What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Remember: "When God closes a door, He always opens a window!" You never know what might be out there waiting for you!
Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts

Sunday, October 28, 2018

Random Acts of Being a Good Neighbor


With all the crazy stuff going on out there in the world, I thought you might like to hear about a thoughtful "random act of being a good neighbor".
Nothing huge...just sweet.

I was coming back into our back yard after a quick morning walk. It was starting to sprinkle rain, so I was in a bit of a hurry.  But as I entered our gate, I thought I saw a dragonfly land on something on top of one of our fence-posts that divides our property from our neighbor.
I couldn't quite figure out why the dragonfly was landing on something higher than the top of the post.  That didn't make sense.
So as I walked a little closer, the dragonfly flew away, but then I saw what it was he had been standing upon:



This little bear, just standing there with his paws behind his back, looking like he had a little secret.


So I turned him around and saw that he had a little fish in his paw, and thought..."well, isn't that something! I wonder where he came from?  I've never seen him here before..."
He just stood there, looking so innocent and nonchalant, as if to say, 
"Ha Ha...I've got a secret, and I won't tell, I won't tell, I won't tell..."

I was flabbergasted! Where did he come from? How long had he been there?
Did one of our neighborhood bears leave him there as a little reminder that they are always nearby, even when we don't know it?

So, of course, I took his picture...and then I left him there on the post until I could solve the mystery.
Later that day our neighbor came outside as I was going out to get the mail.
He said hello to me...and I asked him, "Did you leave this cute little bear sitting here on our fence post?"  He said, "Yes, I wondered how long it would take for you to find him. He's been there for about a week!"  Me, dumbfounded, said, "I guess I just haven't been very observant lately with so much on my mind."
He said, "well, I found him in a box of stuff I got at the flea market, and knew that you loved bears so thought you'd like to have him."

Of course I'd like to have him. What a sweet, thoughtful gesture.
As I said, nothing big...just a little kindness from a nice neighbor.
He's kind of a big bear of a guy himself...kind of a loner, but very kind and thoughtful. This isn't the first "random act of being a good neighbor" he had done for us.
People like this make it more difficult to move. 
I pray God will send just the right kind of neighbor here for our neighbor to appreciate and vice versa.
And may we always be that kind of neighbor to others as well.
Just little random acts of kindness...whether they be neighbors next door or across the street or across the highway, or in the next county...at the grocery store, the gas station, 
wherever we meet people,
May we always strive to be a "good neighbor" who spreads kindness and good will.

Here is a good story about being a good neighbor:

Luke 10:25-37 New International Version (NIV)

The Parable of the Good Samaritan

25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
26 “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”
27 He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
28 “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”
29 But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
30 In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii[c] and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’
36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

So now, this little bear has joined some new friends here in our house. He seems right at home here.


Hey! " Won't you be, won't you be, please won't you be, my neighbor?" (Mr. Rogers)

Friday, August 24, 2018

Friday Foto Friends - Continuing the Saga of the Family Gathering



Hello Friday Foto Friends! It has been a long week for us as we continue to work through the aftermath since the loss of my mother in law. We have mostly been just plain exhausted and have been trying to rest and not do too much.  Hence, I haven't done much writing or picture taking...so I thought I'd go back and finish what I started to tell you about a few weeks ago.
So here we go:
Recently I shared with you a bit about our family gathering/reunion that we went to in North Carolina.  (Click HERE for that story)   In that post I alluded to the original farmhouse and acreage that belonged to the three siblings that had never married and who "adopted" my brother's family/and vice versa...and that after the last member of that elderly trio of siblings passed on, their house and property were willed to my brother and his family, because they had literally loved and cared for them as if they were family until the very end.  Well, today I am going to show you some of the highlights of that original farmhouse, where my niece and her family now live and call home.   This house dates back to the 1700's...and there was even an old slave cabin on the property...which is being donated to the historical society of the area for preservation...

