What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?

What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
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Saturday, February 19, 2022

Saturday "Back Home" Blessings and Celebrations!


I promised you HERE yesterday that I would tell you about our Saturday trip when I got back home.  Well, here I am, "back home".

Actually, that is in reality back at my old home where I grew up! Yes, we traveled today to meet family and friends and celebrate my hubby's birthday as well as another friend's birthday, but before we met the group at the restaurant hubby and I had some time to kill so we went down memory lane for a wonderful ride "back home".

I started getting excited when we turned the corner on this road, the road that leads "home".  Back when I was growing up on this road, these houses were not there. It was mostly woods.  This was actually where our bus stop was, and there was nothing here at all way back then in the olden days.

Way back then our house was the first and only house on our side of the road for a long distance.  Now there are newer homes lining the road all the way there, but when we finally got to "our house", it looked pretty much the same as I remembered it, except we didn't have that green paint on the eaves, etc. And someone definitely needs to do some serious tree work to remove some moss out of these trees.
But still...it looks like home...


We were brave enough to pull in the driveway, and I decided to take the plunge and march right up to the door and knock, and knock, and knock some more...

But no one was home.  I kept calling out, "Is anyone home?", but no answer, and there weren't any cars in the driveway, so I figured it was safe to walk around and have a little "looksie".  


No one was watching that I knew of, except maybe this old tree guy...he's been there for quite a few years, just watching people come and go.  He saw us there when we were last there...He was there watching when my parents "left this home" for the last time to go to their heavenly home...Maybe that's why he seems to look a bit sad and lonely...

Ah! there are still some grapefruit on the trees...even though the tree definitely needs to be pruned and taken care of. I wonder if the fruit is still as good as I remember?  I didn't dare pick one, but it was tempting.  


Very tempting...but this is not my family's home anymore.  


I walked around the back yard, calling all the while..."anybody home?"  But no answer.  There's the old shed that I remember when my Daddy brought it home in pieces and re-built it there.  He tore it down from someone's home who didn't want it anymore, and so he brought it here and built it.  I remember that before my Daddy loaded it up with his "stuff", it made a great playhouse and even a "haunted house" one Halloween, complete with scary music on a tape recorder...oh! The memories around this old house...

Here in the back yard you can see back to our neighbor's cow pasture and pond.  We used to go out to the fence and talk to the cows and horses he had there...Oh, I can see that my mother's clothesline is still there...do you see it?  My mother always loved to hang out the clothes, especially the sheets! And I remember many a time running out there to gather them in quickly because of one of our frequent summer afternoon thunderstorms that popped up unexpectedly!


This was always so pretty back here...my daddy kept it so nice.
This is also where the guys played horseshoes every time we all came home for holidays and birthdays and just home to be together.

"Daddy the Champ!"


This was Daddy's "Carriage House" garage and workshop, with an attic upstairs filled with all kinds of interesting stuff.  I remember when he built this "barn"...and my hubby helped him dig the footer, and I remember our little boys were there to make their mark in the wet cement foundation.



That's about where our family was sitting when this picture was taken of us in 2005, the last Easter we were all together before my mother went to heaven in 2006.

This is the back of the house, and it looks rather worn and tired in this picture. Again...when my parents lived there, it was kept up so nice...  Did I tell you that my Daddy built this house himself?  Yes, with the help of his own Dad, my Grandpa.  I remember as a little seven year old girl running around the bricks and blocks and boards and nails and loving the smell of fresh cut lumber.  I also remember being stung by a scorpion on the bottom of my foot because I was running around barefoot in the dark...Yes, I remember that quite well!!! You would too, if it happened to you!!! Trust me.

The window above that you can see just to the right of the screen back porch, was my sister and my bedroom.  The window on the end was my two big brothers' room, and our parents' room was on the front.  The window inside the screen porch was where the dining room is.  And the jalousie windows is where the laundry room is.  The kitchen is through the door behind the screen door across the porch.

