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What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Saturday, November 2, 2019

Life's Little Blessings...with a special update at the end...

Just had a really sweet and special day. I want to share it with you, because it blessed my heart, and maybe it will yours too!

I wonder if any of you recognize these little Fisher Price people from the old FP Village that came out probably 45 years ago or more...?  Well, these people and their little cars and furnishings, etc., all belonged to my children, the oldest of whom is now 48, so these things are very close to that age. Yes, I've saved them...these are really the only toys that belonged to our boys that I've saved. About 18 years ago, when our only grandchild was two, we pulled them back out of storage for him to play with when he came to visit us all the way from Maine, but because he lived so far away and didn't get to visit very often, by the next time he came for a visit he was already too old to play with them. So they went back into storage, (with the hope that maybe we would have some more grandchildren some day).  But alas, as life goes on and time marches on, no other grandchildren ever came to play with these little toys from the past. Because it was just a small box, we kept it...who knows...maybe we'll get a Great-Grandchild to come play with them some day?
 Anyway, you are probably wondering now why I have them set out and arranged for play.

Well, today we had some sweet little visitors, the grandchildren of some friends of ours from our church, and since we really didn't have any other toys here for them to play with, and because I happened to know right where this little box of toys was after our recent move, this seemed like an appropriate time to pull these little relics from the past back out.  It is amazing to me that these toys, which are almost 50 years old, were built to last...and are still relevant and entertaining for children today.


 They were thrilled...and immediately began to play and pretend and use their imaginations to play out the scenes before them with the little people and cars and buildings...and they played so very nicely that we never had to speak a word to them.
 You may be wondering why they were visiting? Well, kind of a long story, so, long story short, we were actually having a "tea party".  Their mommy and "Mimi" (Their grandmother and my friend) were also a part of the party...Here's the table set before...everyone has their own place card and tea cup and saucer. The mugs were for the "boys"  (Yes, hubby stayed for the party, because he didn't want to miss out on the fun either...)

After a fun and delicious lunch of chicken and/or tuna salad sandwiches, fruit cup, carrot and celery sticks, pickles and chips, we took a break to have a special activity prior to our dessert/tea party.

Every lady, young and old, decorated a special hat for the tea party...with inexpensive (truly...marked way down bargain hats from the dollar store), silk flowers and bits of ribbons and a hot glue gun, we had a ball...
 Mimi and Momma both got into the act  and created their own lovely hats as well as helping the kiddos with theirs...
 Everyone (ladies only) got to choose their own decorations for their hats, and we adult ladies handled the hot glue gun and wire cutters and scissors...

Don't you love these little girls' designs?


I even got to decorate a hat for myself...



 Aren't they lovely???

My friend Vivian ("Mimi") and I...(my son remarked that it was very interesting that God gave me a friend named "Vivian" right after my mother in law, also named Vivian, passed away. I thought it interesting as well.  I guess God knew I needed a "Vivian" always in my life...a special blessing indeed...)

Here we are, modeling our lovely millinery creations...Even the little boy has a special hat that he was proud to wear.

 So, after we finished creating our hats, we sat back down at the table for Tea time, with cookies and cake and a variety of herbal fruity teas for the kiddos, and some Earl Grey, Constant Comment, or several other flavors for the ladies...  (hubby became the official photographer).


 However, after tea time the party was not quite over.  This little fella just had a birthday, so of course a present was in order...

But the real reason for deciding to have this little tea party in the first place was so I could sort of "clean house"...  No, I don't mean the kind of cleaning like vacuuming, dusting, etc.,  although I did do some of that...but this kind of house cleaning was to help me begin the process of "letting go" of so many things...in particular, dolls.  Many of you know that I have a bit of a doll collection. (Click HERE for a look back at some of my dollies...)  Well, since moving into this new house, I have discovered that I just don't have the space or places to display all of my dolls anymore.  So I decided that it is time to start letting others enjoy these special little dolls.



