What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Friday, October 26, 2018

Friday Foto Friends: Being Rooted and Grounded

Hello my Friday Foto Friends! I hope you have had a wonderful week.

It's been kind of topsy-turvy here for me.  I wanted to take a little trip to Georgia to visit my brother, Russell, who is fighting leukemia, but thanks be to God, is currently in remission . My other siblings were going to be there, and I really wanted to be there too. But things just weren't coming together for us to travel up there, and reluctantly I finally had to call and let my brother know I wouldn't be able to come. It is a good thing I didn't go...within 24 hours of making that call I came down with a terrible cold, and spent the next couple of days blowing, sneezing, coughing, and feeling absolutely miserable. There is NO WAY I should have been there visiting him with a cold...so I thank the Lord for giving me the wisdom to cancel the trip before getting sick.  Thankfully, I am starting to feel better now...and my siblings all had a great time visiting even without me. 

Here they are:  Clifford, Doris, and Russell. Praise the Lord that he is doing so well. Trusting we will have this opportunity again when I can go.

Other topsy turvy feelings...as most of you are aware, we are trying to sell our house, with the intention of moving to a little community about 30 miles away, to be near our kids and the church we have started attending and enjoying so much this past year.  Of course, while waiting to sell our house, we are also kind of looking for a house to purchase there, and this week we found a house that we really loved.  We wanted to try and tie it up somehow until our house sells, but realized that just wasn't going to happen.  So, again, reluctantly, we have had to make phone calls to say can't do it yet...gotta wait...and try to be patient...and wait on the Lord to open the doors of His choice...
 (pictures were taken near the house we fell in love with...)

This morning's devotions were read from Ephesians 3:13-21.  Here are the parts that really spoke to me and gave me a blessing as I read them:

14.  "For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
15.  from Whom the whole family 
in heaven and earth is named,
 16.  That He would grant you, according to the riches of 
His glory, to be strengthened with might 
through His Spirit in the inner man,

17.  That Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith;
that you, being rooted and grounded in love,

18.  may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height-
19.  to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge;
that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
(anyone recognize this? I think it is a persimmon)

20.  Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think,
according to the power that works in us,
21.  to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever.
Amen."


This helped me to realize that I need to stay focused on Christ, and be "rooted and grounded" in love..and He will strengthen me with might through His Spirit...and He will also do "exceedingly, abundantly above all that we ask or think..."

I just need to be patient and wait on the Lord to work all these things out...He knows what is best for us in every way. 

On a funnier note, for several months I have had my eye on a little house for sale that is right down the street from our son and daughter in law's house. I kept telling the "kids" that was the house we would probably buy if nothing else developed. That statement was usually greeted with a raised eyebrow from our son, and a giggle from his wife (the newlyweds, remember?)  I'm not sure they ever said anything too enthusiastic, like, "Oh that would we be great, Mom," or, "Oh, we would be so excited to have you living so close..."   I called it our "back- up house", as it was the right price, a little on the small side, but from the pictures that were shown online, it looked like it was pretty nice inside and it could work in a pinch.  Well, in our little journey this past week to look at houses we finally did look at that house inside.  Let's just say that it is always a very good idea to see something in person and not rely on pictures on the internet to sell you a house...  I could not believe how filthy dirty this house was inside...I don't think the floors have ever been mopped...and it was obvious they were smokers judging by the choking stench and the yellowed stains on the walls...and as we were finishing our tour, the "gentleman" who lives there pointed out three very small packages of Lysol cleaning wipes  sitting on the kitchen counter and said to us, "Well, I got my cleaning supplies ready to start cleaning up the place..."  It was all I could do to stifle my laugh until I got outside and could breathe again...  Anyway...the "kids" seemed a bit relieved when I told them they didn't have to worry about us moving into that house any time in the near or far future...  Lesson learned...Don't judge a book by its cover (or a house by pictures on the internet), and don't try to live too close to your kids. 


So, tell me, dear friends, what have you learned this week in your journeys? I am looking forward to reading your stories and seeing your pictures.