Here's my Mother in the kitchen back in the early days.  She was a great cook, and pies were her specialty. 

This is the way the kitchen looked when I last saw it. I prefer to remember it this way. Homey and much loved with lots of wonderful memories.

There used to be beautiful climbing roses and other flowers climbing and growing around this pergola/trellis. It was a beautiful place inside those glass windows to sit and watch the birds.

The room on the end here below was added onto the house while I was in high school. It was originally supposed to be a garage, but the car never once sat inside it. There was a garage door on this side of the house, but it was Daddy's workshop before he built the Carriage House. And then he closed this room in and made it his "Train Room" when he retired and started collecting toy trains....Oh the delights of watching those trains go round and round. The grandchildren called him "Grandpa Choo Choo". 


Here is an old picture taken when our grandson Noah came to visit Great-Grandpa Choo Choo for the first time. He was 4 months old.  You can tell he was real impressed.  Our son Matthew was having the most fun watching his Grandpa show off his trains.  Such happy memories from inside this old house.



Oh, this is a sad picture...This WAS the navel orange tree. This tree produced the sweetest, juiciest, best ever navel oranges ever in its day.  It's so sad that it hasn't been taken care of and now it really needs to just be cut down.  That did make me feel sad.

But look at this Kalanchoe plant...it just keeps on growing and growing. Daddy planted that many years ago.  Nothing seems to kill it!  I wish I could have taken some home with me to plant, but again...it's not my home anymore and there was no one to ask.


Back to the front of the house.  The color of the shutters is the color that the trim on the gable above and the eaves used to be.  I think I liked that much better than this green...but again...it's not my home anymore.  My Daddy did plant all those plants along the front...


And this is Daddy's old hand plow or whatever you call it, which he cleverly made into a mailbox stand. I'm so glad they've left that there.

One last look at the front of the house...actually I'm glad no one was home. If they had invited me in I know I would have been disappointed. From what I could see through the front door window when I was knocking and knocking and knocking...the inside looks like the people are kind of, well, shall we politely say, "pack rats"?  Yes, I'm glad the outside still looks pretty nice,  except for the trees that need trimming...


Another look at the side yard and end of the "Carriage House".  This empty lot next to the house was where I had many a campout with friends and where we played games and parked the extra cars when there were lots of people there...Oh, the memories.


Campout with my friends Sue,  Carol and yours truly...

Okay, let's shift gears a bit.  You know we went to celebrate birthdays today with family, right? That was the whole reason for making this trip in the first place.  Well, we did do exactly that, and had such a great time.

Here's our whole gang at the restaurant.  
Front row, me, our friend Paula, (the birthday girl!) my sister Doris
2nd row: my hubby's brother Billy, his wife Peggy and my sister's hubby Art.
Back row, my cousin's husband Pat, my cousin Becky, and my hubby John (the birthday boy).

Our niece Shannon was there with us also for lunch, but had to leave before the group picture was taken.
You may remember me mentioning Shannon before. She was in a serious car accident last year, and had to have a rod installed in her hip to repair the fractures.  Well, we hadn't been able to see her since her accident in person until today!   What a pleasure to see her radiant smile and hear her sharing her story with us.

She gave me permission to share this picture of the rod that is in her pelvis area, holding it all together.
She is going to be having surgery this summer to remove the rod, so hopefully she will be able to move forward with her scholarship for swimming at college in the fall. She is already swimming, but has limitations because of the rod.  They believe it should be healed enough to remove in July. So again, please keep Shannon in your thoughts and prayers. It's been a very difficult year for her.


You may remember me sharing a picture of me with my cousin Becky recently in the Tuesday 4: My Life Story post.  Well, here we are today...she and her husband Pat were down in Florida on vacation from Ohio, and were able to come join us today for the party!! 


Oh, here we were...about 61 years ago...yes, that's right! We haven't change much...LOL.




And here we are again with my sister Doris in the middle:
It was so great to be together again!!

