Well, here it is Wednesday evening, and this week is half over already. I'm trying to keep up with everyone and everything, and it seems like I keep falling behind. Hard to believe the month of August is almost half over already too! Time just keeps flying by...and sometimes I wish I could be like Blackie sitting on the back porch, just watching the birds and not a care in the world...(oh, and it was raining lightly at this time...praise the Lord!)
Oh, for the Blackie fans...here he was sitting on my desk in the morning while I was trying to "work" at my computer (reading blogs and trying to write), and I introduced him to a new little friend to distract him from trying to bite my hand every time I tried to use the mouse on the computer...It's just a funny little ink pen we got somewhere, and Blackie rather liked it, and thankfully it was a good way to distract him from my hand for a few minutes, and then he got bored and got back down and went to find daddy for a while. Whew! Finally I could get some work done! It's like having a toddler!
So, here's some things to be happy about for the August Happiness Challenge...I may have mentioned that Sunday (Aug. 16th) will be our 57th wedding anniversary. And since it is on a Sunday, we won't try to go out to eat or anything special on that day because the restaurants are too busy usually after church. (Although I may pick up some food on the way home so I don't have to cook! That's always a plus!).
So today we decided to go out to lunch with our "kids" Benton and Rose, since they were off from work. My first choice was our usual spot, "Corky Bells" on the St. John's River. But because we have been under another heat advisory the past couple of days, we really didn't want to go there and sit down by the riverside since it would just be too hot to enjoy. Even though they do have a nice dining room inside, I decided I'd rather save that for September for my birthday, and we could try another seafood restaurant in town that none of us had ever been to before, named "Musselwhites".
Here we are outside the restaurant...I am VERY happy to be standing beside my dear hubby of 57 years. God has been so very kind to us and we are very thankful and blessed. I am also happy that his eye is doing better each day since his cataract surgery last week. He does go back to the surgeon on Friday to have it checked again, but we don't anticipate any issues.And here we are inside... I am happy to be sitting beside Rose with my sweatshirt on (when it's almost 100 degrees outside), but the AC vent inside was blowing directly on my neck and head and it was way too cold, so my sweet son Benton went out to the car and brought in my sweater, and then because the air was still blowing on me, I switched places with him at the table and sat beside Rose ... (I have become my mother and must carry a sweater in the car for when we go into places that may be too cold. LOL. How many of you do that???)
And Benton sat in my old seat next to John. He said it was kind of chilly and his food got cold, but he's tougher (& younger) than I am and it didn't bother him as much as it did me. LOL.
All four of us were extremely disappointed in the scanty portions of seafood (I had 3 very small broiled shrimp and 4 extremely small scallops, and they were all rather tough and rubbery) along with the hush puppies and sweet potato fries ...which were good...but the seafood was very very disappointing. We debated on complaining to the waitress and/or manager, but decided to just eat our food and vowed never to go back again. We still left a good tip for the waitress, because it wasn't her fault the food was not what we expected. And for the first time in my life I wrote a rather unhappy review (nicely of course) on their website, and noticed that we were not the only ones who had been disappointed in their portions. We probably should have read the reviews before we went there, but we live and learn.
But even though the dinner did not turn out quite as good as we hoped it would be, we were all thankful to be together and I consider myself to be very blessed indeed. Even when things don't turn out the way we hoped they would, there is always something to be thankful for.
And so I will end this day's saga with those words from King David above, reminding us to Bless the Lord (Praise the Lord), and never forget all His benefits to us. Yes, He does forgive our sins (iniquities), and thankfully He has healed us of more illnesses and sicknesses throughout our lives than we can even count. I do believe He has saved us from "destruction" many times, perhaps even times we weren't aware of...and in spite of our lack of obedience or thankfulness or repentance of sins from time to time...He loves us and blesses us and "crowns us with lovingkindness and tender mercies"...perhaps when we really don't deserve them. And yes, He does satisfy our mouths with good things much more often than we've ever been disappointed in a meal at a restaurant or anywhere else. He gives us plenty of food to eat and we should never complain, because there are so many people out there who would beg for the crumbs from our tables... And this psalm says that our "youth is renewed like the eagle's". At this stage in my life I would love to have a bit of youth renewal, but I am thankful that I am still in pretty good shape (for the shape I'm in), and I truly can't complain.








