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Friday, October 10, 2025

Friday Foto Friends and Thankful Thoughts

 

(My front doormat)

It's Friday already! Wow!  And I realize I haven't had much to say this week, however, I want to thank each of  you who left kind comments on my previous post.  They are each one appreciated. There were, however, a couple of comments that I had to delete! One left a very negative political comment that was inappropiate no matter which side of the aisle one is on.  Name calling and ugly slurs will not be tolerated. Sorry. This one was another anonymous commenter, thankfully. I'd prefer not to know who it was.   

The other comment actually had a name attached, but it is a commenter I don't really know and who often leaves comments that usually have nothing to do with my post, and hence it appears to be a spammer.  But this time this "person" made the comment with words that stated that my post was pretty much worthless and therefore why do I even blog? (paraphrasing...I deleted it so I don't remember the exact words).  But it made me stop and think.  Why DO I blog?  Sometimes I do feel like my posts are not all that great, and I often question myself about it's worth.  I'm not asking for commendations here...I'm basically talking to myself.  The thing about social media is that people can take pot shots at you and disappear back into the woodwork without realizing the hurt or harm they may have done. Or maybe that was their intent.   Whatever the reason, it made me question myself and if I weren't a fairly strong person I would be tempted to run away and hide. But I've taken stock and thought about it and realized that yes, there's always room for improvement, and I will endeavor to do better in the future, but I will be careful to check my own responses and comments to be sure that they cause no harm but only encourage and lift up the person.  Certainly we can all use some constructive criticism from time to time, but it needs to be done with love and respect for each other.  Enough said on that subject.

I mentioned the other day that I was looking forward to reading the newest Jan Karon book, "My Beloved", as soon as I could find it. Well, I found it at our public library and I think I was the first person to check it out!  I can't wait to start reading it!  This is her latest book in the Mitford series, which we all thought she was finished with, but she just couldn't let it all end.  I hope to start reading tonight, right after I finish this post!

This has been a pleasant week, without too much going on. We've taken a few walks, and I was surprised to see this Great White Egret along our walking pathway. Normally we see them in or near water, but the water was across the highway you see in the distance. I guess he just wanted to come take a little walk in the woods. He was a lovely sight to see.

This past  Monday was our grandson Noah's 26th birthday. We did finally get to talk to him and had a wonderful conversation, which was a real blessing to us. He sounds good and we are always thankful to hear from him. He lives in Maine, so we don't get to see each other very often.  Every call is priceless to us.

Noah, last year on a trip out west


I've been enjoying this pot of Penta growing on my front porch.  The light pink bunch is a separate flower pot that I put in the middle of the others, which were already there. The pink ones were a birthday gift from my neighbor (and her daughter) across the street...the same lady that I got  our "porch kitties" Sunshine and Blackie from. She is doing better, but is housebound and needs some caregivers to come and help out from time to time.  She's a dear lady and I am thankful to have her as my neighbor.
Speaking of Sunshine and Blackie...here's where Sunshine spent the whole day today, sleeping on the glass table on the back porch:
He's feeling kind of blue, I think, because his buddy Blackie has been MIA again. He was here yesterday morning for breakfast, but he'd been gone the day before and then all day yesterday after breakfast, and all day today.  I don't know where he goes or what he's doing, but he has been doing this almost every week...taking off for at least a day or two and then he shows back up as if nothing was unusual.  Sunshine stays right here close to home and watches for him to show up.  


I feel sad for him because they are such good buddies  and I know he's lonely.  Hopefully Blackie will show back up soon.
(Older picture)

Speaking of neighbors, our new neighbors in the new house next door to us have agreed to come over and feed the kitties every day while we are on our little mountain vacation next week. I am so thankful for them being willing to do that! That's a real answer to prayer. 

I don't remember if I've shared with you our new Ladies'  Bible Study for this fall/winter:

 The back description says: "You're not the only one who...struggles to trust God's plan for your life; wants to maintain control in the midst of the chaos; prays for a well-marked map from Jesus--but rarely gets one."

I think we all need to have a better understanding in our lives about how to trust God's plan for our lives, even when we can't understand what on earth He's doing.  We want to be the one in control, but life just goes so much better when we let go of our own will and let God be in charge.  It's not easy for us to do that, but there is so much more peace when we do.

I am thankful for this weekly time spent with other ladies, studying God's Word and sharing our own life experiences about letting God be in control.  

I am also thankful that today has been a rainy day, pretty much all day long.  Little by little our Still Waters Pond is getting "revived and refreshed" with new water. What a blessing!  

This makes me think about this song, "Fill My Cup, Lord".  When I was a counselor at the Methodist Youth Camp the summer after I graduated from high school, (many moons ago), that song was our theme song. We would go to area churches in between camps and our team would sing this song. So it became a very meaningful and favorite song for me.  It is based on the story from John chapter 4, where Jesus meets the Samaritan woman at the well.   Here is the song:
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Like the woman at the well, I was seeking
For things that could not satisfy.
And then I heard my Savior speaking—
“Draw from My well that never shall run dry.”