Well, it's late and I need to get to bed. Tomorrow is another wonderful day...SONday!!  I am so thankful for the blessings of this day...for the memories from being "home again", even if only from the outside.  It made me appreciate how wonderful our home really was when we were growing up and so thankful for the dear people who once lived there.  I know our real home is in heaven, where Jesus is, and where my parents are waiting for us to join them someday.  Tomorrow in church we will be singing a song called "One Day Soon" and also in medley with "Soon and Very Soon, We are going to see the King".  We didn't record us singing that song, but here is a link to a audio version of it being demonstrated for you. I think you will enjoy the song as much as I do:

This video has the lyrics and music.  I can't  wait to sing it tomorrow.  And I can hardly wait for
"One day soon, we'll see Jesus!"
Amen.
and Good Night!


 

37 comments:

  1. Wow, Pamela, you really have so many photos of old memories and lots of memories too! Unfortunately I haven't inherited many old photos. My mom actually loved photo taking (not really a great amateur though, lol) and she had many, many photos. But when my youngest brother came along he tore most of them up during his terrible twos. Somehow he used to get into trunks and other storage places. Mother was so disappointed. I'm glad you were able to have a walk down memory lane and relive beautiful memories and moreover that you got to meet up with real, live, loved ones.

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    1. Oh, Penny, I am so sorry so many of your family photos were destroyed. I can imagine how heart broken your mother was about that. I am very thankful for the pictures that I have, and I guess I just love taking pictures because I want to remember the happy days and the beautiful things I see. Sadly, I don't print my pictures anymore since they are digital. They are either in my computer or on little flash drives, which I hope someone will still be able to access someday. It's just so expensive to print them, so I fear many memories will be lost to the next generations, especially as the technology changes. Thank you for visiting. I always love to hear from you.

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  2. What a wonderful post. I drive by the street my parents lived on nearly every day. I still look just to see the front of the house and think about all the fun times we had there. I was happy with the family we sold it to, but it is bittersweet to think of another family living there, since we were the only ones to have ever lived in it.

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    1. Yes, I totally understand how you feel. My father died in 2011 (my mother in 2006), and I have only driven by their house one other time. This is the first time I dared to go and actually get out of the car and walk around the house. I'm glad no one was home. Yes, our family was the only family to have ever lived there since my father built the house in 1957, and lived there until 2011. I don't know exactly who lives there now as the lady who bought it from us was elderly and wanted it for her family to live in when they came down from up north...but whoever is there has definitely moved in quite fully in the past 12 years. It is full to overflowing....especially the "Carriage House". They can't even close the doors it is so full! Oh well...again, it was never meant to be our "final home". Praise God! Thank you for visiting with me today.

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  3. What a wonderful day you had! All that family time, seeing Shannon (prayers will be going up for her complete healing!), and touring the yard at the old home place. So bittersweet, isn't it? It reminded me of when I go past my grandparents' home, which is the one place I really thought of as home when I was growing up since we moved around a lot. The people who bought it changed so much that it almost doesn't seem like the same place. I can't decide if that's better or worse when most of the happiest memories of my childhood were there. I've never seen the inside and like you, I suspect that's probably a good thing. It would just be too sad. I'm glad you had such a wonderful day and got to revisit the past!

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    1. Thank you, Stacy. Yes, this home was the gathering place for all our families over the years for the holidays, etc., and like you, since we moved a lot it was a solid place for our family to come home to. I have only driven by it once in the past 12 years since Daddy died until this. I just couldn't stand the thought of my parents not coming out to greet us. But I was proud of myself to actually get out of the car and walk around it this time. I think it helped me to "let go" of it a little more. I know where my parents are, and I will see them again "One Day Soon". Praise God!

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  4. Bittersweet. 💙

    I love the Spanish moss!

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    1. yes, it was bittersweet. But I'm glad I finally did go and that I was able to walk around and see it again...and then "let it go". I don't mind some Spanish Moss, but this was "overkill". It really needs to be cleaned out. The trees are suffocating and dying.

