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Thursday, December 21, 2023

Advent Thursday Before Christmas: Thinking About Mary

Just Thinking...I wonder how many actual days Mary and Joseph were on their journey towards Bethlehem? I read a few different thoughts expressed by different biblical scholars, and the consensus is that it probably took at least a week to 10 days.  The way from Nazareth to Bethlehem was rough and arduous...no truck stops or Hampton Inns or McDonalds along the way or rest stops with nice bathroom facilities. Just a long, dusty, hilly, rocky, dirty, dangerous road, with no one to protect them except God Himself. 

Now, ladies, for those of us who have given birth, we know how we felt that last week prior to labor and delivery...can you imagine riding for a week or 10 days on the back of a donkey, out in the weather, camping out under the stars at night, regardless of whether it was cold or windy or rainy? I am sure Mary and Joseph were used to harsh conditions...they weren't wealthy people and certainly they worked hard for a living...but even so...this could not be a very pleasant journey for either of them, but most especially not for Mary.


So imagine right now, four days before Christmas, four days before giving birth, imagine yourself in Mary's place...and then to arrive at your destination, and there is no room in the inn (or hospital!)  
"Sorry folks, there's no room in the inn tonight"



Imagine, having to lay down in a cattle stall and give birth, all alone except for your husband and some animals nearby, chewing their cud and resting in their stall while you are crying out in the throes of labor pains...no midwife, no pain meds, just you and God, 


and you are giving birth to His Son, The Savior of the World!


And the Angels came and sang "Joy to the World, the Lord is Come! Let Earth Receive Her King!"



Truly makes us stop and think, doesn't it? I wonder how much "JOY" we would be feeling if we were in Mary's place? Could we sing with Mary as she does in this passage below?

Luke 1:46-55 NKJV

The Song of Mary

46 And Mary said:
“My soul magnifies the Lord,
47 And my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior.
48 For He has regarded the lowly state of His maidservant;
For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed.
49 For He who is mighty has done great things for me,
And holy is His name.
50 And His mercy is on those who fear Him
From generation to generation.
51 He has shown strength with His arm;
He has scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts.
52 He has put down the mighty from their thrones,
And exalted the lowly.
53 He has filled the hungry with good things,
And the rich He has sent away empty.
54 He has helped His servant Israel,
In remembrance of His mercy,
55 As He spoke to our fathers,
To Abraham and to his seed forever.”
Amen.


 So as I think about Mary and her journey today toward Bethlehem, and all that she endured prior to that journey...the amazement of being chosen to be the mother of her Lord and our Lord...the possibility of being put to shame because she was found to be "with child of the Holy Spirit", a young virgin girl, prior to her actual marriage to Joseph...and yet Mary said "yes" to God...
Luke 1:38 
"Then Mary said, “Behold the maidservant of the Lord! 
Let it be to me according to your word.” 

Yes, if a young woman like Mary can trust God in the midst of all the things that were happening to her,
Then I should be able to trust God for my circumstances in life as well. I've not been asked to endure the difficulties and sorrows that Mary had to face. True, I've had my disappointments and griefs and sorrows in life, and most likely there will be more before Jesus calls me home. But I love what the Angel Gabriel said to Mary when he told her about what was about to happen to her...he said in Luke 1:37,

"For with God nothing will be impossible.”

With God, NOTHING will be impossible!  When we are overwhelmed with grief or shocked at news that takes us totally by surprise and shakes us to the core..."with God, NOTHING will be impossible".  When we are asked to do things that we know would be impossible for us to do in our own strength..."with God, NOTHING will be impossible!"  

Sometimes things happen in our lives that make no sense whatsoever in our natural mind...and we can't see how anything good could come out it for ourselves or anyone else...but then we remember what the Angel said..."With God, NOTHING will be impossible!"

Yet, tonight as I sit here pondering Mary's long journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem so many years ago, can you imagine how different our lives would be today if Mary had refused to accept God's will for her life?  What if she had said, "Not me, Lord! Find someone else to be the Mother of Your Son. This is too hard for me."  I mean, she was only human...she was just a teenager with her whole life in front of her.  She probably would never have chosen to go through all of that if she could have gotten out of it...but no, Mary said yes to God. Mary said "Let it be to me according to Your Word."   

Lord, I admit I don't always understand the things You've asked me to do. To be perfectly honest, I don't always like the things You've asked me to do. Some things have really been painful and have caused me deep sorrow and grief.  Some have even been embarrassing and have caused me to lose "friends". But I've been learning something from Mary's example.  When I accept Your direction for my life and  seek Your will first and foremost, "With God, NOTHING will be impossible!".  You are always there, going before me, walking beside me, carrying me when necessary...making the rough places smooth and the valleys not so deep or the mountains so steep. Thank You, Lord, for this lesson that we can learn from Mary's experience today.  Help me to be ready to always say "Yes" to Your will. Amen.


 

22 comments:

  1. Pam: Have you read "Two from Galilee" by Marjory Holmes? It's a novel but she depicts the issues that Mary and Joseph faced as they thought of traveling, the possibilities of the dangers of the trip. She also wrote a scene where Mary actually gives birth. I have not forgotten that segment of the story. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

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    1. Oh, that strikes a chord in my memory...I think I read that book many years ago, but honestly haven't thought of it since. Now I would like to read it again. I may have to check it out from the library if I can find it. Thank you for reminding me of that book. Peace and blessings to you and yours also.

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  2. Pam, this is a beautiful reflection on the days before the birth of our Savior and what they went through. Perfect for us to stop, pay attention, and think about before the hustle and bustle of Christmas day. Thank you!