Chorus:
Fill my cup, Lord;
I lift it up Lord;
Come and quench this thirsting of my soul.
Bread of Heaven, feed me till I want no more.
Fill my cup, fill it up and make me whole.
2
There are millions in this world who are seeking
For pleasures earthly goods afford.
But none can match the wondrous treasure
That I find in Jesus Christ my Lord.

Chorus
3
So my brother if the things that this world gives you
Leave hungers that won’t pass away,
My blessed Lord will come and save you
If you kneel to Him and humbly pray—

Chorus

Songwriters: Richard Blanchard

John 4:13-14
13 Jesus answered and said to her, “Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”



Yes, fill MY cup, Lord, I lift it up, Lord...
Amen.



Good Night dear friends. Until we meet again.
May God be with you.






 




21 comments:

  1. I'm so sorry someone left a nasty comment for you. This is something I don't understand with social media. Some people just like to be rude. As far as what you post, I think we become friends and enjoy hearing what's happening in each others lives. It's not like any of us are published authors! So keep doing what you are doing and know that your friends out here love you and love to hear from you!
    Glad you got to talk with Noah, precious times indeed.
    That Blackie is a cat about town... hope he's back soon.
    Your bible study book sounds like a really good one!

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    1. Thank you, Mari. I was totally shocked by both of the negative comments, but I'm learning to take such stuff in stride. It's just sad that social media has brought out the worst in some, and the best in others. I prefer to stay here with the "best". I love our friends and look forward to what each has to share. It all has value and each person is a blessing to me. Yes, that Blackie is something else. I think he's found another family who must just show up a couple of days a week or something. When they leave, he comes back here. I don't know, but hopefully he'll show up soon. Sunshine is very lonely and wants to come inside with me. Sadly we just aren't ready for that yet...and I really think he'd stay happier being free outside. But time will tell. If Blackie doesn't come back...well, we'll cross that bridge if we come to it. I hope you have a lovely weekend.

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  2. There are rude people around aren't there? I posted a photo of Charlie Kirk in a previous post and 4 people stopped following me. I don't stop following blogs just because of different views! Your cats look so sweet together and I am happy to hear there is a new Mitford book.

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    1. Hello Terra. So good to hear from you. People are so divided these days, and who would have thought that the death of Charlie Kirk would bring out the meanness in so many...but it also has brought out the love of Christ in many many more. There is such a move toward Christ on college campuses and beyond now, so we can smile at our enemies. Jesus wins. Thank you for your kind comments. I hope you are doing well.

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  3. I am back at my blogs! I am so excited to be here. I am sorry for the mean comments. I try to avoid it at social media too but here you can delete or block without any hassles. People have to realize the countdown is getting closer each day as we live in such troubled times. One day Jesus will surprise us with HIS return! I want to be there. Oh your grandson Noah is so handsome. I love seeing all the loved ones. The kitties are good pals. I hope Blackie stays close by. We watch all the various sports and I am so happy to see so many outspoken Christian men in the NFL. What a turnaround. I blogged briefly today but I will get better as I get into the new week. Our grandsons B&B have two more baseball games tomorrow and next Saturday. Our little church has services on Saturday as they are a small church and share the church building with another pastor and congregation. Its a joy to be there. We attended a larger church but we aren't into the coffee clubs so many churches are setting up. We just want to hear God's word. So much going on. Iam always happy to see you here. LOVE & HUGS

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    1. So wonderful to see you back here! I will have to go say howdy on your blogs. Yes, you are so right about "the countdown is getting closer each day..." That's why the devil and his minions are ramping up their act because they know their time is short. I am also happy to see more and more young people turning to Christ in these times. God is at work in our world. Thank you for your kind words and good news. So happy to see you again in Blogland!

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  4. When you get criticism from others due to your beliefs, Pam, resolve to stay strong and answer with love and measured compassion. Your gifts for those is much better than mine which is why I got off Facebook so many years ago, They aren't reality, God is, so cling to Him and His Word.
    So happy to know that Blackie has returned home and that your new neighbors will be looking after your beloved kitties when you take your trip to Georgia with your "kids." We are experiencing true fall weather here, and hope you can do the same, sweet friend. Blessings!

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    1. Thank you, Martha. I am looking forward to our trip next week. Please save that good fall weather for us! And yes, lately I've been thinking about getting off Facebook, but then again, it gives me opportunities to spread some light in the darkness, so I try to do that instead of giving in to the negative people out there. Sometimes it's hard, but this world needs Jesus even more now in these turbulent times. However, I must say my activity there is much less than it used to be. I hope you have a lovely weekend, and Lord willing we will be passing close by your neck of the woods in the middle of the week. Not quite close enough to visit, but I will be thinking about you and wishing we could. Take care my friend.

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  5. I know that a lot of bloggers and bloggers get very, very rude comments in addition to the spam that goes around. I think a lot of the 'commenters' are actually not even real people but just programmed to leave hate where ever they can.

