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Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Wednesday Treasures - Shark's Teeth and Memories

Last week I decided to try and do a weekly post about some of the "treasures" that I have, or any unusual or special collections of things.  Today's pictures begin with a collection of something very unusual that I have had since I was a little girl ...Shark's teeth!  Now you may ask why I would have a collection of shark's teeth, and especially why have I saved them now for at least sixty years?  Good question!


Well, when I was a young girl I was happy to be able to go spend some time each summer at the home of my Aunt Ruth and her family.  My Aunt and Uncle had three children a few years younger than me, and  lived very near the beach. Since I was the youngest child in my family I never really knew what it was like to have younger siblings and to be the "oldest" child.  It was kind of fun and exciting for me to be the "big sister-cousin" to my young cousins and also to be away from home, away from my parents and older siblings who were all too busy to spend much time with me during the summer. My mother and father had to work, and my older siblings had their own activities and friends in the summer, and so I was shipped up to my Aunt Ruth's to spend a week or two. My only regret is that I didn't have my own camera back then, and so consequently I don't have any pictures of my adventures. 

But I do have those shark's teeth, kept in a little pill bottle tucked away in my dresser drawer with other various odds and ends for all these years.  And lots of happy memories of days spent at the beach, hunting for sea shells and shark's teeth in the sand,  swimming in the ocean, riding bikes with my cousins, and going to summer afternoon matinees at the local theater. We had so much fun, and Aunt Ruth made me feel very important because I was the oldest of the kids and could look after my younger cousins. Actually, looking back, I realized that the youngest cousin was just a baby and probably Aunt Ruth was happy to have me there to occupy and entertain the two older boys so she could take care of the baby. But no matter, I was having a great time!

While I was there visiting, Aunt Ruth also made some lovely clothes for my Barbie Doll, who was brand new at that time. This is the same doll, wearing one of the dresses Aunt Ruth made for her. This Barbie will be 60 years old in September when I have my 70th birthday. I received her from my grandparents for my 10th birthday. She isn't in mint condition or else she would be quite valuable for collectors. But she is worth far more than money to me, as I have many memories attached to playing with my other cousin Becky and her Barbie doll and our home-made Barbie doll houses that we created ourselves during our summer breaks while staying with her at my other aunt's house, Aunt Marion. (Who was also Aunt Ruth's older sister, and my father's older sister!) But that's another story for another day. 


What made me think about the shark's teeth this week in particular was that the wife of one of my cousins posted a picture on Facebook of the collection of shark's teeth that she and her grandchildren were collecting while on vacation at the same beach.  Life has a way of coming full circle...my cousin's grandchildren are collecting shark's teeth on the same beach some sixty years after he and I did the same thing as children.  The only sad part is, my cousin isn't there to watch his grandchildren play in the surf and sand like he did as a child. No, he isn't there because sadly he passed away several years ago from the ravages of Early Onset Alzheimer's Disease. "Billy" was only 50 years old.

But this story gets even worse than that, very sadly.

Not only did my younger cousin Billy pass away at a very early age from such a horrible disease, but so did his mother, my dear Aunt Ruth. My last memory of Aunt Ruth was at my grandmother's funeral. I wanted to talk to her about some of my happy memories from my summertime visits at her house. It became painfully obvious that not only could she not remember the happy times I was talking about, but I really don't think she had a clue as to who I was.  She was in the early stages of Early Onset Alzheimer's at that time, although they did not know what it was then. It was not too much longer before she had to be put into a nursing facility, where she remained until her death a few years later. Aunt Ruth was  only 64 when she passed away.

But it didn't stop there. My other two remaining cousins also succumbed to the same dreaded disease, the youngest cousin, Linda,  was only 53 when she passed away, and the oldest of the three cousins, Bobby,  also passed away when he was 63 from the same disease. 

The only picture that I can readily find that has each of my cousins in it is this one, taken in 1969, with all of my paternal family cousins except for my oldest brother, who was away in the Air Force at the time.  In this  picture, my grandparents are standing in the center, and their grandchildren and three great grandchildren and a couple of "in-law grandchildren" are all together for a family reunion. (I wonder if you can pick me out of the group? This was taken about a month before I got married, and my hubby- to-be is standing next to me.)  I won't try to pick out the others for you, but they were all there, probably one of the only times that I remember all our cousins together at once.