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    1. Thank you, Terri. Yes, when we stop and think about what was really going on so long ago...for OUR benefit, it really does make us stop and think, and give thanks to God for such love! Merry Christmas to you, Terri! You are a good example of being flexible when things get changed or topsy turvy at the last minute! Praying for you to enjoy your Christmas and the weeks after!

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  3. I enjoyed reading your thoughts in this post, and see that you have many sweet little scenes in your home. Mary said Yes and our world changed for the better.

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    1. Thank you, Terra. Yes, our world certainly did change for the better when Mary said "yes", and then Jesus came to save us all from our sinful state. Yes, we would be lost had it not been for God putting all of that into place for us. Merry Christmas!

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  4. Lord, help me to always be willing to do what you ask, like Mary was. Thanks Pam for this post. I want to trust like Mary did

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    1. Amen! Sometimes we have to be reminded of those who had their faith put to the extreme test to help us be able to say yes to what God is asking of us. He has not changed...He will always be there for us! Merry Christmas!

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  5. Pam, this post made me cry. I absolutely loved all of the beautiful nativities. Are they all yours or photos from around the web? You have such a moving and emotional way of writing about the scriptures and making me think. Thank you for that. Something I heard in a sermon I was listening to this week made me wonder about something. The pastor said we have no way of knowing how Mary got to Bethlehem since the Bible doesn't say she rode on a donkey! I had always assumed she rode a donkey because that's how it's always portrayed. I wonder how often that happens? I remember being shocked the first time I realized the wisemen weren't really there right after He was born, but probably a couple of years later! He said she may have rode the donkey or she may have walked the entire 70-80 miles! Can you just imagine being pregnant and walking that far? And so young too! I was 19 when Mandy was born and I thought I was young. Historians think Mary was so much younger and she had such wisdom for a young girl.
    I hope you have a wonderful weekend leading up the the big celebration of His birthday!
    Blessings and love,
    Betsy

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    1. Thank you, Betsy. Yes, these pictures are all of little ornaments or little nativities in my house. I am glad you enjoyed this post. And regarding whether or not Mary rode on a donkey...I don't really know for sure...but either way it was a difficult journey for a woman in the last week of her pregnancy. The reason it took so long , besides the fact that it was a long distance, was because I am sure they had to stop often and rest along the way. There is no way they could travel for long hours at a time under those circumstances. Joseph was faithful to stay by her side and make her way as comfortable as possible, I am sure. Sometimes we do not give Joseph enough credit for his role in this whole story. But God knew who He could trust to take care of Mary and her baby...God's Son. And yes, Mary was most likely only about 14 years old, which back then wasn't that unusual...but I look at most 14 year old girls today and think they could never be that mature and obedient to carry out God's plan. But again, God chose wisely. I do hope you and your family will have a blessed and wonderful Christmas!!

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  6. Thank you for all the time and effort you take in maintaining this website. I love visiting here.

    Best wishes to you and your family for a Blessed Christmas and Wonderful New Year.

    God bless.

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    1. Thank you, Victor. I feel honored that you are one of my "followers" here. I enjoy your posts so much, too!!! Have a blessed and joyous Christmas and New Year as well!!

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  7. Such a beautiful post, Pamela. smiles

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  8. I really love your post here! I can't imagine Mary's journey just as you describe. God was with her and I'd like to think perhaps He mitigated some of the discomfort but we don't know. And she was so young! She had to be a very special woman for God to choose her to bear His Son. She was made of a lot sterner stuff than today's women!

    Wishing you a very special Merry Christmas.

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    1. Yes, I believe Mary was made of a lot sterner stuff than today's women...but any woman who is willing to surrender to God's will and obey Him can do amazing things through Him, with the help of the Holy Spirit. "Nothing will be impossible with God!"

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  9. I have pondered this question before, Pamela - What if Mary had said no to God? Her faith and complete trust in Him and His Word should drive home a powerful lesson for all of us. We must always remember that with God, all things are possible.
    Blessings and Merry Christmas!

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    1. Yes, Mary is such a good example for all of us to put our trust in God...He will not lead us astray, and will only bless us and bless through us when we are willing and obedient to His call. Yes, ALL things are possible with God! Merry Christmas!! I hope Danny had a nice birthday!!

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  10. No, I can't begin to imagine the discomfort, the anxiety Mary experienced. Like Melanie said, she must have been made of sterner stuff than we 'modern' gals. So many questions, but I trust all will be made clear one day.

    PS - That first wooden cross silhouettes and ornaments are exquisite! I'm guessing those are Benton's creations?

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    1. Thank you, Myra. Yes, we do have questions, and maybe one day they will all be answered. Regarding the wooden cross/ornaments, no, they are not Benton's creations, but gifts from different people. They are very special, and that's why I wanted to share them with this post. I hope you have a super wonderful Christmas day!! Blessings to you and yours.

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  11. Hi Pamela. This is a very nice post. Yes, Mary went through a lot to give birth to our Savior, and she accepted and acted in God's will through it all. I love the nativities you have pictured as well as that beautiful wooden cross. Merry Christmas to you and yours. I just read Linda's post and I think it is so wonderful that you have invited Linda and David to your home for the holiday. God bless you all with a wonderful, memorable Christmas!

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  12. Lovely post. I have often pondered how much did Mary know, but, having been visited by angel, she HAD to know He was the Messiah. What a priviledge to have been given that task. May I always strive to be that faithful to the One who loves us best and give Him the glory. At this time traveling is a bit arduous for me (joint pain). Maybe that will change in 2024. I'm working on it.
    I wish we all lived closer to one another so we could do a get together. Wouldn't that be great!? Thanks for following me on my new blog!
    Merry CHRISTmas to you all.

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