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  5. Such a beautiful post, my friend. Shannon has been in our daily prayers and so has your grandson. BTW, SOON we will be meeting up and SOON I will have a post about my childhood home-I keep checking to see if it's for sale because it's been literally on my mind. The home my parents live in now, isn't my childhood home. They sold the home and moved into the present one 20 yrs ago when Liam was a baby. ANYWAYS--CYA SOON! Smiles

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    1. "One day soon!" Can't wait for that day to come! be sure to let me know when!!! Oh, wouldn't it be fun if your childhood home was available for sale? I know God will have THE perfect home for you when you get here and are ready to settle in. One thing at a time...it's all coming together! Can't wait to see you soon.

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  6. I think it is so special that your childhood home is still standing, Pamela, and that you were able to visit once again, bringing back so many great memories. Unfortunately, the neighborhood in which I grew up was bought out, bulldozed, and new condos/townhomes were built. So, I can't go home again, ever. It used to make me sad, but then I realize, nothing here on earth last forever.
    Looks like everyone enjoyed the celebration, too. Glad to know Shannon is doing so well and will get that rod out this summer.
    Blessings!

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    1. Thank you, Martha. It was a nice walk down memory lane...but we all must remember that this world is not our final home. What we have coming up will be SO much better than anything we could ever imagine!! So let's just keep looking up!!! Thank you again for your kind thoughts. (((hugs)))

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  7. What a fun day you had! I have been able to take the tour of my childhood home. I dreaded it, but it wasn't so bad. The new occupants have decorated nicely and I was able to see how things look under new management. I think even my parents would be pleased. I can imagine how upsetting it might be to see it differently. Your father's carriage house is so darling. What a charming building.

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    1. How nice that you could actually go inside your childhood home again, and that it was a pleasant experience! We were able to go back to the cabin in PA. that my father and my grandpa built back when my dad was a teen and it was their vacation cabin for many years before my grandparents retired and sold it. My parents and my siblings and I were able to go back to PA and see it again as a part of my parents' 50th wedding anniversary, and it was very much the same as we all remembered the cabin, only better. They now had indoor plumbing! LOL. Oh, yes, my father's carriage house was built with an old New England style design. My niece and her hubby have built a duplicate of it in N.C., and we all were able to gather there for a family reunion a couple of years ago (before covid) and "christen" it as a special building built in memory of Grandpa's Carriage house! I wrote about it here: https://pamelasopenwindow.blogspot.com/2018/08/friday-foto-friends-mursch-family.html It was a special event!! Thanks for visiting. Always enjoy hearing from you.

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  8. What a fun and special day you had with friends and family and memories of so many wonderful years. YOu and your sister certainly look alike with those radiant smiles. I got to visit my family home, or at least the first one many years ago. A group who lived on the street all met up...thanks to facebook where we all reconnected from other locations; and walked the street posing in front of the houses we had lived in. Trying to name all those who lived on the street next to us, or across the street. We walked to the park we all played in as kids, and to school we went to...well, it's been torn down, but the spot is still there. Wonderful that you have the old memories and some pictures to go with it. What a sweet share.

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    1. What a fun excursion you had with your friends that lived on your street. That really sounds like a great literal walk down memory lane. Facebook definitely does have some redeeming qualities! Thank you for the kind word about my sister and I. Many people think we look alike, and we guess we must, but we never thought so growing up. I guess we've kind of grown into each other as we've aged. Our mother taught us to smile. Thank you.

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  9. What wonderful happenstance (that) the current owners were gone! When I began reading, for a minute there, my heart started beating wildly. Imagine some old bewhiskered fella stepping out with a double-barrel shotgun, "Get your hands in the air!" (LOLOL)
    Seeing on-line pictures of my own childhood home was such a disappointment. Our government-issue 'quad' was never much to look at, but my parents took such pride doing what they could to make it look nice.
    On the Bright Side, I'm so glad John's second birthday party was a hit! Happy Sunday!