Anyway...this is the view of the house from the outside.  Sadly, that wonderful chimney is no longer functional...but it served several different fireplaces in that old house back in the day...(I wish I had taken more pictures inside...but I was too caught up in looking to get busy "snapping")



This was an old smokehouse that has seen better days...it was built with logs, and is not very tall...

Interesting OLD tree that was apparently hit by lightning at some point in time...makes a good hideout for squirrels, raccoons, and who knows what...

This is my lovely niece giving us a the grand tour...

Another side view of the old smokehouse...definitely has seen better days...

Lovely butterfly gardens...

Part of the garage building..you can probably guess that my niece is a bit of a "flower child"...she loves colorful decorations and all things natural and beautiful...
 Another view of the garden next to the house...

Now THIS had to be my most favorite thing in the whole place...this wonderful old sink was on the enclosed back porch...a great place to wash up when you come in from the garden...

Isn't it wonderful?


I would LOVE to have an old sink like this...


This beautiful handmade table was lovingly created by my brother for his daughter...I believe it was made from wormy chestnut boards that he found on the property.  It is gorgeous...

Remember in the previous post about this story (see link above) I mentioned that the sister in the trio of siblings was crippled by polio, and that she did very exquisite needlework...Well, here is another example. This is a counted cross-stitch picture of this house, and the detail is remarkable. I was delighted to discover that my father had actually drawn the outline for this pattern for her.  My parents had visited these dear people many times on their trips up to N.C. to visit my brother and family. And so my father had taken an interest in this house and wanted to draw it...and then gave it to the lady of the house to create her cross stitch.  It truly is amazing..and quite large.

Now this is something I could not believe!  Here is original carpet that has been in that house for who knows how many years? We guessed maybe since the 1940's or early 50's, because I don't know that they made this kind of carpet pattern much after that era.  It is in one of the large drawing rooms that has never been used much, hence its excellent condition.  It is perfect for this house and is amazing in detail and color...and still feels thick and plush.

Okay...I know you are wondering about this picture...well...believe it or not, this paper wasp nest is on the ceiling of  the back porch, right above the back door.  We all went in through that door and none of us even noticed it...and we came back out that same door and the wasps did not buzz around a single head!  My niece says they just live there and never bother her or her animals as they come and go...

My niece has several dogs and cats...including THIS dog, whose name is "Happy".  And he is a very happy doggy as he belonged to the original owners of this home and has lived here since he was a pup...so my niece inherited "Happy" along with the house.  "Happy" was our official greeter and true tour guide.

And last but certainly not least, as we were finishing up our tour of the house and getting ready to leave, I couldn't help but notice this very poignant setting...my great-niece sitting and relaxing at the end of the day...
 She is a lovely natural young woman with a beautiful singing voice and a promising future using her many talents...


That's all for this post...now let's go over and check and see what's cooking at Deb's place for Friday Foto Friends...

Here is a good thought for today:

Luke 6:38 (NKJV)

Give, and it will be given to you: 
good measure, pressed down, shaken together, 
and running over will be put into your bosom. 
For with the same measure that you use, 
it will be measured back to you.”

My translation: When we give and do for others without thought for personal gain, God will bless us in ways that we never dreamed possible. And that was the case in this situation. My brother's family knew and loved these dear folks who had no other family to care for them.  The two brothers had faithfully loved and cared for their crippled sister, sacrificing their own personal lives for the sake of her life. When the time came that they were no longer able to physically care for her themselves, my brother and his family stepped in and very lovingly cared for them all as if they were their own family, until the very end.  They did not do this expecting to gain anything, but God blessed their kindness by giving back to them in a beautiful way. 
A very beautiful story, don't you agree?

Sunday, August 20, 2017

What If We All Did This?





I was thinking this exact same thing this morning. Trying to think of ways that people could help teach skills to the jobless, homeless, and people who feel they are not being given a chance to have a voice in this world. 

