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Tuesday, October 29, 2024

Vacation Part Two: Visiting Friends and a Beautiful Wedding!

 

North Georgia Mountains

In case you missed "Part One" of our vacation, it was HERE.  I promised I would share the rest of the story today, so here it is.  I thank you all for your wonderful comments on my first post.  I have missed you all so much and it is really like "coming home" to get back to all my blogging friends. I am still trying to work my way around to reading your posts, but to be honest, I haven't felt quite up to par today...I developed a sore throat on our last day that became a cold and plus the other physical "issues" of being away from home and eating a lot of food and sitting a long time riding, etc., well, let's just say it's good to be back home with my own "facilities" close by. TMI. LOL.  

One little story about our ride home on Sunday...we got up early and left the hotel without eating any breakfast. Our room had a "Keurig" coffee pot, with one pod of "green tea" available, and since I woke up with a sore throat,  I had that cup of  decaf green tea before before we left. However, that wasn't very satisfying and I was really longing for a good cup of hot "real tea", so when we finally stopped at a Hardee's in South Carolina for some of their good "homemade biscuits" with egg and bacon, etc. that I'd seen advertised and thought it'd be a good place for breakfast...well, I asked for a cup of hot tea. You would have thought I had asked for "green eggs and ham, Sam I am"...the girl looked at me and said, "I don't think we have hot tea." I said, "Oh, you've got to be kidding?".  She said, "No, Ma'am, I don't think we do, but I'll ask the manager." The manager woman was quite stressed with the cooks not baking enough biscuits fast enough and she really didn't want to be bothered with my need for a cup of hot tea, and she told the girl that they don't have hot tea.  So I asked if I could please just have a cup of hot water, as I had some tea bags in the car, and the manager very curtly replied that they don't do that there and they can't be bothered with that, or something of that nature...  The poor order girl looked at me apologetically and whispered that I could probably get some at the Dunkin' Donuts next door. LOL.  So we did go over there after we ate our biscuit sandwiches in the car (because of the doggies) (which was very good, BTW), and I ran inside to ask for a cup of hot tea, only to discover that there was a LONG line of people waiting for their special coffee latte's or whatever they wanted, and only one person making them, and another long line around the building at the drive thru, and so I gave up on getting any hot tea there!  A little later we stopped at a truck stop for a pit stop and they had hot water (VERY HOT water), so I got some there and used my own tea bag, but it took about a half hour before it cooled down enough to drink...(I should've gotten some ice!)  So long story short, don't ask for hot tea at a Hardee's (or almost any fast food place in the south), "cause they don't do that there"!  I should've known better. When we lived up in New England I asked for "Iced Tea" at a McDonald's, and they didn't know what I was talking about. I had to get a cup of hot tea and a cup of ice and make my own! LOL.  The things we will do for a cup of hot tea (or iced tea) when we are traveling! LOL.  

All this talk about tea...here I am having a cup of hot tea now, as I still have a cold and the tea feels so good...(this is an old picture, but actually I am drinking from the same cup and it looks exactly like this. LOL.)


So let's get down to business here...when we left our mountain cabin on Friday we were headed toward Charlotte, NC for my great-nephew's wedding on Saturday.  However we made a little bit of a detour for lunch.  We picked up hamburgers, etc. at a Wendy's and took them to share with some dear friends of ours who live in a little town in Georgia kind of on our way.  They have a beautiful piece of property and actually own and manage a place that has apartments for retired missionaries and/or retired pastors. It's a long story how they ended up there, but they are retired from the ministry themselves. They have wanted us to come visit for a long time, and finally it worked out for us to stop for a short visit. We ate the burgers together out on their picnic tables, and then the guys went on a tour of the property while us girls had a tour of their home.

Here's Cindy and Ken in front of their home.

This is me with Cindy...

and Rose with the grandpuppies, Sugar and Spice.

And there goes the guys in Ken's new toy he'd just gotten for his birthday the day before!

Benton was riding in the back, and holding on for dear life...LOL.

Here Cindy is showing us her "quilt room", where she makes  quilts. I believe she also teaches others to  quilt.  

This is just one example of her work, although the lighting is not good so you really can't see how beautiful this quilt is:

And this is one that her mother made, which is also gorgeous.  

Cindy also teaches classes in card making, and the cards are just stunning. 


This is the room where she holds her classes:


This is is an example of the types of "cards" they make:

We had such a nice, but too short of a visit with them, and then we had to get on our way to Charlotte. Unfortunately we still ran into a lot of very heavy traffic on I-85, and it was a rather long and tense trip, but we finally arrived at our hotel safely a bit later than we anticipated.

It was bumper to bumper like this all the way for hours...