Have a blessed weekend!  Now let us join our other Friday Foto Friends over at Deb's place at "Breathing in Grace."  I hope to get caught up with each of you.  I'm a bit behind in my reading due to being so "topsy turvy" this week.



33 comments:

  1. Your nature photos are lovely. The description of the filthy house reminded me of my house buying experiences. One house was so smoky I don't know how the child who lived there breathed. Yuck. I got out super fast.

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    1. Isn't it terrible the way some people live and think it's okay? I am not the best housekeeper in the world, but some things are just not acceptable...and trust me, that place was very unacceptable to say the least. Oh well, it was for the best that I didn't like it too much. LOL.

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  2. You are in the same spot we are, Pam. We don't close on our house until February and have had to pass up a couple of houses we really liked. We, too, looked at a house close to our son's house but felt that might be just a bit two close (about 6 houses away). I think our grandboy would be running over there all the time and that might not be a good thing for his parents (although I would love it).

    It is hard sometimes and be patient and wait for what He has in mind for us, isn't it? It's a matter of blind faith most times.

    I hope you have a blessed, wonderful weekend. xo Diana

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    1. Yes, it is a kind of blind faith...trusting that whenever our house does finally sell, there will be that perfect "miracle on 34th street" house just waiting for us to discover! I really do have to rely on the Lord in this. He knows the desires of my heart...and He also knows how impatient I am. He has His work cut out for Himself in dealing with me. LOL. Hope you can find your "dream home" too at just the right time!

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  3. You got some lovely shots here. I love seeing nature :)

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    1. Thank you, Claire Justine. God's beautiful creation is always a pleasure to capture in pictures and also see firsthand! Thank you for visiting today. So happy to meet you here!

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  4. Really enjoyed this, Pamela. Like you God has been teaching me to wait, have faith and trust Him; Oh how I needed to hear this today. God is so Good and gives us His best if we just wait on Him and faithfully trust Him.

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    1. Yes, He always does give us His best if we will just wait on Him...but I am not very good at waiting. Our realtor told us it could take a year to sell our house, and I am not willing to accept that. But I will have to trust God that He knows what He's doing. He can also work miracles that realtors don't always expect, although our realtor is a Christian and knows what God can do. I'm praying we will all see a miracle here sooner than later...but again...I have to wait...God knows best.

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  5. Maybe that is why your son and daughter-in-law raised their eyebrows! I just know that there will be the perfect place for you when it is the right time - God's time. And isn't it just wonderful how He gives us wisdom and works things out for the best? Sad you couldn't visit your brother, but never would you have forgiven yourself had you given him those germs. I am so glad he is in remission. Maybe you can visit him soon.

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    1. Thank you, Nonnie, yes, you know how terrible it would have been for me to share my germs with my brother while his immune system is so fragile. Praise God He kept me from going even before I knew I was getting sick! Amazing. So, I know if God can do that, He can also take care of this house situation, in His time...not mine. I just have to learn to listen to His voice and be patient. Thank you for visiting today. Always a pleasure to hear from you.

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  6. So sorry to hear you've been 'under the weather' and had to miss out on visiting with your family. But God knew, and God handled the situation. He does things like that! :) Timing is hard when you're selling one place and finding a new place...we went through that 11 years ago. We missed out on buying the house we wanted but God was looking ahead and lead us to a house that was going to fill our needs in the future. Hope you have a very blessed weekend.

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    1. Thank you, Mary. I am feeling much better now than I was. So thankful it was a "short" cold and not a long one! Yes, the timing is going to be difficult with this move. We hope we don't end up having to go somewhere in between houses temporarily. But I know God has it all covered. I just need to relax and let Him do the driving on this one. Very difficult for me to do. I want it done already!! LOL. Praying you are doing well, and that your weekend will be filled with joy and many blessings.

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  7. Your photos, as always, are lovely, Pamela, and always make my Friday special. Sorry you were under the weather, but so glad you are feeling better now. As for the house? I'm sure and certain the Lord will lead you to the right one at the right time for you.
    Blessings, and enjoy your weekend!

