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| Our lovely, large, old, interesting house! |
The Steiner Family Saga...The Story Continues (Click on these links to get the previous chapters: Part One: "Trust and Obey", Part 2: "An Open Door" )
Since my husband was called to serve as the Assistant Pastor of a church out in the country, which was a bit farther out from the Seminary, we felt like it would be wise to live a little closer to the church, or at least halfway between the Seminary and the Church to simplify things. Besides, the two-bedroom apartment we were renting on the Seminary Campus was extremely small, and with three growing boys we were feeling quite cramped. So we found a very interesting large older home to rent in the little community of Nova, Ohio. It was very convenient for us as the school where the boys would attend was literally right in our back yard, so I wouldn’t need a car to get them back and forth while John was at school. It was a crossroads community out in the middle of farm country, but it had everything we needed within walking distance, including the only phone booth I’ve ever seen where you could make phone calls for 5 cents! Of course, you could only call people right in town for that price, but it was rather quaint and fun. ![]() |
| The Fire Station across the street...and the Halloween Day parade passing by...I believe one of my boys is waving at us...that looks like Matthew! |
The Fire Station also contained the local tornado siren…I found out about that one evening just as a group of ladies had assembled in my living room for a Women’s Missionary Prayer Meeting, and the tornado siren started blaring! With it right across the street you can imagine how loud that had to have been! But worse yet, what was I going to do with eight or nine women in my house if there was a tornado coming? Our only “basement” was a very small dirt dugout cellar under the house, and it was definitely not a place I wanted to take these women! Not only was it dirty and smelly, but it also appeared to have a small creek running through the middle of it every time it rained! No, we would have to just get blown away in the tornado before I would take them down there! So, we did like any good prayer group should do. We stayed right there in the living room and prayed! There was a great sigh of relief when the siren finally stopped blaring about thirty minutes later. I hollered out the front door to the firemen who had gathered across the street, “Is it safe to come out?” They said that they thought the tornado was a false alarm and we should be ok. Whew! That was a relief! And also an answer to prayer, I might add!
There was also a railroad crossing right in the middle of our little village, and the train whistle could be heard for many a mile as it roared through the countryside. We loved to run out and watch the train fly past as we waved at the conductor and the men in the red caboose! What fun for our boys! (I kind of liked it too).
I guess I never realized how noisy this little town was until I started writing all of this down! There was one more sound that I actually enjoyed, and it gave me a sense of peace and calm each day. It was the sound of church bells ringing everyday at noon, and then hymns would play for half an hour from the little church’s bell tower. I looked forward to that each day! We had truly found a perfect home. Or so we thought…
Psalm 91:5-6 “You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, nor of the arrow that flies by day, Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday.”
One night John woke me up out of a sound sleep to tell me that he could hear something scratching in our walls! I listened carefully but didn’t hear anything right away. Just as I was about to drift back off to sleep, he nudged me again and said, “There it is again! Did you hear it that time?” I very groggily but emphatically said “No!” But I knew there would be no more sleeping for me that night. So I lay awake and waited for the “scratching sound” to come back. I guess I drifted back off to sleep because the next time John was almost pushing me out the bed saying, “Get up! There’s something really big in there! It must be a huge rat! Listen, can’t you hear it?” I jumped up and said, “Well, what do you want me to do about it?” He said, “Here, take this flashlight and go see if you can see anything!” “ME?” I cried, “Why me?? What about YOU?” He said, “Well, your eyes are better than mine!”
Of course, everyone had to lick the batter!
I hope you have enjoyed this chapter in the lives of the Steiner Family. It was truly a time of testing and faith, with never a dull moment. Somehow we survived, and my husband eventually received his Master of Divinity degree and eventually his Doctor of Ministry degree and we moved on to minister for many years in various places.... I can honestly say that the time spent in this big old house gave us many pleasant memories of how God met our needs and set the course of our lives for future "giant leaps of faith" and other interesting moves. Click HERE for Part Four: First Snow





Pamela, I loved every word of this! You paint it so clearly and lovingly, even the hard parts. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, and this won't surprise you, we have so many things in common, our parsonage when my boys were little was just down the street from our small town volunteer fire dept with..you guessed it, a huge and very loud siren to call everyone in!
Crazy huh?
Susie, I've told you before that we are soul sisters living in a parallel universe (a.k.a."The Twilight Zone")..LOL! We have lived very similar lives on the opposite ends of our nation...I can't wait to get together someday in person (or in heaven) and continue to compare notes! Thank you for stopping by my big old interesting house! It was fun, huh?
DeleteSo picturesque, the little village, the way you could walk the boys to school, even the most mice in the lovely old house are innocent and pure, if you know what I mean. I feel a longing for such a life when I read this...you were blessed. You and your family.
