High Tea Time Finally Came

Finally the day for the "High Tea with the three wives of Henry Flagler" has happened!  Hurricane Ian threatened to keep this from happening, but thankfully the wonderful ladies of the Historical Society persevered and kept moving forward with their plans as promised.  It was a sold out event...And what a lovely event it was!  I believe all of the ladies were ready for something lovely and fun after a week of anxiety and storm preparation and endurance and clean up from the storm. Our little community was spared any major damages, and we are very thankful.

As you know, if you've been following me for the past few weeks, I was very excited to sign up to go to this event and to prepare my special outfit for the day.  Here is what I finally created:

It was such fun to see how others also got into the spirit of the day...oh...here are some special friends:

above: my friend Linda, (on the left) who grew up in my home town and attended the same school as I...and now lives in a little town not far from here wanted to come. She almost didn't make it as they had been away on vacation when Ian came calling, and they weren't sure if they could drive back into the state in time for this event today. But they persevered and made it home just in time for her to attend! In the middle is one of my special church friends, Vivian A., who wasn't sure if she would be able to attend and then decided to come at the last minute and made her reservation just in the nick of time before they declared it "sold out"!  And then on the right is my friend Betty, who I've mentioned to you before. She loves to read our blogs and sometimes comments, but doesn't have her own blog so you may not know her. But Betty and her husband just recently moved into a little town not far from here and she has been down to see me at Dixie Cottage a couple of times and we forgot to take pictures, so I told her today we would be sure to get our pictures taken together (which you will see later).

And I was also surprised to discover that these three of my dear friends from church also decided to come today and were fortunate to get their reservations in just under the wire as well!  L to R: Brenda, who is our church office administrator, Dottie who is our official church hugger...you can't get through church without a hug from sweet Dottie, and our lovely pastor's wife and worship/choir leader Carol.  Three very special ladies!

In this picture I think my hat was too heavy for my head. LOL.

Now, for the majority of the rest of these photos, these are just some of the lovely ladies who attended the tea. I do not know these ladies but they are from our town and some are a part of the Historical Society who sponsored the event.  This will just give you an idea of how much fun we were having:

This dear lady was actually one of our servers as well as one of the organizers of the event:

Another happy lady:

Each table was set with such lovely dishes and the food was wonderful.

It was so lovely to see this young mother with her two daughters enjoying the tea party.

Our guest speaker had arrived and I took her picture before I realized who she was!

This is the teapot used to serve our tea. Isn't it gorgeous?

Here is the "first Mrs. Henry Flagler", Mary Harkness Flagler.  She ended up dying of consumption.

The second Mrs. Flagler had actually been the first Mrs. Flagler's nurse and a nanny for the children. After Mary Harkness Flagler died, Henry married Ida Audrey. She later was committed to a sanitorium for the mentally ill.  He later divorced her and married the next Mrs. Flagler, below:

Mary Lily Kenan Flagler:   Her story ended very sadly as after Henry Flagler died she remarried and it appears that her new husband was giving her drugs which led to her untimely death.  It was never proven as such, but it appears he was after her large fortune...

You can read more about this story here: https://flaglermuseum.us/history/flagler-biography

After this amazing portrayal we were invited to come up on stage and have our pictures taken with "Mrs. Flagler"

It was so much fun.

And once more, here I am with my dear church friends...

And also with the rest of my friends. We had such a lovely time. I wish more could have attended.

So now I put the hat back on the shelf and hung up the fancy outfit and put away the gloves and old jewelry and come back to the present.

After hearing the sad stories of Henry Flagler's wives, who were, by the way, the richest women in the world at that time...my thought was that they each needed to know Jesus and perhaps their lives would have been happier.   Money does not buy happiness or good health...There is only One that I know who gives our hearts everlasting peace...Jesus Christ, the Son of God:

Psalm 73:25-26

"Whom have I in heaven but You?

And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You.

26 My flesh and my heart fail;

But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever."

And with that I will bid you good night!

Thursday Thankfulness...Friday Foto Friends: Fall Has Arrived!

Good Morning, and Happy Autumn, Fall, Autumnal Equinox, whatever you want to call it, it's finally here and we are so glad!  My calendar says that actually the Autumnal Equinox isn't until tomorrow, but everything else says that Fall begins today, and so I am going to accept that and run with it! I will never forget the first time I remember hearing the term "Autumnal Equinox" used was by my then 5 year old grandson Noah. We had just arrived in Maine on the airplane from Florida and they came to pick us up at the airport. As we were driving out the gate and down the highway I was remarking about how beautiful all the fall leaves were and I asked Noah what he thought about it being "Fall".  He promptly corrected me and said, "Oh no, Grandma! It's the Autumnal Equinox!".  I about fell over with surprise! Out of the mouth of babes should come such big words! LOL. He was very precise in his pronunciation of those words and I was totally stunned that a five year old would even be able to say such words, let alone know what they meant! LOL.  He always was very good with words, and even to this day when he is now almost 23 years old he has a very rich vocabulary. (I just wish he'd call and say Hi more often...)

So today I am thankful for the beautiful weather we are having...it has finally started to cool down just a tad, and the rains seem to have let up for a little while so we can dry out and not be quite so humid.