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    1. Ha Ha ha! Actually, my hubby stayed on lookout in the car while I walked around the house. He would be able to warn me if someone was coming, and I could make a fast getaway! LOL. They must be very trusting souls, because they left the barn doors wide open and a nice bike in the carport, and everything just seemed rather open and loose, But I didn't try the doors to see if they were unlocked. LOL. That would have been a bit too daring, even for me. And actually, I even walked over to the next door neighbor's house to see if they were home, because it was my parents' former pastor and wife who lived there and I've known them for years. But no one was home there either,, and things looked kind of sad and forlorn. They would be probably pushing 90 themselves, and I don't know how their health is, but it would have been nice to say hello. Oh well, I think I did all I was meant to do for this trip. And yes, John's 2nd birthday party was a hit! I feel quite pleased about everything. God is good.

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  10. Lots of beautiful memories that helped to make you the wonderful woman you are today!

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    1. OH, thank you, Barbara. That is a very sweet thing to say. God bless you my friend. (((hugs)))

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  11. I.enjoyed the tour outside around your family home and the memories you shared. I can’t return to the house I lived in, as a baby and up to the age of 5 or 6. That house has been torn down. The house that I lived in from age 5 or 6 until I left home at age 18 has stayed in the family. My brother and sister-in-law now live in. So, I can walk inside or outside it anytime I want :)

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    1. OH how exciting that your family home is still in the family. that is really nice. Do you still have family gatherings there? Oh, we have a lot in common. The house I was born in was in PA, (Clarion), our farm, and it has also been torn down after it burned. We lived there until I was almost 6, and then we moved to Florida. We went back one time as a family to see the farm again for my parents' 50th anniversary. It was in very bad shape then, having been used as a tenant house on the farm for many years and not taken care of. It wasn't long after that that it burned down. But my dad built the house that I grew up in from age 7-18 (when I got married), and that is this house. My parents lived there until they died, Mama in 2006 and Daddy in 2011. Then it was sold to a neighbor lady who was quite elderly herself, but she wanted it for her family members to have when they came down to visit in winters, etc., but now I am quite sure someone lives there quite permanently. I don't know if the old lady died yet or not. She would be in her 90's if she's still living, but she never lived in the house. She just loved it because she knew my parents and wanted to preserve it.

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  12. You were so brave going around the grounds. I love going back and looking at the places I have lived. It looks like to was a wonderful place. I love all the photos and our James would love that train set up. Sounds like you had a really nice time. So glad you were able to go.

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    1. Oh, I know your James would have loved "Grandpa Choo-choo's" train set up. Every child, young and old, delighted in it, and my dad was probably just as delighted to show it off to anyone who came to see it. It was a wonderful place for sure. Thank you.

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  13. Such wonderful family photos and joyful times ❤️Family is such a great treasure. I am so thankful for mine.
    I hope Shannon’s surgery was smooth and successful ❤️🙏

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    1. Thank you, Cheryl. Yes, family is a great treasure and I am very thankful for mine, both past and present. Shannon will be having another surgery this summer to remove the rod so she can resume swimming for her college scholarship in the fall. Praying she will heal quickly and completely. Thank you for your kind words.

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  14. Wow you have guts to go around and take photos of your old place. I'm glad you did because I enjoyed it. I wish I could - I'd get the cops called on me.

    I love that carriage house and I am so happy they kept that hand plow mailbox - now that would have been something I would want, especially knowing your dad made it. Very clever!

    Looks like it was a nice place to live - from the house to all the outside areas - It's good you went down memory lane.

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    1. Thankfully this neighborhood is pretty quiet and not prone to crime. And my hubby stayed in the car to provide a quick getaway if needed. LOL. I'm sure if the owner showed up they would have been happy to have us there once I told them who I was. Besides, the neighbors would be able to vouch for me, except I don't think any of them were home either. Yes, I love the hand plow mailbox too, and I am glad they left it there as a kind of memorial to the past. It was a wonderful place to grow up and I am very thankful for the good memories. I know God has been very very good to me. Thank you for visiting and enjoying this with me.