After sharing my thoughts with my friend Vivian, she assured me that her granddaughters love dolls, and they have a special shelf for their really nice dolls that they take good care of...and so we concocted this scheme to have this tea party and to surprise these dear little girls with some special treasures.   I will let the pictures speak for themselves:




 I think you can tell they were pretty happy with their gifts...

And the little guy got monster trucks...not dolls...but that made him very happy too...


And we had such fun...and ate up half of the cake that I baked...a tribute to my mother in law, "Vivian".  Her recipe in her own writing follows:


Spiced Devil's Food Cake, which was originally from "Aunt Florence Waters", who was my husband's grandmother's sister.  What I did differently is I used a Devil's Food Cake mix, and followed the recipe on the box for the mix, except I added the spices and molasses and instead of the cup of water called for on the mix box, I substituted with the 1 cup of boiling water with the 1 tsp. of baking soda mixed in it as called for here. Not sure what that does, but I think it helps with the spices and molasses to mix in better. I baked it at 350 for 35 minutes  in a Bundt pan. I served it with whipped cream on top, which was very good!


So after the hubbub died down, the guests packed up their hats and dolls and toys and headed home, the noise and laughter faded out, and hubby and I washed up the dishes together and talked about how much fun we had.  Yes, I'm tired, but it's a happy kind of tired.  It's a wonderful thing to see little children at play again and to see their faces light up with delight when they are given a very special treat...and they were so good,  and so very sweet.  (They've been brought up very well). It did my heart good.

Speaking of good...we each had a place card at the table, and at the end of the party, everyone got a "Happy Face" sticker if they were really good!  I guess I must have behaved well, because even I got a happy face on my place card! (The children said that I had to have one too! :) 


Good place to end this story. It was a great day. What does the Bible say about cheerful givers:


2 Corinthians 9:6-7 New King James Version (NKJV)

"6 But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver."


And also there is a place in the Bible that talks about "a merry heart"...

Proverbs 17:22 New King James Version (NKJV)

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"A merry heart does good, like medicine,

But a broken spirit dries the bones."

I know I don't want any "dry bones"...so it is good to have a "merry heart"!  And I am very cheerful about sharing these gifts with these sweet little people. Definitely one of "life's little blessings"...(maybe a BIG blessing!)



36 comments:

  1. What FUN!!! I want to duplicate your tea party here! I don't have dolls to give away or 50-year old toys to put out but making those hats would sure be fun!! I enjoyed reading about your special day, Pam, and know your heart is still happy!!

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    1. Oh Terri, you should! We did have such fun making the hats. I was blessed to find these basic hats at the Dollar General in their summer clearance stuff, and couldn't believe what a great deal I got. And then the flowers were just the inexpensive little bushes of different silk flowers. We had so much fun. This would be a good project for ladies of all ages. Maybe have them each find their own hat, and then everyone bring some flowers, ribbon, whatever and put it together to share. That would be a great tea party!! Just be sure to have working glue guns and a wire cutter to snip the flowers. That was a big help! Yes, My heart is still happy. It was so much fun. I needed that!!!!

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  2. My sweet,sweet friend. Thank you for this joyous day. Thank you for the sweet memory that (when I look at my hat)in the future I will smile and think of you and all the excitement. Thank you for the memories my daughter and granddaughters will have. I also want to thank you for including Logan. I know he had a great time.
    I love you and I'm looking forward to seeing you in church tomorrow. Sweet dreams.

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    1. Dear Vivian...we will have to get brave and wear our hats to church someday! That was so much fun...and I thank you for letting me enjoy your sweet grandchildren for a day. (and your sweet daughter too!) We did have so much fun, and I know I was blessed just being with you all. Thank you for sharing them with us!!! (((hugs)))

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  3. What a special blessing for the girls. Very sweet. I know they will remember this day, Logan will remember also. ☺️

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    1. Thank you, Carol. Is this "my Carol" from here? Thank you for popping in for a visit! It truly was a blessing for me, probably maybe even more than for the girls...sometimes we just need to play like a child again...