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    1. Thank you, Martha. I know the Lord has some wonderful plans for us. I am trying to be patient, but not doing such a great job of it! However, I know when we do sell our house and have to move I am going to have a LOT of hard work to do, and will also have some sad moments when we walk away from this house. But God is with us and He will be with us where we are going, so it will be okay. Thank you for visiting. I hope your weekend is filled with joy and many blessings. Is it nice fall weather yet?

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  8. I hope you are feeling much better. Colds are awful! I am glad you stayed home too. Would have been awful for your brother to get sick. Hopefully there will be another little reunion soon and you will all be together.I have never sold a home or even picked one out to live in. I just kind of ended up in places. It would be so exciting to choose a place to live! I hope you get a really lovely house.
    I live 4 doors down from my daughter and we love it. The kids have two homes, as they say. The Little brags to friends about her two houses. It really makes life so much easier for me too since there are things I need help with.
    I always enjoy seeing photos of your area. I lived in Miami for a summer at my former mother in law after I first got married. She lived on two acres on a lagoon. It was hot as can be like a sauna even at night but the night blooming jasmine filled the air so nicely. Still, I am not a fan of the heat!
    I think your plant there is a quince as persimmon is orange. My teacher in elementary school had a quince tree and the kids would steal the fruit to eat it thinking it was apples and get a nasty surprise as they are very tart like bad lemons!

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    1. Thank you, Annie. I am feeling better. Still a little cough now and then, but nothing like it was. So thankful I didn't carry my germs to my brother. That would have been disastrous. Wow, never sold a home or picked one out to live in? Wow! If you knew how many times we've moved, sold houses, or picked out to live in you would be in shock. Then we also had "parsonages" provided from churches, which, thankfully, we were always very well taken care of with lovely homes. I've been spoiled. We never had expensive homes or all the latest bells and whistles, but comfortable and homey homes that met our needs exactly. That is what I am looking for again. I may have to cut a few things off my "list" of desires, but I know God will only give us what is best for us in the long run. I am happy for you to live so close to your family. You are blessed. Our son and wife most likely will not have any kids for us to enjoy as they are already in their 40's and don't plan to have any. They do have two cute little pekingese puppies that we are learning to love as our "grandpuppies". We will probably live someplace within 5 miles or so from them when we do find a home, I'm sure. The plant I showed I still think is a persimmon, but it is not ripe yet. Actually, I don't know the difference between them. Looks like they are very similar. If we end up getting that house after all, I will let you know! Ha ha. (if it doesn't drop off the tree before then) I am sorry your time in Florida was not pleasant weather wise. Yes, it is very warm and humid all summer, but where we live in northcentral Florida it does cool down and we have beautiful fall and winter and spring. Summer is just the hard part. Of course, we couldn't live here w/o AC.
      Thank you for your thoughts always. You always give me good things to think about. Have a blessed weekend.

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  9. Great post, as always! Thank you for sharing your stories with us.

    What a revelation about that little house (the one so close to your kids). We should all remember that one!!

    Russell looks so good, as do your other brother and sister. I'm glad to see them all.

    I hope you continue to recover from your cold and feel tip top very soon!

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    1. Thank you, Barbara. We are very thankful that my brother is doing so well...and also that I am doing much better now as well. Yes, one thing I have learned is that what you see online may not be exactly as it really is. So glad I actually went and saw that house for myself so I could cross it off the list permanently and not keep thinking of it as a "backup plan". No way!! Have a blessed and wonderful weekend!

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  10. Glad you are feeling better and so glad your brother is doing well. This I know, God will provide the home when the time is right.

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    1. Thank you, Cathy. Yes, I am thankful that my brother is doing much better than he was. He still has a ways to go, but God is helping him day by day. And my cold is gone, mostly. I know the right house will be there waiting for us when God is ready to reveal it to us. I am just trying to be patient, and not doing a very good job at it. Need lots of prayer in that department! LOL. Have a blessed weekend.

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  11. Oh no...just your description made me cough a little! That house sounds perfect for a couple who wants to re-do eveything. :)

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    1. Ha ha! And that would NOT be us! I want a move-in ready house, at least mostly! We may have to replace flooring as I do NOT want carpet anymore. I have learned that carpet holds a lot of dust and that causes "issues". So I am hoping to have a mostly carpet-free house next time. Anyway, I know God has the right place waiting for us when the time is right. I am trying to be patient. I need a lot of prayer in that department! :) Have a blessed weekend!