This is a South Carolina Peach! LOL.

So NOW, the story you are really waiting for...the wedding!  

First of all, let me tell you that the wedding was planned to be outside, in a woodsy setting at my niece's home,  and I deliberated over what to take with me to wear for an outdoor wedding in late October in NC.  It could be cold, or it could be warm.  I figured it would be fall-like cool weather and planned my outfit accordingly for an outdoor wedding in the woods.

If you remember, I told you about this beautiful hand-crochet' shawl HERE, and the significance of it. I decided to plan my outfit based on these colors, since it was definitely created with beautiful fall colors.
So, yes, this is what I wore, however, it turned out to be 80+ degrees the evening of the wedding! Who would've guessed that?  And so I really wasn't able to keep the shawl on for long because it was really too warm, but I kept it with me and showed it off to loved ones and friends and told them the story behind it.  The weather really had a mind of its own that evening, but more about that later...
Back view...

As I said, the wedding "chapel" was set in a lovely woodsy setting on my niece's property. My brother and my niece's husband both worked for months, cutting trees and creating these lovely wooden benches for everyone to sit on. It was gorgeous.
Here we are waiting for the wedding to start.  Oh, I should mention that Rose did not attend the wedding. It was a difficult decision, but because of the length of time we would be away, she felt it was going to be too long a time for the pups to be left alone in the hotel room, and so she opted to stay with them. It was probably a wise decision, because we ended up being gone longer than we expected...

This is me with my niece Debbie, my sister Doris's daughter, who lives down here in Florida.

And here is Debbie with her son Dillon, and my sister Doris and her hubby Art. (from near Orlando)


Sitting behind us was my nephew Brian and his wife Sara,  and Brian's sister Denean (they are my deceased brother Russell's children), and her boyfriend George.  They all live in Georgia, near Atlanta.


Seated in front of us was my niece Leslie and her daughter Zoe. Leslie is my brother Clifford's daughter, and they live in Charlotte.

Waiting for the service to begin...this setting was so peaceful and beautiful. Many times throughout the service leaves would gracefully and silently fall to the ground, like heavenly blessings from above...


While we waited a musician played lovely music on his classical guitar.  I believe I heard the strains of "Hallelujah"...very pretty.


This is my other niece Sandy, (daughter of my brother Clifford) and her husband Todd, the mother and father of the groom.

And this is my great-nephew, Casey, The Groom.

This is my great-niece Sarah (Casey's sister), one of the bridesmaids:

And my other great niece, Meg, (sister of Casey), another of the bridesmaids.
I didn't get pictures of all the bridesmaids and groomsmen, just the ones that I knew personally!

And here comes the bride, Jordan!
(my sister took this photo quickly before we were asked to put away our cell phones from there on and let the professional photographer take the pictures, so I had to "borrow" this picture from my sister. LOL)

The wedding ceremony was beautiful, and one thing they did was serve communion.  You can't see them, but Casey and Jordan and two others were serving communion to us. Casey is an ordained Presbyterian minister, working on his PhD in Religion, Ethics, and Philosophy, and Jordan is also an ordained Chaplain and is working on her PhD in Social Work. Together they serve in the ministry.


The tables were all set up in the front yard of my niece Sandy's home for the reception dinner.  There was a "cocktail hour" while the wedding party had pictures taken and the wedding dinner was being prepared.


Here's my brother Clifford, (grandfather of the groom), running around taking care of last minute details...
Gotta love his smile.  And he's such a hard worker...never guess he just turned 80 a couple of weeks ago!


We managed to get him to sit down for a minute with our sister Doris and me for a family photo:


And here he is with his lovely wife Caryl:

And here's Doris and my hubby John and me...we're all patiently waiting for the dinner to begin, however...

It started to RAIN!!!!   And here we were...about 150 people outside waiting for a dinner in the rain. The caterers thankfully had large plastic table cloths to cover the dinner tables and chairs completely while it rained, and they also provided plastic parkas for every guest:
However, the rain continued for probably an hour, and even though it was a light rain, thankfully, it was wet!  After a while we realized that it was getting pretty late and we didn't want to leave Rose alone that long, and then I developed a sudden nose-bleed, which apparently was the pre-curser to my sore throat and cold the next morning. SO, hubby, Benton and I made the difficult decision to leave before the dinner was served, since we had to get up early the next morning to drive all the way home.

The rain did eventually stop, and I am told that they did serve the dinner as planned and had a wonderful rest of the evening, dancing and enjoying the wedding reception.

Here's the Bride and Groom dancing together...