ReplyDeleteJeskmom...Thank you for your thoughts on this...you are correct in that this was a time of true innocense and purity...I often think back on this time in our lives as the last vestige of that age of innocense. After leaving seminary we were thrust into the battlefield and onto the front lines of ministry...someday I pray that God will give me the freedom to write the whole truth about that...and even though it was a difficult time in our lives, it was always undergirded and overshadowed by the grace and love of our Lord. That has never changed. Thank you for stopping by for a visit at our big old interesting house!!!
DeleteLoved this. And the pictures! That was so funny about you not letting the ladies in the basement! I can just picture it all, right down the creek! lol. I will have to post a pic of the Victorian farmhouse my hub had when we first got married- it is similar to your old house!We lived there together for @ 2-3years. Thanks for sharing family memories! But the poor little mice!
ReplyDeleteDear Dawn...You are too funny...poor little mice...that is one creature I don't have much sympathy for...that and their big cousins the RATS! No thank you! I'd love to see the pictures of your Victorian Farmhouse! Please do post it! I love old houses, as long as I don't have to pay for all the repairs, etc. We have lived in several, but we rented them each time, thankfully. We now live in a 50 year old house, and that is enough repair work for me! LOL. Glad you enjoyed the story! I may post the remaining chapters in days to come. Thanks for stopping by!
DeleteThis was so fun! And Ohio...so close to "home." What seminary did your husband attend? Just curious as the churches we used to be affiliated with had a seminary in Findlay and I used to go there all the time in the early 2000's.
ReplyDeleteMy hubby went to Ashland Theological Seminary in Ashland. It is affiliated with the Church of the Brethren, although we were not members of that denomination. We were affiliated with the C&MA at that time. Glad you enjoyed the story. And this was probably when you were still just a kid...late 70's-early 80's.
DeleteI enjoyed your story and the monster in the night. Made me think of our mouse story too. Things are quiet in the night and then you can hear everything. That is why we use loud fans to drown out the sounds.
ReplyDeleteYes, I believe everyone has probably heard a mouse in the night at some time and thought it was something huge! Those kinds of sounds in the night can be most disturbing! LOL.
DeleteHa, ha, well told story about the monster/s that plagued your house. I enjoyed reading this chapter of the Steiner story.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Penny. I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I guess it was a kind of a Halloween story without me even intending it to be so! LOL.
DeleteYou had me so intrigued by this story, Pam, and the photos, too. I just couldn't stop reading! Thanks for sharing, too, about the "monsters." Perfect for this Halloween season!
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
Thank you, Martha! You know, I never even thought about the Halloween season in connection with this story, but you are right, it is perfect...even the picture of the Halloween costume parade...sometimes we do smart things without even planning it! LOL. So glad you enjoyed the story! It's a chapter from the book that I will probably never publish!
DeleteThank you Pamela for sharing...what lovely memories. When we moved back here 7 yrs ago, the siren went off and we both rain out to look at the sky (we were so use to the tornado sirens in Alabama)...then the neighbor told us what the sirens meant; one wail was an accident, 2 wails or longer were a fire. Geesh...anyways, I prefer old houses to new even with the critters. smiles
ReplyDeleteYes, I love old houses too. If we were younger and more energetic I wouldn't mind having another old house, but we are at an age where we don't want all the extra maintenance that comes with that territory. But we have very fond memories from our time in that old house. We weren't there long, maybe a year, but it was an adventure for our whole family! Thank you for taking the time to visit today.
DeleteI really enjoyed reading this and seeing the old photos. We had a tornado siren right across the street too where I grew up. It was incredibly loud. Thank you for sharing these memories with us!
ReplyDeleteYes, those tornado sirens can be rather unnerving, especially if they go off in the night! Thankfully we never had any real storms while we lived in that old house. That was many years ago now, and I believe the house is still standing from what I hear, so it was built well. Thank you for visiting today!
DeleteYour nighttime monster reminded me of our old house. We used to knock on the ceiling with a broom handle when the noise of the mice and squirrels got to loud.
ReplyDeleteHa Ha, I can imagine that...knocking on the ceiling. What if they responded? "knock three times" for more peanuts or cheese please! LOL.
DeleteA fun read! (I know all about those noises in the walls...ugh.)
ReplyDeleteYes, I can imagine that living in Maine you know all about those noises in the walls. The critters have to find somewhere to go to stay warm in the winter. We had a few when we lived in NH. And then when we moved to a very big old house in Fryeburg, ME, we got two cats to take care of any potential "visitors" in the night. LOL.
DeleteOld houses are so cool. They have a lot of character but do, sometimes, come with uninvited guests. When our house was new (built in 1993) the attic has easy access to some "monsters". Had one in the wall and it did sound like it was huge! *lol* Now we put out bait and there's no more monsters. Hope y'all can say the same.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Pamela (in Patterson, Georgia)
http://redbirdacres.wordpress.com
Oh, another Pamela? How wonderful!! So happy to have you visit today. Yes, those critters in the wall always sound like monsters, especially at night. We don't have that problem anymore. We live in a manufactured home now in Florida and haven't seen or heard any "monsters". We also have neighborhood outside cats who seem to like prowling around our house, and I think they have taken care of any potential monsters before they can get in the house! Thanks so much for visiting. Now I need to come visit you at Redbird Acres!