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  12. Oh my, the horror you must have felt when you saw the inside of that house down the street from the kids. How can people live like that? Have you posted your house on Zillow.com? Hoping the right buyer for your lovely home comes along soon!

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    1. Thank you, Terri. yes, our home is on Zillow. When the realtor posts it to the MLS it goes onto Zillow. Type in our address if you still have it and you can pull up the add. I know God has the right people out there for this home, and then He will also provide the right home for us. We just have to be patient. Not one of my better traits. LOL. Have a great weekend.

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  13. I don't think I would have lasted 1 minute in that house. Yucky! How can people live like that? I'm surprised the realtor didn't tell the owner/s to get it professionally cleaned before putting it up for sale. Anyway, loved the photos and I'm glad to hear Russell is doing better. Have a day of blessings my friend.

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    1. I had been wondering why it hadn't sold yet...now I know... I'm so glad I looked at it, because I honestly was keeping it in my mind as a back up plan possibility. Thank the Lord we aren't that desperate!

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  14. I don't think you need me to remind you that all this is on HIS time, not ours. My husband has an expression, "Want to make God laugh? Tell HIM your plans."

    This week has been horrible; the impending death of my mother in-law...I say impending...she is to go in Monday morning for a very risky quadruple bypass with a mortality rate of 90%. We wonder why...and the nurse pulled us aside and told us why...she is living on Dopamine (adrenlene) and that can only last until Monday, regardless, its not good. Its ok, Pamela...really. We know its on Gods time, not ours. Have Faith my friend.

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    1. Praying for your dear mother in law now. And for your whole family. I know this is so very hard. Yes, she in God's Hands, and in His time, He will either choose to heal her physically here for a longer life, or He will choose to heal her spiritually and take her home for eternal life. Either way, she wins...and God is in control of her every moment. May you all be comforted in knowing that God loves her even more than you do, and He will do exactly right for her. Sending (((hugs))) and prayers your way. Yes, I know that God is also in control of our situation, which is minor compared to what you are going through now. He knows what is best for us as well, and we are trusting Him to do exactly as planned. I'm trying to stay out of the way and let Him work it all out. (as if I could stop Him). I do have faith. I just also have a lot of impatience, which I am working on, and God knows me so well. He still loves me. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment in the midst of your own crisis. May God give you all strength for the days ahead.

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  15. Oh, I understand completely about kids not wanting us to live too close .. 😂 You're right... God will provide you with the perfect home in His time! Great fotos, as always! Hope you're having a great weekend! 💜

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    1. Thank you, Debbie! So far, so good. Tomorrow is SONday, the highlight of our week! Yes, we know God has this house thing all worked out already in His mind...and He will reveal it to us at exactly the right time. I just want it on MY schedule...but God is not surprised by this. He knows me so well. Thank you for understanding. Hope your weekend is going wonderfully and full of blessings.

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  16. Your story at the end made me laugh, especially about the handiwipes provided by the man that showed you the house, lol.

    I'm sorry you weren't able to visit your brother but it is a good thing you cancelled since it wouldn't do to have him exposed to cold germs. I too got a bad cold this week which came on suddenly (or so it seemed).

    I loved all your photos interspersed with scripture. It is true that God knows what is best and in his time everything is worked out. Sometimes the waiting can be difficult. Nonetheless we know that all things work together for good. Amen?!

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    1. Yes, all things work together for our good...even seeing the "dirty house"...helped me realize that my ideas aren't always the best...(rarely ever...) and I am so thankful that God is in control and not me. I am sorry to hear that you also got a bad cold this week. I do hope you are feeling better now. Praying for you. I think some of my problem is allergies/sinus. Still pumping the Vitamin C! Take care and may God speed healing your way.

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  17. Pam, PTL that your brother is in remission! What a blessing in disguise it to not go to see him when you ended up coming down with the cold. And your nature photos are beautiful as always!

    Blessings!

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