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  15. WOW! That is quite the adventure you had. I'm glad you had the chance to wander around on your old home place and get some pictures. I am sure this stirred many wonderful memories . Too many to share, perhaps.

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    1. Yes, probably too many to share in one post anyway! I'm glad I finally did it. I have been putting it off for almost 12 years...only drove by there once before since my Dad died, and couldn't stand to see it then. So this took a step of courage and I'm so glad I did it. I think I can let it go now!! My memories are tucked inside my heart. Thanks for visiting.

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  16. I often find it bittersweet to go back to look at older places ESPecially if they haven't kept it up. We built a home just after we married just around the corner from us. We truly thought it would be our forever home but we ended up in my husband's parents' home. The house was everything I love and so nice. It has gone through 3 different owners and the person one has just let it go. There is zero grass in the yard of which we sodded and kept spectacular looking. They pulled up EVERY single azalea and all but one of my camellia bushes. There are only a few things in the yard period. I absolutely hate to drive by it.
    That picture of you and your cousin is simply precious.

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    1. Yes, it was a bittersweet time for me, and I wished I could take care of some things in the yard the way Daddy would have wanted it...but he's in heaven and doesn't care about this old house anymore. It is hard to go back and see that people don't seem to care about the things you cared about. I know, the house we left (in Salt Springs) to move here had so many special things that I loved, and we've driven by a few times and the house just looks "dark" to me now...no signs of real life, even though the people are there. It's kind of like the soul of the home moved out when we did. It's sad, because we had a lot of wonderful times there, but everyone is different, and what they value is different. We have to keep looking forward. There's a saying that says, "don't look back because you aren't going that way!". It's true. God has better and brighter days ahead for us!! Have a blessed and wonderful day. I know you are enjoying your sweet Palmer!!

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  17. Oh you are a brave gal! Not sure I could have even knocked on the door! Isn't it bittersweet..so many memories and so many changes? It is so sweet, though, all the things that remain: the clothesline, the flowers and that fancy mailbox:) So nice that you guys had time for the little detour before all your fun! Looks like a full day! Thanks for sharing it with us!!

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    1. Thank you, Jennifer. It was a fun and full day, and my emotions were running high, but I'm so glad I went and saw the house again. I feel satisfied now and don't think I'll ever go back again. Yes, there were familiar things still there and that was kind of special. I'm kind of glad no one was home. I felt freer to "roam". God knew what I needed.

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  18. I read what Mevely 317 wrote LOL! I actually thought maybe they just plain didn't answer the door and might be secretly watching you through the windows LOL! What a wonderful memory trip! I truly enjoyed the stories of your family and things about the house. Thank you for sharing all of this! My oldest son's widow and the kids live in the house where I grew up, so it's still in the family. Hugs and blessings, Pamela!

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    1. How wonderful that your family home is still in the family and you can still go there. That is a blessing. When our folks' home estate was being settled none of us 4 children could afford it or were in a position to live there even if we could, so it was sold to a lady who knew my parents and wanted to have it for her family to come to from up north. I think from what I can gather she has since passed away (she was already in her 80's when she bought it 12 years ago) and it now belongs to her son. I would have like to have met him if he was at home, but it's probably just as well. I didn't want to go inside because I know it would be so different inside and that would be a hard picture to get out of my mind. I prefer to remember it just the way it was. I am satisfied now that at least I got to walk around and see familiar things...kind of like touching base...but I know my parents are waiting for me in heaven and this world is definitely not our final home. Praise God for that!!! Thank you for visiting, and may God bless your day with peace.

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  19. Pam: I understand your bittersweet thoughts about where you grew up. Last August I went past the last house my dad lived in and was very sad with what had been done to it. I haven't had the courage to drive past the house my mother and stepfather owned.(Too many bad memories!) The house my parents and I lived in until I was in the 10th grade has been torn down for several years. However, I still have memories of that house. Thank you for sharing your memories with us. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

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