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  4. Nice. I am so happy you found good homes for your "girls". Looks like you are doing so well in your new house and that's a happy thing too!
    Happy Saturday night and happy Sunday too.

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    1. Thank you, Ann. I know my "girls" will be happy and cherished in their new home, and it makes me feel so good to know these sweet children enjoyed this special time almost as much as I did!! Happy Sunday to you too. I hope you are having a good day.

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  5. What a fun event you had with friends and their grandchildren. The hats look very nice too.

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    1. Thank you. It was a day of much joy and blessing for me, and I believe for them as well.

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  6. Oh, what precious children, Pam! And the joy on the faces of the girls with their "new" dolls is priceless. It is obvious that a wonderful, and creative with the hats, time was had by all. Thank you for sharing these special, heartfelt moments with us.
    Blessings!

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    1. Thank you, Martha. I know you enjoy your precious little granddaughters, and you get to do such fun things with them. Maybe perhaps I was a wee bit envious of that...well, not really envious, but I needed to experience the joy of spending the day with precious little ones again. It was a blessing to me.

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  7. AWESOME!!! I just love having little visitors over, not that we have little visitors over anymore...sigh. What a wonderful day, Pamela. Thank you for sharing, smiles.

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    1. You may have to "adopt" some for a day, like I did. I told my friend that I was borrowing her grandchildren so I could enjoy them for a while. It was well worth the effort for the wonderful blessings we received back from this special day.

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  8. Pam! This is so lovely and such a special way to celebrate your dolls and give them new homes at the same time! I am so proud of you. I know it s hard to let them go, but you found the perfect way to do it. Simply beautiful! I love the hat decorating idea too!

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    1. It truly was so much fun...I don't know who had more fun, the kiddos or me! We all had a great time, and it truly did my heart good to see them enjoy the dolls as well as the hats, etc. I don't get to be with little people very often, so this was a treat for me!!

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  9. What a fun experience! The children will always remember your generosity that expressed itself in so many beautiful ways with this party!

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    1. The true blessing was for me...I can't tell you how much I enjoyed this time with these precious people. Yes, "A Merry Heart Does good like a medicine"...

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  10. Such a lovely post....and such a sweet, sweet day you gave your friends..old and young..

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    1. It was a blessing from the Lord...for me as well as for the guests. I thank the Lord for allowing me this privilege and joy of sharing. It truly did my heart good!!

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  11. What a sweet and charming post this is. I love tea parties, especially when they involve wearing hats! How fun for your little guests to do this.

    I think it's great that you were able to get right to that little box of toys and that your guests enjoyed their time playing with them. And so gracious and generous of you to gift them with some of your precious things.

    It sounds like you had a wonderful mother-in-law...more like a mom than an in-law. I did too. And I just lost her last year. It's been very difficult knowing that I will never talk to her again, but I take comfort in the truth that "whoever believes in Jesus will not die but have eternal life."

    Blessings,
    Patti @ This Beautiful Life

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    1. Thank you for visiting my tea party, Patti! Welcome to my "home". Yes, I did have a wonderful mother in law, and we spent so much time together, especially in her latter years. She also passed away last year at the age of 95. I do miss her. She kept us laughing in so many ways with her fun ways. Yes, we will meet again one day in heaven, and I know she'll be one of the ones there to greet me when I arrive, along with my own dear mother and dad and one of my precious sons. Please come back and visit again, and I am looking forward to getting better acquainted with you at your site as well!

