day and age of so much turmoil and false teachings running rampant in the world and in so many main-line denominations, it is important to stand strong on the Word of God...and to stand with Joshua of old when he said:
Joshua 24:15 NKJV
15 And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell.
But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
I am happy for you and your church to have made the right decision, Pam. I know you are so happy too!! Rose and Ben look so cute with their Christmas mugs! Great gift and exciting about Dixie Cottage expanding and allowing them to sell more of their furniture there. Nice! Sending love and a hug!!
Happy Annivesary to Burton and Rose. I love those cups. I, too, enjoy those little red Christmas trucks. And a big Happy Birthday to Denny too. That's a very pretty cake. But the best new for me is about your church leaving the UMC. Satan has been very busy in the churches in recent years and I'm glad that your church can now continue to teach the true Word of God. No turning back! Blessings and hugs, Betsy
Oh Pam...I loved this post! I love family history and so I enjoyed immensely all that you shared about your Grandpa Mursch! Such a special way to remember him. It was great to see pictures of Rose and Benton after my being away from blogging for several years. They look so happy...and your birthday dinner looked and sounded delicious. I also liked your tablescape...such a beautiful tribute to autumn. While we aren't a part of the Methodist denomination, I certainly applaud all of the UMC churches who have undergone the process to disaffiliate with the UMC and moved on to the Global Methodist Church. They definitely were given cause to do so. Blessings to you, dear Pam.
Wow - you really did have a full weekend. Happy Anniversary to your son and DIL. I love the mugs! I loved the pics of your grandpa. He sounds like a great guy and I can see some resemblance to you. Good for your church for standing firm. Our church left the Reformed church of America about 7 years ago for similar issues. In doing so we lost our church building as it was owned by the denomination, even though out of about 250 people, only 15 voted to stay. We had to meet in schools for a while, but God has been faithful and we have new building, and the testimonies of how God worked that out are wonderful!
That's a wonderful testimony of the faith and courage and strength of your congregation. I love how God has blessed you all and that you are stronger now for the experience, I am sure. Yes, even though our church voted 99% to leave the UMC, we still have to pay the UMC a hefty fee to leave, but we do get to keep the building and property, praise God! Unfortunately for many smaller and larger churches, they are unable to pay the fees so they are stuck, or they do what your church did and leave anyway. It's very sad because the people are the ones who have paid for that property and maintained it over the years...the denomination did not do anything except try to change and distort what God has spoken in His Word. They will have the bigger price to pay in the end. We are just thankful to be able to get out and move forward in Christ. Thank you for sharing your church's story. That is beautiful!
Love the anniversary pictures and gift to your dear son and DIL! Congratulations, too, and blessings for your church leaving the UMC - that's wonderful! 35 years ago we moved to CO for my husband to pastor a group that had left their local UMC. What an amazing group of people who loved the Lord and His word. It was a special almost 14 years for us with them. God blessed over and above all we could expect.
Pam: Our church went through that process of disaffiliation, also. It seems that the members are more unified than before. (An answer to prayer.) I love the picture of Rose and Benton showing off their mugs. Glad to hear that Dixie Cottage is expanding. I am glad to hear that Benton will be able to add more product to his line. That meal sounds delicious. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
Our church made the same decision to disaffiliate, Pamela, and we're still in the process of making it final. Yes, the North Georgia conference got off to a slow start. We have decided to keep our Wesleyan traditions, but will stay an independent congregation. Lovely photos of your family and your church family, too! Happy Birthday, Denny! Blessings!
Oh, those red truck mugs you've found are delightful! I just realized, in spite of Benton's being his dad's doppelganger, he has your smile! What fun y'all have gathered around that table; and yes, the size of those steaks is something else! If Tom were here, he'd be asking where in the heck you found those giant potatoes. That's great news about Dixie Cottage's expansion and the kids' enjoying the profits without the any stress. I still hope to get down there one way (provided Toms' health improves). It's always something!
PS - Big congrats on your congregation's disaffiliation! Sunday morning Pastor Janet was saying some churches are now having to entertain legal action.
So much going on, Pam, and I have fallen behind in blog commenting. First, belated anniversary wishes to Benton & Rose and always nice to see family celebrations. Those red truck mugs will be enjoyed before, during and after the holiday season - perfect for tea and cocoa! I enjoyed seeing all the vintage family photos as well; perhaps one day I will do a few posts with some of my own.
What lovely family memories. My grandpa was my playmate growing up. They lived in a mobile home right behind our house and Grandpa played pitch and catch with me and we took long walks. I'm happy to hear of your church's decision to disassociate with the UMC. I've read up on what's going on with all that. God's word is being compromised at a major scale and I'm so thankful for people and churches who are fighting back.
Thank you for visiting here today. I would love for you to sign my guestbook and let me know you stopped by. I always enjoy reading your comments and words of encouragement! May you be blessed as you go on your way. Please come back and visit again soon.
