Welcome to my "Open Window"...a place of hope, encouragement, and adventure as we journey down the road from "Closed Doors" to the new opportunities God places in our pathway. I hope you will take the time to go back and follow the trail of mixed blessings and fears, failures and triumphs from the past and side-trips in the present. Perhaps it will conjure up some of your own special memories, and be an invitation for you to share with others. I look forward to spending this time with you!
What Do You See Outside YOUR Open Window Today?
Remember: "When God closes a door, He always opens a window!" You never know what might be out there waiting for you!
Saturday, November 4, 2023
Saturday Evening on Still Waters Pond
Monday, June 12, 2023
Monday Monday, Birds, People, and Blessings!
Happy Monday morning everyone! I hope you have had a peaceful and blessed weekend. Ours was somewhat busy, but all good. I'll start out with a few pictures from Still Waters Pond of a Brown Thrasher that landed in a tree and visited for a few minutes. We don't get to see them very often, and normally they are on the ground, "thrashing about" in the bushes and weeds, looking for a good meal. But this one decided to land in a tree to say hello, so here he is:
Tuesday, June 19, 2018
More Than Meets the Eye
There are usually more layers to every story than you will ever truly understand, unless you've been there and have walked with someone through the valleys and the mountains...the storms and the calm...
And so it is also true about our journey this past weekend to see our grandson graduate from high school....a very happy and monumental moment for him and for all of us who love and know him.
And I certainly don't want to take away from his wonderful accomplishment and well earned celebration. It was a time of rejoicing and thanksgiving for all of us.
A proud moment for his Mama....
And a proud moment for his other grandmother...his "Nana"
You see, not only was this a proud moment for us for our grandson's accomplishments, but also because we never got to see his father walk across a stage and accept his diploma when he graduated. Oh, he graduated, praise God! But at the time of his graduation he was recuperating from surgery for a brain tumor...(For that story click HERE to read about "God's Perfect Timing") and so he missed out on all the festivities of graduating with his class.
This is a picture of our son Matthew receiving his diploma from the school guidance counselor after the graduation services were over.
Thankfully, Matthew miraculously recovered and was healed from the brain tumor...and was even able to attend college that fall. However, he did have some residual issues with short term memory loss which made it very difficult for him to keep up in college, and so after one year he returned home, met his sweetheart and was married about a year later. And several years after that along came their wonderful son, Noah, our grandson, whose graduation we are celebrating now.
When our grandson was about ten years old, his daddy was diagnosed with cancer...totally unrelated to the brain tumor (which was benign). And four years later, after a valiant battle, our dear son entered heaven's gates. (Click here for that story)
So you see, this whole celebration has a lot of "layers" behind it...emotions that have affected each of us involved.
As a part of our journey to visit our grandson and his mother we also visited our son's grave, as we had never been able to do so prior to this. We live far away, and to be honest, it has been very difficult emotionally for us to go back to our son's home before this. Our grandson and his mama have come to visit us several times, but this is the first time we've come back to their home since our son passed away. And so we wanted to see his tombstone in person.
We were pleased to see that the local fire department had placed a special flag on his grave on Memorial Day, as Matthew was a volunteer fireman, along with his wife who still serves her community this way in addition to working a very busy full time job and raising their son alone.
Seeing his grave was a peaceful moment for us...a kind of closure that perhaps we needed. It was comforting to us to know that this little cemetery is surrounded on two sides by two different churches...
which just seemed fitting and comforting to us...of course we know our son is not in that grave...just his ashes are there...but he is residing in heaven with Jesus...and so we know he is being well taken care of.
His other grandparents came from Pennsylvania for the occasion...
Noah and some of his friends enjoyed playing some outdoor games
His fishing rods...
Another special sign hanging above the door to Matthew's workshop...
And last but not least, his "Big Mouth Billy Bass"...(remember those?)
I was also happy to see this special pillow, which was created for Noah by our dear friend Sharon (who is also battling cancer now). She sent this to Noah after his daddy died with instructions to hold and hug this pillow whenever he missed or thought of his daddy. The pillow is well worn...even has a little tear in it...so I believe it has been well used.
And here he is running out at the close of the service...he was so excited he couldn't wait to get moving...