  • Teach them how to pick up a hammer to build homes for the homeless, 
  • pick up a pen to write positive, helpful articles on how to work their way out of poverty and loss, 
  • pick up a shovel, hoe and rake to plant seeds of kindness, gardens of hope, and reap crops of happiness and health to share with their neighbors or hungry community. 
  • Pick up a book and teach a child to read and write, 
  • clean out a closet and provide clothes for the naked and those standing in the cold. 
  • Bake a loaf of bread or some cookies and share it with a lonely person who just needs a friend to talk to or a shoulder to cry on. 
  • Be the change that others need...not by standing around carrying signs and screaming or tearing down old, rusty statues that have no power to hurt or hinder our progress unless we allow them to...
  • but be the change that helps our brother and sister find some hope for a new path in life. 
  • Reach across the aisle and shake hands with your neighbor and do something positive to help make your community and world a better place for all of the human race. 
Just a thought that I believe the Lord placed in my heart as I contemplated this today....what do YOU think? ~ Blessings...

Friday, August 12, 2016

A "Soap" Opera for My Friday Foto Friends

Today is Friday Foto Friends Day...and as of last night I had no clue what I was going to post.  And then this morning as I was washing my face the most amazing thing happened!  My "soap" spoke to me!  Now before you get all lathered up and think I've been sipping on the suds...slip on over here and take a look for yourself!

I opened up a box of Dove Soap...and took out this lovely new bar...and look what it "spoke" to me:


What a lovely way to start my day! In essence...my bar of soap was suggesting to me to be "KIND"!

  • Be KIND to myself...
  • Be KIND to others...
  • "Be KIND to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you"  Ephesians 4:32
I'll bet you never thought your bar of soap would be making positive suggestions or quoting scripture to you, did you???

Well, as if this wasn't amazing enough,  I decided to open up the other boxes in the package and see if they had anything else to say...



Lo! And Behold!  The next one I opened spoke to me again!  It said "LOVE"!  Oh Wow! Now this one truly speaks a mouthful!  (Almost like getting my mouth washed out with soap?)


  • "You shall LOVE your neighbor as yourself!"  Leviticus 19:18
  • "You shall LOVE the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength."  Deuteronomy 6:5
  • "This is My commandment, that you LOVE one another as I have loved you." John 15:12
  • "LOVE never fails"  I Corinthians 13:8
  • "And now abide faith, hope, LOVE, these three; but the greatest of these is LOVE." I Corinthians 13:13
  • "Beloved, let us LOVE one another, for LOVE is of God; and everyone who LOVES is born of God and knows God." I John 4:7
  • "For God so LOVED the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." John 3:16
That's probably enough examples of LOVE, but there so so many more I could list them indefinitely!

However, we need to move along to the NEXT box:


Another remarkable word...CARE....

  • Take good CARE of yourself...Take good CARE of those around you...
  • "Casting all your CARE upon Him (the Lord), for He CARES for you."  I Peter 5:7
  • "Come unto Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28 (Doesn't use the specific word CARE, but it is certainly understood).
Okay, so were there any other messages inside my DOVE soap package?


Let me check....



Oh Yes! REAL!!! This is the REAL Deal!!!  This is not a spoof!  This REALLY happened today!

I hope you have enjoyed this little "Soap Opera"!  Who would ever believe that there could be so much beauty inside this package of Dove "Beauty" Bars?  In checking the packaging a little further I discovered that this is a limited special edition of engraved beauty bars.  Personally, I think it's a great idea!  It certainly made my day start out on a brighter note!  Thank you, DOVE Beauty Bars! You make my heart sing!


Now go over to my friends at Friday Foto Friends #40  and see what they've shared today!


Sunday, August 17, 2014

How Are You Today?

How are you?  I'm fine, thank you. How are you?  I'm okay.

Does this sound familiar? How often do we ask each other these questions back and forth...and do we really listen for the answer?  Or do we just take it for granted that the person says what they mean..."I'm fine, thank you."...but what if they said, "I'm not doing so well. I really need to talk to someone."  Do we stop what we are doing and listen?  Or perhaps they don't come right out and say it that obviously.  Maybe they simply say, "I'm okay", but with a tone that doesn't quite match up to the statement.  Do we prod any further into their private thoughts? Do we ask what's wrong? Do we care?