A month later some of this part of the family gathered again for our wedding.  My Aunt Ruth is the 2nd from the right, her husband (Uncle Stu) is next to her, and her youngest child Linda is in front. My dear Aunt Marion is on the right end, and grandparents in the middle, and my uncle Stu's mother is on the far left.

I just don't have many pictures of my Aunt Ruth, but here is a favorite one of three special ladies:
My Aunt Marion is in front on the left, my mother is on the back, and Aunt Ruth is on the right. This was about the time my parents got married, and this picture was taken at my dad's family cabin in the Cook's Forest of Pennsylvania.  



As far as "collections" go, I have these three German beer steins that my Aunt Ruth and Uncle Stu brought back to my grandparents from Germany, when they were over there in the service many years ago.  Apparently my Dad got them from my grandparent's estate, and I received them from my Dad's estate.  The pictures depict the different sides of each stein, to show the different pictures on them.
Don't ask my what the words are.  I have no clue.











To sum this up, genetic research is ongoing regarding the fact that my aunt and all three of her children suffered the same fate with Early Onset Alzheimer's disease.  There is now concern for the children of my cousins, whether or not they will also end up with the same disease. In the meantime, we pray for a cure.

I didn't intend for this post to end up on a sad note. But I guess I had to share their story so you would understand why that little pill bottle full of shark's teeth meant so much to me. 

Hear the words of the prophet Isaiah 49:13-16

13.  "Sing, O heavens!
Be joyful, O earth!
And break out in singing, O mountains!
For the Lord has comforted His people,
and will have mercy on His afflicted.
14.  But Zion said, 'The LORD has forgotten me,
and my Lord has forgotten me."
15.  "Can a woman forget her nursing child,
and not have compassion on the son of her womb?
Surely they may forget,
Yet I will not forget you.
16.  See, I have inscribed you on the palms of My hands;
Your walls are continually before Me."

24 comments:

  1. That was very interesting . Yes, the whole story needed to be told to make it all fit together. I find it fascinating how something which cost you nothing, like the shark teeth, has become an item of value.

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    1. Thank you for understanding my long story. Each of those dear ones left behind people who truly loved them and it was heartbreaking to see them "fade away" before our eyes. Now we pray for their offspring and grandchildren, and pray for a cure! I had such fun collecting those shark's teeth with my cousins.

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  2. Thank you for sharing the shark teeth, your Barbie, and the treasured memories and photos. So sad that each of your loved ones died of Alzheimer's at relatively young ages. I never collected shark teeth, but oh I played with my Barbie, and mother had a friend who sewed Barbie clothes! Sweet memories for sure.

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    1. Thank you, Mildred. Hey, what happened to your covered bridge post? I just checked because it was edited, but it is gone! Hmmm. a mystery. Thank you for your kind thoughts here...and also that you played with Barbie too. My cousin and I used to make a lot of clothes for ours as we got a little older and we made the neatest houses. I wish I had some pictures.

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  3. Pam, thank you for sharing the photos and beautiful memories. It's heart-wrenching to watch those we love slowly die, especially when their memory goes away.

    Love and blessings!

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    1. It truly was very sad. My cousins especially, who had young families that they left behind. It was very sad. This is one of the reasons I've been doing the genealogy research and had my DNA tested, since our grandmother was adopted and we didn't know anything about her parents or how they died. I will write another story about that soon as I am getting more information all the time.

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  4. You are such a wonderful story teller Pamela, and I really enjoyed the story of your collection of shark's teeth, and my heart hurts to hear the story of the early onset of Alzheimer's in your aunt's family! Prayers that a cure will be found! I really enjoyed the story of your beach collections, and your precious Barbie. Sweet and wonderful memories, and I enjoyed your stories so much, although my heart hurts with yours for the losses of your precious family to the disease. With much love to you today :)

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    1. Thank you Marilyn. I am thankful for the happy memories that I have of my childhood summer vacations spent with them. I do wish I had pictures from that time, but thankfully I still have these special mementos to remind me. Thank you for your kind words.

