Happy Saturday Everyone! I hope this day finds you relaxing and enjoying a beautiful day wherever you are. It's already getting hot and steamy here, but it is July in Florida, so what can you expect? We are thankful not to have any severe weather or smoke here, like they are having up north from those horrific fires in Canada. We pray for our neighbors to the north, and pray that the fires will soon be quenched.
So, we are a little more than half way through the month of July, and also through this photo challenge. The challenge for today (18th) is animal or insect. I took this photo at the boat ramp the other day...do you see the green dragonfly on the green leaves? Yeah, he was hard to see for me too! I'm glad the camera had better eyes than I did!
Here's the July list if you want to join in...it's still not too late!
I took a little walk about the yard this morning, and I also saw this little orange grasshopper on one of my dying zinnia plants. I'm not sure what kind it is, but perhaps it is a
Schistocerca rubinginosa Grasshopper. All I know is the bluebirds love to catch grasshoppers to feed their babies, so I hope they find this one, because actually there were two of them, but I only got a picture of this one.
Then I discovered this immature
Argiope Aurantia Garden Spider on the Rose of Sharon bush. Look at that zigzag web! Isn't that amazing? Spider webs are so interesting, aren't they? I just don't like to walk into them!
Then when I walked around to the front yard, I saw these two
immature White Ibis looking for food alongside the road.
It's unusual to see them here, so that was interesting!! Ater yesterday's rain, I am sure they are finding something good to eat in the grassy area there.
Sadly, a few minutes later I saw this fire truck and ambulance parked in front of the house across the street. There is an elderly man living there who has some chronic health problems, and this is the 2nd time in a couple of months that he has had to go to the hospital via ambulance. We really don't know him very well as he keeps to himself and normally there is someone from the family who comes and checks on him every day. We prayed for him as they took him away. I'm wondering if he'll be able to continue living at home alone. He's blessed that he does have family living nearby, but still it is difficult to stay home alone when you get to a certain stage in life. We are praying for his family as well, that they will have wisdom to know what is best for him.

Sadly, we have another Celebration of Life to attend today. A former member of our church passed away recently after a battle with cancer. She and her husband still lived in our area, but they started going to a different and smaller church in a nearby community a couple of years ago to help them out. But then she got cancer, and well, she fought hard, but it was time for her to be called home to heaven. This is the seventh woman from our church community that has passed away in this year, and they weren't all that old. Only two of them were older than me. It's really sad, but yet again, we know they are all with Jesus and they are not suffering anymore. What's hard is that all but one of them left behind a husband, so our little church has a rather unusually large group of widowers who are struggling to find their way.
I honestly think it's harder for men to get along on their own than it is for women. You know, the Bible talks a lot about taking care of widows and orphans, but it really doesn't say anything about taking care of widowers. But God promises to take care of those who mourn, and also we as Christians and friends and family should do our part to encourage and help those who are grieving as much as is practical and possible.
The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart,
And saves such as have a contrite spirit.
Psalm 34:18
He heals the brokenhearted
and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NIV
3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.
A little later...Well, I am sorry to end on a sad note, but this is the reality of life...and it helps us to remember that our time on earth is very short...so we need to live our lives in such a way that is meaningful and that in some way we make a positive difference in the world around us. A copy of this poem was included in the bulletin for the service today:
The Dash
by Linda Ellis
"I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning…to the end.
He noted that first came the date of birth
and spoke the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
that they spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved them
know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own,
the cars…the house…the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.
So, think about this long and hard.
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read,
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent YOUR dash?"
Copyright ©::
Linda Ellis
Something to think about! Now, let's go fill in our "dash" with the very best life we can...and remember this...(another saying I heard a long time ago):
According to AI:
"That powerful quote is the refrain of the famous poem "Only One Life" written by British missionary C.T. Studd. After giving away his wealth and serving in China, India, and Africa, he penned these enduring words to encourage believers to live with an eternal perspective. [
1,
2,
3,
4,
5]
Here are a few stanzas from the original poem: [
1]
"Only one life, yes only one,
Soon will its fleeting hours be done;
Then, in 'that day' my Lord to meet,
And stand before His Judgment seat;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past,
Only what's done for Christ will last. [
1,
2]
Only one life, a few brief years,
Each with its burdens, hopes, and fears;
Each with its clays I must fulfill,
Living for self or in His will;
Only one life, 'twill soon be past,
Only what's done for Christ will last. "[
1,
2]
I really love that poem about living the dash! I've read it several times and it speaks truth! Our oldest couple at my church, married more than 70 years, were Marlene and Carwin. Marlene just passed this week. She was 93. Carwin is 101. We are all praying for him now. Both were more like someone in their late 70s. He is still driving and gets around better than I do. They have a beautiful and close family, so I hope he will be okay. Now I'm ending on a sad note!! Love you, dear friend! xo
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of another loss. My husband reads that poem at a lot of funerals when he officiates them. I always love that poem.
ReplyDeleteOn a different note, those photos of the insects are wonderful! You captured them so well. Do you have a camera or do you use your phone?
So sorry about the loss of another friend-her gain our loss! I like the poem about the 'dash'! The spider is cool--I think it is a golden orb spider because they always make a 'zipper' in their web.
ReplyDeleteQuote from Google-- (The spider you are spotting in your garden is likely the Yellow Garden Spider (Argiope aurantia), widely known as the zipper spider or writing spider due to the thick, zigzag ribbon (stabilimentum) it weaves down its web. It is a completely harmless and highly beneficial garden predator.)
Sorry about the loss. I do like the poem The Dash. So true. And the fires in Canada are awfully sad.
ReplyDeleteAs we age, Pamela, it seems loss is inevitable - parents, friends, mentors, grandparents - all in their time. The Dash poem says it all! May we never stop treasuring the people we love and recognize that God has placed them in our paths for the journey we are on before we reach home. I'm trusting that God has prepared a place for His children just as Jesus said. And may you get that rain you so need and soon! Let us pray for our friends in Canada that are also suffering from these wildfires and smoke.
ReplyDelete