DeleteWhat an entertaining and endearing read! I can sure identify with that particular feeling of terror when the storm sirens begin to wail. Giggling over the monster in the wall. More stories, please?
ReplyDeleteThank you, Myra. I am so glad you enjoyed this post and my little story. More stories? Well, if you click on the label for Giant Leaps of Faith you may find more stories from this particular era in our lives. That would be one way to follow the trail. I wrote a few more along that line, and then kind of gave up on it. Some day I may finish that "book". Thank you again, and praying neither of us have any more monsters in our walls or sirens wailing! LOL.
DeleteThat was fun! I had to laugh that John made you go first into the attic to look or the monster! Wait 'til I see him again!! :)
ReplyDeleteLOL. Yes, he is a big brave state trooper, but a little tiny mouse can take him down to his knees. LOL. I'm not all that fond of them either, and it did sound much bigger in the wall in the night. I was always more of a country girl than he was a country boy I guess. LOL.
DeletePam: "It was a time of testing and faith." sums up a lot of our lives back then. Some of my times of testing caused my faith to grow. I enjoyed seeing pictures of you and your sons. Peace and blessings to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteYes, our times of testing always should help us to grow in our walk with the Lord. We can either allow God to teach us something in the midst of our trials, or we can shy away and wallow in fear or lack of trust. I am thankful that the Lord helped us to grow stronger because we had much bigger "monsters" to face in the future. Praying for you now as you face your battles ahead. God is with you.
DeleteI sure DID enjoy reading this. What a good story it was too...a life like you two & the boys had, I think, made your family all the stronger. At least that's how I like to think. Oh and the sound of a train whistle would be thrilling...not just once, either. This reminds me of a story when Bud and I were outdoors and a muskrat came into our yard (in the dark)...Bud was a bit way too feminine in my opinion! Scaredy cat feminine. Lol
ReplyDeleteThank you, Anni. Yes, we believe that God truly helped us to grow stronger through the trials and tribulations we faced early on. He was preparing us for the future bigger "monsters" that we would have to fight...and the wonderful part was, God never left us alone in our battles. He was and is always there for us, no matter how big or ugly the monster may be. So thankful for that assurance. Thank you for sharing your muskrat story. Your Bud sounds like he and my John would get along just fine. LOL.
DeleteThe old photos of you and John with your three sons are very endearing.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Barbara. I love looking at them and remembering how sweet our little family was and how God was with us all that time as well as He is now. We had much to learn way back then, and guess what? We are still learning. The lessons sometimes get more difficult as we get older, but our God never changes. He is ALWAYS there for us, no matter how hard the test! So thankful.
DeleteSuch a great blog post and I love the photos. My parents had always told me to call them when I lived alone in my first home if I got scared, one night I heard something in the attic and called......their phone rang and rang and they never answered!!! We all laughed about that. I finally drove to their home and slept there . It ended up being a raccoon in y attic!
ReplyDeleteHa Ha! That sounds like something I would do...sleep through the phone ringing. But sounds like you did the right thing anyway. Who could sleep with a raccoon in the attic? Not me!! LOL.
DeleteI enjoyed this excerpt very much, especially the mouse story. You never know what lives in the walls of old houses. This all reminds me of my Aunt Laura and Uncle Tom's house in upstate NY.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Melanie. So glad you enjoyed it. Yes, those old houses had all kinds of stories to tell!!!
DeleteIts fun to see the old photos :)
ReplyDeleteThank you, Annie! I kind of enjoyed looking at them again myself. It's hard to believe my little boys were ever that little! Precious memories.
DeleteOh PS.. my story was real and was just one little adventure from childhood.
ReplyDeleteI loved it!! I can just see you now! It sure was a spooky scene!!
DeleteThank you for sharing all 3 of these stories. I so enjoyed reading them.
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to read them all!! They are all precious memories now. I imagine you have been through some trials too since your hubby is a pastor. It's a unique calling and oftentimes the preparation can be rigorous to help prepare us for what is yet to come...but God never forsakes us!
DeleteOh Pam, what adventures you had in that cool old house. These are the memories that last a lifetime. Who said graduate school was dull, boring, or uneventful. LOL!
ReplyDeleteLove and blessings!
Oh trust me, nothing was ever dull, boring, or uneventful in our lives. There was rarely ever a dull moment, especially back when we were preparing for the ministry and also in our early years of ministry. We had so much to learn, and much of it could not be learned through books and classes! Much had to be learned on the job the old fashioned way! But God always saw us through, no matter how difficult the test. Very thankful.
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