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  5. It was sad to hear how young your family members were when they passed away. I enjoyed your memories and collections and how wonderful that you have those pictures remind you of great times with precious family.

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    1. It truly was sad as they each just faded away and the end result is very sad indeed for them as well as for their families. It really is a terrible disease, especially when it hits at such a young age. I am thankful for these special memories.

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  6. I enjoyed reading about the shark's teeth. That is sad that the family had such sadness with Alzheimer's'. My husband's mom started rather young with hers as well. She passed away at age 72. We hope for a cure as well.

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    1. Thank you, Sandy. I am sorry for your husband's mom. Alzheimer's is terrible at any age. Yes, we do pray for a cure, especially when I think of this particular family where it appears to be genetic. No one in any other part of our family has had this however. It appears to have originated with my Aunt. Genetic research is really important to help find a cure.

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  7. So sad with such a horrible disease taking family members away so early in life. Love these memories otherwise and love your sharks teeth too. I collect them as well. I live in Venice Florida, the sharks tooth capital of the world. I hope you will link this post up tomorrow for my Throwback Thursday! Have a great evening :)

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    1. Thank you for the invite to "Throwback Thursday". I will check it out right now! Thank you also for your kind thoughts. Venice is way south of us. (We live near Gainesville). The beach where I found these teeth was Neptune Beach, near Jacksonville. They apparently have a lot of them as well, since 60 years later the grandkids are still finding them! Have a blessed day.

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  8. I enjoyed your collections and the wonderful memories you shared with us, Pam. I also hope the descendants don't have a marker for that terrible disease. There is some success in slowing it down these days but we really need a cure or vaccine. Hugs!

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    1. Thank you, Terri. Yes, we are praying the rest of her family doesn't get it, but they say her grandchildren have a 50/50 % chance of getting it, and then probably the great-grandchildren will have a 25% chance, and so on. It appears to have started with my Aunt, as no one else before her or in any other part of the family appear to have had it. Praying for a cure!

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  9. Very interesting recollections and collections. The sharks teeth are quite pretty. They are so smooth and shiny. It sounds like you were very close to your aunt Ruth and it's a shame there is so much affliction by early onset dementia on that side of the family. I only know one person who died of it several years ago. She and I met at church and I was shocked when she got early onset dementia because until then I thought it was only affected the very elderly. I love the photo of your aunts and your mom. Three very pretty young women. Have a wonderful week Pam. xx

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    1. Thank you, Penny. Yes, I felt like I was close to my Aunt when I was a young girl. Of course after I got married and moved away I didn't see her often, but then when she didn't even know me it was very sad. But she soon didn't know anyone in her immediate family either, and it was very very sad. Even sadder for her husband to watch each member of his family die from this disease before him. He lived to be in his 80's. Praying for a cure so that the rest of the descendants can live with hope.

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  10. That disease is a frightening one for sure, Pamela. My grandmother, on my Dad's side, and all three of her children died with Alzheimer's. I'm praying that neither my brother nor I are predisposed to developing that as we age. And of course, I'm praying for a cure, too.
    On a brighter note, thank you for sharing such sweet memories with us here today.
    Blessings!

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    1. Oh my, Martha. Were they younger when they got it, or were they already elderly? I think the early onset alzheimer's tends to be much more genetically connected than the other. Praying for you and your brother that you will remain healthy and strong all your days. Having a healthy lifestyle and keeping your brain "active" is helpful too. Thank you for visiting here today. Always so wonderful to hear from you.

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  11. Thank you for sharing your collections and memories. Alzheimers is a terrible disease and anyone that has ever been involved with someone knows the problems.

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    1. Yes, it certainly is. And to see such young people develop such alarming symptoms at an age when it is not expected is terrible. Sadly, as it progresses it affects more than just memory functions, but you being a nurse know that full well. It was devastating for my Aunt's family, and especially for my uncle to witness not only his wife but all three of his children die before he did with this horrid disease. He lived to be in his 80's. It was very sad.

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  12. Sad, yes, but also a very poignant post & still...all in all, some very happy memories too.

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  13. Your toothy collection is interesting. I hope they find a cure.

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