What a nice day, even with small portions! Glad you got to spend some time with your sweet kids. What a blessing they are! And it's also a blessing to celebrate your anniversary with your dear John who is doing well after the surgery.
ReplyDeletePS - our anniversary is the 21st - 45 years for us. :)
Oh, Mari! Congratulations on your upcoming 45th anniversary!! I hope you get to do something extra special!
DeleteDear Pamela, your photos are such a joy to see! The views, the lovely smiles and Blackie! I am so happy you celebrated your anniversary with John! I pray that he continues to heal and that you both have happiness, peace and great times together.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Linda. We are very thankful indeed. God has been very kind to us these 57 years, and we pray He will give us many more good years together. Blackie sends his love!!
DeleteA very happy anniversary! That is a very nice restaurant, isn't it?! Praise God for the successful eye surgery for John!
ReplyDeleteThe restaurant was nice, but we were really disappointed in the food. We went there for the seafood, and what we got was a LOT of fries and coleslaw and 2 huge hushpuppies, and a very small portion of seafood. It really was a shock to see how little the pieces were of the fish that the men got...like 3 bites and it was gone! And their prices weren't that much different than Corky Bells (for lunch), but we've always had much bigger portions of seafood /fish there. We were just really surprised...and the shrimp/scallops were very tough. Maybe the cook was having a bad day, but we're not going to go back and find out! LOL. And yes, we are very thankfuly for successful eye surgery. And we are thankful to be able to celebrate our anniversary at all regardless of the food! LOL. God is good and we are very thankful.
DeleteIn that event I usually just ask for more food, I figure the worse that can happen is that say no...😜 Sweetallysum
ReplyDeleteWe probably should've said something since all 4 of our meals were disappointing, but we just decided to eat and go home and never come back! Lesson learned.
DeleteWe probably should've said something since all 4 of our meals were disappointing, but we just decided to eat and go home and never come back! Lesson learned.
DeleteHappy Anniversary to you both, Pamela!!! Danny and I don't eat out very often, but he's now gotten in the habit of checking restaurant reviews before we go and the health inspection scores, too. And yes, in this heat, doctors' offices and restaurants are simply too cold, so we keep a jacket in the car just in case we need it once inside. Tell Blackie to behave and have a marvelous weekend!
ReplyDeleteHappy, happy anniversary to two of my favorite people!! What a blessing to be celebrating 57 years together!! Rose and Benton are such sweethearts! I'm sorry none of you enjoyed your meals at the new restaurant. What a shame. I hope they learn from the reviews being left on their website. Sweaters in the car are a staple around here because the restaurants are all cold - and church is too, most Sundays. Wishing you a blessed day and weekend ahead!! xoxo
ReplyDeleteWhat a great photo of you and John and happy anniversary a bit early. I'm sorry about the disappointment of the restaurant, but at least you had wonderful company. It's always a bit of a let down when you are disappointed in a restaurant, especially with prices the way they are these days.
ReplyDeleteBlackie is a sweetheart but you are right, cats can be like toddlers. Very opinionated and sure of themselves. :-)
Blessings and hugs,
Betsy
HaHa, I'm right there with you on needing a bit more youth in my being !!
ReplyDeleteThree shrimp and 4 scallops sound quite skimpy to me too. Good to know and now you can save your money and go back to your favorite in September.
I really hate a cold AC restaurant. Good having a sweater to warm you up.
57 years is a wonderful milestone and I pray that there are many, many more years to come. Ours will be 63 in January. That's a crazy number to me !!!
Enjoy your day
Sue
You made memories in celebration of your anniversary, and even if the seafood was small, you made the best of it. Isn't that an accurate commentary on much of life? We learn to forbear when that is called for. Congrats on your anniversary! The photo of you and John, and Rose and Benton, are all so good.
ReplyDeleteWhat a good-looking couple you look, Pam! Oh, I'm so sorry about your restaurant experience. Because we don't eat "out" so very often, it's important I feel what we're getting in exchange for our $ is worthwhile. Good for you, leaving a review!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary blessings!
PS - I've not yet begun carrying a sweater with me, but I'm getting real close!
Hi Pamela! What a wonderful blessing that you and John have been married so long! I love that you celebrated with Rose and Benton. Great pictures of you all! May you have many more years of continued health and happiness!
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