And Casey dancing with his mother:
And this was the "cookie table", instead of wedding cake:

And this was the bride and groom's cake...Oh, did I mention that they are both "vegan", and the cake and the dinner was also vegan...I wish I had a copy of the menu...I forgot to bring that home with me, but it looked very interesting...and I understand it was very delicious.



And here's the happy couple, ready to begin their life together!  What a beautiful ending to a perfect day, in spite of the rain!  (These last photos were courtesy of my sister and my niece).



Not the end...Just the beginning!!  May God bless them and keep them, and make His face to shine upon them...and give them peace...now and forever. Amen!




























15 comments:

  1. Pam: I will email you about my experience with ordering tea for breakfast in Tennessee. I love the pictures of the wedding guests. I like the idea of communion at the wedding So thankful you made it home safely. Peace and blessings to you and yours.

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  2. How wonderful to be with family! Beautiful setting.

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  3. What a beautiful setting and wedding, even in the rain!
    I also posted a wedding we just had for my niece, which was outside, but only 57 degrees. However, it felt pretty good to us Mich people. :) Other similarities - my niece and her new husband will be going into mission work. They didn't serve cake, but had pumpkin donuts instead.
    You and your sister look a lot alike! Your brother really does look younger that his age. I'm glad you got to see a lot of family before you had to leave.
    Your shawl is beautiful and a priceless gift!

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  4. That wedding venue is just beautiful!! The rain was a shame but it sounds like they were somewhat prepared for the weather and that the reception eventually carried on. Pam, I am so sorry that you have a terrible cold! Hoping each day finds you feeling better. It was fun meeting your family (by picture) and the wedding was a lovely way to end your week away. Take care!! xo

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  5. What a beautiful place for a wedding and everything was just beautiful. Having an outdoor wedding can definitely provide some interesting moments. I'm sorry you all had to leave early.
    Your outfit was gorgeous and it's too bad you didn't get to wear the shawl all evening.
    That manager! Oh my goodness! I don't think she belongs in the "hospitality" business at all. I'm glad you finally got your tea even though it took a long time and I'll also pray that you'll soon be well.
    Blessings and hugs,
    Betsy

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  6. Oh, I forgot to say how much I love your friends quilt and card room. I would love to have a room that big for my yarn and sewing machine. She looks like a really sweet lady.
    Betsy

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  7. what a beautiful wedding! That craft room is awesome, I would love that! that Scarf looks really pretty with what you had on, I am so sorry you got sick and the "tea bag" saga that is sad. Big HUGS to you!

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  8. What an absolutely beautiful wedding and wedding setting. I love outdoor wedding venues and this one is particularly lovely in a fall setting. Your outfit matched the setting colours perfectly. I'm amazed by how hot it was though. I'm sorry you got sick and I hope you get better soon. By the way, your friend makes such beautiful quilts. I'm glad she is passing along her knowledge through classes.

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  9. What a beautiful wedding! Your shawl was so pretty!

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  10. Congratulations to the Bride and Groom and to all your wonderful and beautiful family and friends. the perfect place for a wedding. I am In Love with their home! and the chapel is stunning. super idea to do it outside even with the rain. I would have done the same thing Rose did, would never leave Beau longer than a few minutes in a hotel room. dogs do not like strange places and especailly not being left alone. good job Rose. your outfit looks super great and wow on matching the colors so perfeclty

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  11. I'm so sorry your vacation was spoiled by a sore throat -- and rude (fast food) employees. I've not had occasion to use it in years, but still keep a little 'boiler' device in my overnight bag -- you know, the kind you can clip on the side of your mug and plug in any electrical outlet to boil water.
    Rain and all, the wedding was exquisite! I loved how you and Doris hammed it up in your rain parkas. Attitude is everything!
    Again, thank you for sharing your joy with us.

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  12. The outdoor setting was a perfect venue for the wedding, and glad the rain held off until after the ceremony. Your colors matched perfectly, Pam, even if you did not need the shawl. Even though the rain put a delay on dinner, it seemed everyone was enjoying themselves and loved the photo of you in the rain gear!

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  13. What a beautiful setting for the wedding and your outfit matched it perfectly. It looks like such a wonderful family gathering despite the rain.
    I sure hope you feel better. Not a fun way to end a wonderful time.
    I understand about the hot tea too. Thats all my Hubby drinks. We were at Krispy Kreme for donuts a few years ago. They had no tea and would not get hot water for us either. Those coffee machines do have a spigot for hot water but there was no arguing with them. Truly disappointed with the lack of accomodations at most fast food places. Lesson learned always have your own tea bags handy.
    Sue

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  14. Like you, I am struggling to get caught up on all my blog reading. I did see your FB pics and knew you were having a good time in a beautiful area. I read Part 1...so pretty. I am glad y'all were able to go and see such beauty and family.

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