I am happy for you and your church to have made the right decision, Pam. I know you are so happy too!! Rose and Ben look so cute with their Christmas mugs! Great gift and exciting about Dixie Cottage expanding and allowing them to sell more of their furniture there. Nice! Sending love and a hug!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Annivesary to Burton and Rose. I love those cups. I, too, enjoy those little red Christmas trucks. And a big Happy Birthday to Denny too. That's a very pretty cake. But the best new for me is about your church leaving the UMC. Satan has been very busy in the churches in recent years and I'm glad that your church can now continue to teach the true Word of God. No turning back!
ReplyDeleteBlessings and hugs,
Betsy
Happy Anniversary to Benton and Rose! Those steaks look delicious. So glad your church was able to change. Hope you have a good day!
ReplyDeleteOh Pam...I loved this post! I love family history and so I enjoyed immensely all that you shared about your Grandpa Mursch! Such a special way to remember him. It was great to see pictures of Rose and Benton after my being away from blogging for several years. They look so happy...and your birthday dinner looked and sounded delicious. I also liked your tablescape...such a beautiful tribute to autumn. While we aren't a part of the Methodist denomination, I certainly applaud all of the UMC churches who have undergone the process to disaffiliate with the UMC and moved on to the Global Methodist Church. They definitely were given cause to do so. Blessings to you, dear Pam.
ReplyDeleteWow - you really did have a full weekend. Happy Anniversary to your son and DIL. I love the mugs!
ReplyDeleteI loved the pics of your grandpa. He sounds like a great guy and I can see some resemblance to you.
Good for your church for standing firm. Our church left the Reformed church of America about 7 years ago for similar issues. In doing so we lost our church building as it was owned by the denomination, even though out of about 250 people, only 15 voted to stay. We had to meet in schools for a while, but God has been faithful and we have new building, and the testimonies of how God worked that out are wonderful!
That's a wonderful testimony of the faith and courage and strength of your congregation. I love how God has blessed you all and that you are stronger now for the experience, I am sure. Yes, even though our church voted 99% to leave the UMC, we still have to pay the UMC a hefty fee to leave, but we do get to keep the building and property, praise God! Unfortunately for many smaller and larger churches, they are unable to pay the fees so they are stuck, or they do what your church did and leave anyway. It's very sad because the people are the ones who have paid for that property and maintained it over the years...the denomination did not do anything except try to change and distort what God has spoken in His Word. They will have the bigger price to pay in the end. We are just thankful to be able to get out and move forward in Christ. Thank you for sharing your church's story. That is beautiful!
DeleteLove the anniversary pictures and gift to your dear son and DIL! Congratulations, too, and blessings for your church leaving the UMC - that's wonderful! 35 years ago we moved to CO for my husband to pastor a group that had left their local UMC. What an amazing group of people who loved the Lord and His word. It was a special almost 14 years for us with them. God blessed over and above all we could expect.
ReplyDeletePam: Our church went through that process of disaffiliation, also. It seems that the members are more unified than before. (An answer to prayer.) I love the picture of Rose and Benton showing off their mugs. Glad to hear that Dixie Cottage is expanding. I am glad to hear that Benton will be able to add more product to his line. That meal sounds delicious. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteOur church made the same decision to disaffiliate, Pamela, and we're still in the process of making it final. Yes, the North Georgia conference got off to a slow start. We have decided to keep our Wesleyan traditions, but will stay an independent congregation.
ReplyDeleteLovely photos of your family and your church family, too! Happy Birthday, Denny!
Blessings!
Oh, those red truck mugs you've found are delightful! I just realized, in spite of Benton's being his dad's doppelganger, he has your smile! What fun y'all have gathered around that table; and yes, the size of those steaks is something else! If Tom were here, he'd be asking where in the heck you found those giant potatoes.
ReplyDeleteThat's great news about Dixie Cottage's expansion and the kids' enjoying the profits without the any stress. I still hope to get down there one way (provided Toms' health improves). It's always something!
PS - Big congrats on your congregation's disaffiliation! Sunday morning Pastor Janet was saying some churches are now having to entertain legal action.
So much going on, Pam, and I have fallen behind in blog commenting. First, belated anniversary wishes to Benton & Rose and always nice to see family celebrations. Those red truck mugs will be enjoyed before, during and after the holiday season - perfect for tea and cocoa! I enjoyed seeing all the vintage family photos as well; perhaps one day I will do a few posts with some of my own.
ReplyDeleteWhat lovely family memories. My grandpa was my playmate growing up. They lived in a mobile home right behind our house and Grandpa played pitch and catch with me and we took long walks.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy to hear of your church's decision to disassociate with the UMC. I've read up on what's going on with all that. God's word is being compromised at a major scale and I'm so thankful for people and churches who are fighting back.