I am guilty of not taking things a step further.  I often rush on about my business and don't let it sink in that the person may not really be "okay".  This past week everyone was crushed by the tragic suicide of Robin Williams.  Even though I was not a particular fan, I was still saddened by his death. Saddened that the very people who make us laugh are often the ones crying on the inside, and we are not aware. I won't belabor the subject of R.W. any further as much has been said about him all week long in the news, tabloids, everywhere we look.

I will only say that we need to pay closer attention to what people are really saying to us by their

  • actions
  • words
  • expressions
  • writings
  • non-verbal communications
  • attitudes
We have all heard it said:

"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."
This has been attributed to Plato, Greek author & philosopher in Athens (427 BC - 347 BC)

Regardless of who said it when, it seems to be a very true statement.  I can speak it from experience. I mean, haven't we all come through some "hard battles" in life? If you've lived a while on this earth, you surely have had some battles.  I remember one young couple in one of our churches in the past who seemed to have everything going well for them.  Good jobs, nice house, great marriage, beautiful children. The wife once made the comment to me that she couldn't understand why everyone wasn't happy like they were. They considered themselves good Christian people, and therefore they seemed to think that they had no problems, no worries and nothing to fear. Her attitude was that if everyone lived life like they did they shouldn't have so many problems.  I tried hard not to be too critical of this naive young woman, and I didn't want to alarm her, but I wanted her to understand that sooner or later everyone goes through some kind of trial on this earth.  If they don't, then possibly they really aren't living a life worth cultivating.  

The New Testament book of I Peter, Chapter 1, addresses this subject. Primarily in verses 6-8, which say:

"In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while,
if need be, you have been grieved by various trials,
that the genuineness of your faith, being much more
precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire,
may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ,
Whom having not seen you love..."

And again we see in the book of James, chapter 1, verses 2-4:

"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials,
knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.
But let patience have its perfect work,
that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing."

See, sooner or later, if we are living right, we will all suffer through various trials...to help us grow stronger in our faith and maturity.  This young woman that I spoke of earlier soon found out that just living a good life did not guarantee them a worry free existence.  Not long after making this comment to us, their sweet little daughter was diagnosed with autism, and a whole new world of learning and trusting and faith was set before them.  I have not seen or heard of this family in many years since we were called on to other places far away not long after, but I wonder if she would be so glib in her thoughts and comments today.  I have a feeling that their lives were changed over night by this difficult circumstance, but I would be willing to bet they are stronger and richer in faith and love and heart because of the trial that came into their lives.

What I am trying to say is this:  
  • Don't be so quick to dismiss someone just because they say they are "Okay".
  • Take time to listen to what might be said between the lines
  • Don't judge others who may be suffering because they don't live life according to your particular standards.  You really don't know the whole story, do you?
  • Don't be so quick to think just because you live right that you won't ever have to endure hardships.
  • Trials come to all of us sooner or later.
The good news is this:  We are not alone in our struggles and trials.

Psalm 55:22 says:

"Cast your burden on the Lord,
And He shall sustain you;
He shall never permit the righteous to be moved."

Matthew 11:28-30 says:

"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden,
and I will give you rest.
Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me,
for I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls.
For My yoke is easy and My burden is light."

Take time to listen to others...and take time to take care of yourself as well.  If you are currently in the midst of a battle, cast your care upon the Lord...He WILL sustain you. He will not forsake you.  Lean on Him and learn what it means to take His yoke upon you and learn from Him.  Then be willing and able to share that knowledge and love with others who may be struggling beneath their heavy load.

Lord, help me to be a load bearer for others who may be struggling beneath their load. Help me not to be so quick to judge.  Help me to remember to lean on You...and lead others to You for strength as well. Amen.