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    1. I agree, and that's so sad. I enjoy coming here to visit and get to know our friends in blogland. For the most part, we are all a happy and convivial group. We may not always agree on everything, but we can be polite and kind regardless of our differences. Thank you for being a friend.

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  6. Oh my word, Pam. I'm stunned and saddened by these ill-spirited comments. You have to assume the writer(s) is an individual miserable with his/her own life, but it's discouraging to realize they walk among us. Thank you for taking the High Road.
    Your birthday blooms must have been such a sweet surprise. I'm so glad you're surrounded by great neighbors. (I hope Blackie doesn't think his former 'momma' is going to take him away and he's hiding.)
    We're just about ready to decide on a new Bible study, so I want to investi-Google yours and see if our ladies might be interested.
    Happy Saturday!

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    1. Thank you, Myra. I guess one thing I've learned as I've participated in social media, you gotta have thick skin! I also have learned that I need to know when to speak, and when to keep my mouth shut. Sometimes I have trouble with that part, and I have to pray that God will guard my tongue. Oh, that's the hardest part, and I often fail. But I think the Bible says somewhere something about a "soft answer turns away wrath". Sounds like a Proverb. I'll look it up later, or you can if you want to! Anyway, I am thankful for you and the vast majority of our blogging friends, who are always kind and gracious and uplifting. That's why I stay here. Re: Blackie, I just hope he hasn't gotten himself stuck somewhere where he can't get out...I worry about that, but again, I'm not in control, God is, even with our pets. I just pray he's okay wherever he is. Thank you for being a friend.

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  7. I'm glad you are strong enough to set aside the bitterness of the bad commentor. And I am proud to see you gave thought to the question hurled at you---why do you bother? Well, now you are affirmed even stronger in why you blog-----You are an Encourager! I often find the strength to get through the day after reading your blog; the way you see His beauty all around you, the people you care for, the trials you face. And through it all you share His word, His love and His hope. Stay the course. <3

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    1. Thank you so much. You are an encourager as well. I do hope the day will come when we can meet face to face. You are just on the other side of the river from us, but I know it seems like life and time just get in the way of doing the things we'd love to do. SOMEDAY we will meet, I pray!! Thank you for these words of blessing today. You have made me smile.

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  8. The nerve of some people. It's a good thing bloggers continue to rise above that, and are the shining light of the internet.

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    1. Thank you..."Anonymous"...I appreciate your kind words...and I wish I knew who you were! I like that thought, "It's a good thing bloggers continue to rise above that, and are the shining light of the internet." That's a good thought to remember.

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  9. Yes Pamela, you definitely are an Encourager. That's one of the reasons I visit your blog. You have a gift.
    So happy to see that Still Water Pond is "refreshing" and filling. PTL for your rain.
    We are suppose to get 2 days next week of pretty good measurable rain. We'll see how that turns out, but I'm not complaining. We do need a lot more of that wet stuff.
    Wonder where Blackie goes? Sad to see Sunshine so sad.
    Have a great week and a fabulous vacation to refresh you and your sweet Hubby.
    Sue

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    1. Oh, thank you Sue. You are such a blessing and a true sweet spirit among us. I'm so glad we finally connected here! I do hope you all will get some much needed rain as well. Ours kind of comes and goes...we never get what the forecast says we are going to get, but at least it's something better than nothing so we are thankful for every drop. And I am still missing Blackie and so is Sunshine. This is longer than he's ever been gone before, so now I'm getting concerned that he may be stuck somewhere that he can't get out of or something. I am praying for his safe return and I have to commit him to God. Sunshine has been very clingy and I'm getting more and more tempted to go get a litter box and just let him come on in...but he's a jumper and I'm afraid of where he will jump in this house...there are many "things" up high and that could be a disaster! We'll see how it goes... Thank you for your kind words again. Blessings to you dear friend.

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  10. Happy birthday to Noah! I'm glad you got to talk with him!! My grandson called me today, out of the blue! Made my heart so happy, as I know talking to Noah makes your heart happy! Shame on Blackie for wandering!! He needs to stay home where he is safe and cared for!! It's great that your neighbors will watch out for them and feed them while you are gone. That makes traveling happier, when you don't worry about the furbabies! Have a wonderful time in the mountains and share a whole bunch of your photos when you return!! xo

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    1. Thank you, Terri. Yes, we had such a nice conversation with Noah. He sounds so good, and I feel better about "things" than I have for a while. I know God is working in his life, and He has good plans for him. And yes, shame on Blackie. He's still MIA, and I am getting a bit concerned. I just pray he's safe somewhere and when he's ready he'll show up as if nothing has changed, but meanwhile Sunshine is really sad and clingy. And yes, I am very thankful for our new neighbors who have volunteered to help out next week. (although I am going to pay them for their help). I'm sure everything will be fine...I just hope Blackie comes home before we leave. And yes, you know I'll be sharing pictures from our trip. I'm getting anxious to get going now! I'm ready for a vacation!!!

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  11. Grr on commenters who do that, been there, and sometimes still dealing with it. Happy Birthday to Noah and I am so happy to know you guys are talking. Keeping in prayer with your traveling. smiles

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