And so hubby and I decided that on the mornings we go to work at Dixie Cottage we will get there a bit early and take a walk on the beautiful walking trail that starts right outside the door of the store:

There he goes...hey! Wait for me! LOL.  Anyway, this lovely walking path follows the old railroad track line through the old historic section of town, and it is a perfect place for us to take a nice morning walk before we open the store for business.

I was happy to see a variety of wildflowers and Beautyberries along the trail...

A perfect place to catch a glimpse of a Zebra Longwing butterfly sipping its morning nectar from the flowers:

It was quite elusive to my camera's eye...I had to keep trying to follow it as it fluttered and flittered by me:

You can tell that his wings were fluttering in this photo below:

And finally he lighted on this Firebush plant so that I could get a good picture:

I finally also caught up with hubby so we could take a selfie:

We are both wearing our "Dixie Cottage" t-shirts so you know we are "official". LOL.

I loved seeing these Turk's Cap Mallow flowers, which is kind of like a Hibiscus that never opens up. I remember as kids on the school playground we would pull out the flower and suck the nectar out of the end of it...it was SO sweet! Yes, the butterflies and hummingbirds love this flower too!

The view across the highway from where we were walking...a beautiful little lake

We turned around and headed back towards the store, and then I noticed these

beautiful Coral Vine flowers blooming all over the bushes and up on the trees along the road:

Coral Vine 

Even though they are beautiful, they will take over wherever they are if not kept pruned back...

Oh, another butterfly on the wild lantana bushes:

This is the Gulf Fritillary Butterfly

And there were lots of bees and Skipper butterflies on these wild Coreopsis flowers, (see picture below) also known as "tickseed". I thought this was an interesting comment in the Wikipedia explanation and description of these flowers: "Coreopsis is a variable genus closely related to Bidens. "  Here is the definition of that:

"Bidens is a genus of flowering plants in the aster family, Asteraceae. The common names beggarticks, black jack, burr marigolds, cobbler's pegs, Spanish needles, stickseeds, tickseeds and tickseed sunflowers refer to the fruits of the plants, most of which are bristly and barbed, with two sharp pappi at the end. The generic name refers to the same character; Bidens comes from the Latin bis ("two") and dens ("tooth")."^[3]

Without getting political, I'll just leave that information right there...LOL.

Okay, switching gears a bit, something "new" is developing in our neighborhood.  At the entrance to our subdivision is a large 3 acre tract of commercial land that was nicely wooded. It had been for sale for a while, and finally was sold. So this week they began to clear the land.  Being the good nosey neighbors that we are, we stopped and asked the foreman of the land clearing crew if he knew what was going to be put on this land. He said a "Dollar General Store".  I about choked. I said, "You've got to be kidding!" He said no he wasn't...   Well, here's the scoop on that...we already have a Dollar General store 2 miles to the east of this location. AND, we have another Dollar General store 2 miles to the west of this location, and about a mile beyond that one is a Family Dollar Store that is also a Dollar Tree store since they merged.  Our little town is overrun with Dollar stores, gas stations and thrift stores and one grocery store.  We need restaurants and other kinds of businesses...not another Dollar General Store! And especially not in the entrance to our subdivision.  I contacted our County Commissioner to verify this and he was actually surprised himself, but did some research and found out it is true. So I asked him to please make sure they put a traffic light at that intersection because it is already a dangerous intersection trying to get out onto the highway, etc.  We'll see what happens with that.  

So here are the pictures of the work being done...

These were taken a couple of days ago. The property is mostly clear now. Thankfully they left a boundary of trees around the edges that connect to our housing development.  We live about 1/8th of a mile from this.  I am not a happy camper. My husband actually is a huge Dollar General fan, and now he can just walk there if he wants to. LOL.  Life goes on...trying to keep a positive attitude.

And so here's something funny.  I am working on my outfit for the "High Tea with Mrs. Henry Flagler" that is coming up next weekend.  It was suggested that we come in "period style clothes" of the 1890's, etc.  When I called to get more information I was told that the hats should be large and have lots of flowers. Please don't laugh. I was just sticking some fake flowers around the brim of the hat, but they aren't fastened yet and I didn't know my hubby was going to take my picture or I would have fixed it better.  

A friend from our church gave me the beautiful turquoise colored hat and said I could keep it and do whatever I needed to do with it. So that became my color guide for figuring out the rest of the outfit.

This is definitely still a work in progress.  When the outfit is finally complete, I will take some better pictures to share with you.  Meanwhile, I am excited that one of our friends who comments on blogs occasionally but doesn't have her own blog and who lives in this area is going to come and go with me to the tea.  Then today I heard from another friend in the area who also plans to attend.  It's going to be a lot of fun.

Here is a brief history of Henry Flagler, and HERE is more information about his third wife, who loved to throw lavish parties and was the one who loved the big hats and lots of flowers. It should be a very interesting and fun tea party!

 I guess that's enough stuff for today and tomorrow.  I am thankful for how God watches over us in so many ways.  Oh, and I am also thankful that I did actually hear from our grandson today. I sent him a text this morning to wish him a "Happy Autumnal Equinox Day", and he wrote back a text and told me what he's been doing and apologized for not staying in touch better. Of course I'd love to have a real phone call, but for now I'll take whatever I can get. I know he's busy working every day, and that's a good thing, and he's healthy and safe...and that's an even better thing.  So that was an answer to prayer.

"To everything there is a season, 

A time for every purpose under heaven."

Ecclesiastes 3:1