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  12. Your post is so sweet, Pam! I love how everyone enjoyed themselves, even your hubby. Tea parties are the best, aren't they, for bringing some ladies together? Glad the boys enjoyed the FP toys too. You had something for everyone. I used to collect dollies too but I have only a few left as I gifted most of mine to friends and family members. One baby doll looked just like one of my friend's babies so I gave her the doll. She still has it in her bedroom after all these years. Thank you for sharing this charming post at my party. Have a lovely week, Pam! Hugs...Sandi

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    1. Thank you for hosting the gathering so that we can connect with each other and make some new friends as well! The holidays are a great time to get better acquainted and enjoy how others are celebrating in their homes. Blessings to you and your family!

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  13. I remember those Little People!

    "...Yes, I'm tired, but it's a happy kind of tired."

    What a sweet, wonderful day! God brought you "grandchildren"... big smile.

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    1. Yes, that is how I felt...like an "adoptive grandma" for the day. We may have to do this again in the future, maybe a Christmas tea party. We shall see how my energy levels hold up with all the other stuff we have to do at Christmas...but it would be fun and such a blessing. Thank you for visiting and "remembering" the "little people" with me. I'm guessing since you are much younger than I, that you actually played with them as a child...am I right? :) do you still have any?

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    2. Yes, I think I did. I remember the little faces. I don't have any now, just legos and dinosaurs these days. 😄

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  14. Hi Pamela, it’s so nice to meet you! I so enjoyed reading your post and the delightful lunch/tea party that you so graciously held. The hat decorating looked like such fun, and then the lovely presents at the end for the children. Wasn’t that thoughtful of our loving God to place another Vivian in your life? Thank you for sharing your wonderful time together.
    P. S. My grandchildren still enjoy playing with the FP little people.

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    1. Thank you for popping in for a visit, Kitty! What a pleasure to make a new friend here...and I enjoyed your post so much as well. Oh, I am happy to see that your grandchildren still enjoy playing the FP little people. Those are the best toys...very durable, and they allow the child to use their imagination...which I love. Nothing technological about it...just good old childhood imagination! Have a blessed and beautiful day, my new friend!

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  15. What a lovely post, and what a lovely time was had at the tea party!

    My grandchildren also still love playing with the FP little people. We didn't have the village, but we had two of the doll houses and many people and accessories. (We now have only one of the doll houses, as we sent one of them to our grandkids in Nevada.) We had some of our local grandchildren here for the weekend, and you can be sure the little people were played with!

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    1. Hello Mrs. T! I am so happy to make your acquaintance! I just popped over to your blog and see that you are from New England ( NH?) and love that as we used to live in Conway, NH and Fryeburg, ME. We are in Florida now, which is our home state, but we do miss fall especially in NE. I am so happy to have you visit here and hope you will come back again!!

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  16. Oh my...I am late to the party (literally) but so glad I came! How much fun was that?! And what a special time that had to be and those darling kiddos looked like they were certainly enjoying the Fisher Price toys. Loved those darling hats...y'all looked so cute! Thanks for sharing this fun and blessed event!

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    1. Thank you for popping in...never too late! Always happy to see your smiling face! Hope you are enjoying your new life in the mountains and that progress is starting to be made on your new home. I am so excited for you. Please come back and visit anytime!!!

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  17. Oh Pam, this just blessed my heart so very much. Oh those wonderful vintage toys. What a blessing for the kids to have the opportunity to play with them. Looks like you all had so much fun. Love, love, love the tea party! Hugs and blessings, Cindy

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    1. Oh we did have so much fun. I know you enjoy being with your grandkids so much,and maybe I was just a bit "envious" and needed some playtime with some little people again. It truly blessed me maybe even more than my special guests. They truly made my day! Thank you for visiting today. I always love to see your smiling face too!!!

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  18. What a sweet post! Just a few short years ago, I had to downsize Mother to move down here with me from Alabama. She had those FP houses and barns and every kid who ever came to her house, not only the grands played with and absolutely loved those toys. It about killed her to give them up. We didn't sell them but passed them onto a cousin who now has four little ones so I know they are in good hands. She had so much stuff and I wasn't even thinking grands at the time. Those toys are indeed timeless and all kids love them. The tea party is just adorable.

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